I've been UN-dumped

[Dorothy Wood]

yep. after he got my email, he said he drafted 10 different versions of a response, but in the end decided to call me. I didn't answer. he texted and he called again, but I was busy at choir practice, so I waited until around 10:30 p.m. or so to call him back. he had been driving around after work for hours, waiting. ha!

he sat in his car on the side of the road and we talked for over 3 hours. In that time I called him gay, super gay, a jerk, an asshole, an idiot, etc. but he kept talking to me. part of why he was scared was that he was talking to some of our friends who are engaged (and terrified) and it freaked him out and he thought about marrying me and he got really scared. and I told him he was lame, it's too early for that shit. then we started going back to regular ways talking about zombies and poop...but then I'd be laughing and all of a sudden get sad. he said I should come over and listen to records sometime and I said, "NO! you ruined our friendship, dumbass, I hate you". and then I think he started to realize that he really did ruin things.

he said, "you're driving me crazy, I don't think I made the right decision, should I come over with a boombox now?" and I said "yes, and you can throw a pebble at my window".


so. yeah. I have no idea what's going to happen now. but I had nightmares all night and woke up every hour or so. I'm terrified.

[camo]

*sniff, sniff*

[Lo_Lyfe]

Bastard. I'd beat him up for you if I were real.

[HOTWIFE]

don't fall for it!! he's just gonna rip your heart out again, throw it on the ground and stomp on it.

[HOTWIFE]

Bastard. I'd beat him up for you if I were real.
sig!

[venusvenus123]

choir practice is so rock and roll.

let him stew for a bit. a long bit. then i guess you'll see if he really means it. :confused:

[HOTWIFE]

choir practice is so rock and roll.

let him stew for a bit. a long bit. then i guess you'll see if he really means it. :confused:
this is good advice. you don't want him to think that he's running the show, and you're just sooooo available that you'd take him back like that

[faz]

I love when girls are like this.

We're together :) He's awesome :)
He left me. He's a total tool. I hate him. I wish he'd die :mad:
We spoke :o
We're back together again. I love him (y)

[Dorothy Wood]

right, I didn't really fall for anything. for all I know, later today he'll call me and be like, "I can't do this".

all I know is, cort's boyfriend broke up with her after three months because he wasn't sure she was "the one". like he had to know he wanted to marry her after only 3 months. anyway, they got back together the next day. in a similar fashion. and now they are in love and planning on getting married. and he admits that he was scared and jumping the gun. because in those first 3 months, they didn't even really know each other that well.

whatever, I'm a sensible person. I gave my side, I fought for something good and he actually came over. like the movies. I was actually shocked.

bah. I have to go work. I'm sleepy.

[Dorothy Wood]

I love when girls are like this.

We're together :) He's awesome :)
He left me. He's a total tool. I hate him. I wish he'd die :mad:
We spoke :o
We're back together again. I love him (y)


fuck off. it wasn't like that. I only hated him for how sad he made me feel. and I didn't wish he'd die. I like him. that's why I was so sad.

[paul jones]

grab him by the nuts and say 'Listen motherfucker,stop messing with my head,do you want me YES/NO?'

[HOTWIFE]

i wonder what 'love' would be like if our own fear of rejection never entered the picture. it would be weeeeeird.

[King of Rock $]

don't do anything for now

if hes still calling you in three weeks then maybe you should take him seriously

[skra75]

just have sex and have fun. stop thinking so hard. tell him to stop acting like a faggot.

[cookiepuss]

wait, wait...ok did you only go out with this guy for like a week or two? and he said he started to think about marriage?????:confused: yeah...this guy gets waaaaayyyyy ahead of himself.

I don't know. but I'd make him jump through some hoops.

[Yeti]

Sex him up and screw all this unneeded conversation. No guy wants to talk.

[GreenEarthAl]

Let your heart be your guide Kel. Keep in mind that you deserve to be treated well. Hopefully you'll get some good memories out of this at the very least.

(and some handjob experience. Which can't hurt, right?)

[Dorothy Wood]

just have sex and have fun. stop thinking so hard. tell him to stop acting like a faggot.


that's what I'm saying! I was just having fun and not really thinking about a definite future, he was the one going bonkers. I had one freak out PMS day, but otherwise I was playing it cool. it just seemed natural.

as for all the talking, he was the one who kept me on the phone. I hate talking on the phone. we'd talk about one thing and I'd go, "yup well, it's getting late, huh?" and he'd go, "this one time..." and start talking about something else. I mean, but it was fun. it was funny, we were laughing a lot.


we were unofficially seeing each other for about a month. and I think the marriage thing came into play because we've been friends for so long. and it seems like from some of the things he said last night, he's had a crush on me for a long time. which I kinda knew...but never acted on because I've been wrapped up with one douche bag or another for the past 2 years.

and I think this turned into a huge deal because there is a lot more at stake than just regular people that just met and started dating. I mean, in our conversation, we were both referring to the situation as a relationship...but then being like, "gah! we never even made anything official!" so it's very confusing. and way too intense. I'm exhausted. I just want everything to go back to how it was because this is too high stress. I'm too laid back for all of this nonsense.

[DIGI]

wait, wait...ok did you only go out with this guy for like a week or two? and he said he started to think about marriage?????:confused: yeah...this guy gets waaaaayyyyy ahead of himself.



Yeah, this guy's a total fag.

[Dorothy Wood]

:(

it's not his fault I rule so hard. :cool:

[paul jones]

:(

it's not his fault I rule so hard. :cool:
is he ticklish? try tickling him and pinching his nipples. Men love that

[Planetary]

SUCK HIS BALLS

[Dorothy Wood]

is that how you land a man for good? I already tried that. also, poking, vigorous poking. he also let me punch him and strangle him a bit. I bit him and stuck my fingers up his nose too.

[Planetary]

yeah just suck his balls and you're golden. nuzzle them a bit with your nose too.

[g-mile7]

An odd amount of "balls" talk in this thread :confused: