ladies do badboys attract you?

[ggirlballa]

cuz it seems like i am attracted to them.
the guy i like is in a taggin crew, i've seen his tags all over the city, he showed me his bag of weed, he's affliated with gangs and he's been expelled from my school and sent to an opportunity school and wears baggy clothes for a slender guy. and yet i can't stop thinking about him :/

ever dated any bad guys ladies and how'd it go?


blech this sounds like a miranda15 thread my apoligies yo

[faz]

Good girls gotta get down with the gangsters

[Drederick Tatum]

that guy sounds like a complete retard.


"showed me his bag of weed.." hahahaha

[b i o n i c]

talkin about snoop dogg: fast-forward to 03:45 (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8lU06rXezS4).

*punch*


(annoying host) XP

[b i o n i c]

how does he affiliationate with these gangs?

are the kids still wearing baggy clothes?

[RaZoRbLaDe KiSs]

Well, you see how things turned out with my X boyfriend, and he was the worst of the worst. Bad boys are hot, to an extent. I guess you gotta get it out while your young. Im still getting it out. I just dont know if I'd wanna end up with one in the long run. Could you imagine if I would have stayed with/gotten married to my X? Mmm.. as appealing as being beat and sworn at and cheated on for the rest of my life sounds...

[ggirlballa]

he's really sweet around girls though and he's shy too he's only had 2 girlfriends because of his shyness. damn is he handsome tho

[ET]

his bag of weed..

What?! That's tha tru sign of a badboy 4 lyfe.

[The Notorious LOL]

"hell yeah its supposed to have stems in it, that means its good"

[cosmo105]

you chase after douchebags that treat you like shit and drag you down with them until ultimately you either grow out of it and become happy enough with yourself to know you deserve much better OR you bounce from shithead to shithead until you let one of them completely fuck up your life. it's sad when i see some of my friends doing the latter. but it's not something you can tell someone - you sort of have to learn it yourself. but here goes anyway:

this isn't a "bad boy." this guy is fucking stupid. an "opportunity school"? sounds like a real catch. :rolleyes: grow out of it. date a sweet guy that won't fuck you over. better yet, DON'T get serious about anyone for a long time because you are still finding out who YOU are. spend this time enjoying your youth and your friends and don't ever, ever let a boy drag you down in any way. you're too young to worry about someone else's bullshit. i don't care how amazing his eyes are or how much you think you can break through that tough outer shell to the creamy sweet teddy bear inside, it just doesn't exist. fuck i wish i could make copies of my diaries from high school to circulate to girls your age - it's something we all go through, but it doesn't have to be so bad. you probably already know that if you chase after this guy it will only end up hurting you.

[Schmeltz]

he showed me his bag of weed

homeboy sound like a gangster for real

[ericlee]

Dude's in a gang in LA? Pah, just give him a kiss on the cheek. He'll die soon. The have like the same life expectancy as a Navy SEAL in perhaps a hotspot of Iraq.

Seriously, if you like badboys so much, then hang around a military base. We're all pretty damn bad and if you find the right guy, then you have a good life ahead of you.

Fuck wasting your time with these damn thugs that will get you nowhere in life.

[Randetica]

so that means i have to keep my hands off paddy?

well doesnt matter aslong i dont have to keep my mouth off him

[ms.peachy]

What Cosmo said.

[Yorkshire~Rose]

fuck i wish i could make copies of my diaries from high school to circulate to girls your age - it's something we all go through

So true. From the age of 13 to 17 i had the biggest crush on a guy who was in the 'bad crowd' at school. He was into drugs, fighting and fucked all the slutty girls but i just loved him. Nothing ever came of it, thank goodness. He is now a heroin addict and living in some crummy flat in town.

[mikizee]

i was never a bad boy in high school. hence i never really had a girlfriend then.

nice guys come last, its the truth

[-T-]

He sounds like a real Badass!!!! :rolleyes:

[befsquire]

yeah, what cosmo said, plus this:

i deal with these people every day. every single one of them telling me how they can't do jail time because they have several kids with several baby mommas, and they need to be raising their kids. well, why didn't you think about those kids when you were out on bond for selling crack, and then you get caught with crack and a gun, knowing you're a convicted felon? these women (the baby mommas) are constantly calling the cops when their man beats the shit out of them, and then they bitch at me because he's in jail and isn't out earning money to support the kids.

if you aren't looking for a good future with a solid person, then by all means, fall for the boy and either visit him in jail or visit his grave. and for the love of god, if he hits you and you call the cops, do not bitch at his attorney because he's sitting in jail, because that's on you.

[RaZoRbLaDe KiSs]

you chase after douchebags that treat you like shit and drag you down with them until ultimately you either grow out of it and become happy enough with yourself to know you deserve much better OR you bounce from shithead to shithead until you let one of them completely fuck up your life. it's sad when i see some of my friends doing the latter. but it's not something you can tell someone - you sort of have to learn it yourself. but here goes anyway:

this isn't a "bad boy." this guy is fucking stupid. an "opportunity school"? sounds like a real catch. :rolleyes: grow out of it. date a sweet guy that won't fuck you over. better yet, DON'T get serious about anyone for a long time because you are still finding out who YOU are. spend this time enjoying your youth and your friends and don't ever, ever let a boy drag you down in any way. you're too young to worry about someone else's bullshit. i don't care how amazing his eyes are or how much you think you can break through that tough outer shell to the creamy sweet teddy bear inside, it just doesn't exist. fuck i wish i could make copies of my diaries from high school to circulate to girls your age - it's something we all go through, but it doesn't have to be so bad. you probably already know that if you chase after this guy it will only end up hurting you.



I find it funny that I practically hated Cosmo back in the day, but now I consider her advice of the most ligit, correct shit I can ask for. (y)

[Bob]

when i was young, i didn't play or like sports, i didn't like roughhousing, and i was really skinny...i was a really bad boy

[Rock On]

did someone say they needed a soapbox?

[Documad]

I find it funny that I practically hated Cosmo back in the day, but now I consider her advice of the most ligit, correct shit I can ask for. (y)

She's always been right. That's probably what got under your skin in the first place. :p


When I was in high school, I was attracted to nerdy guys who were good at chess and math. I've always been a rebel.

[Drederick Tatum]

*shows Heiress his bag of weed*

[cosmo105]

She's always been right. That's probably what got under your skin in the first place. :p

:cool:

on the whole, i loved nerdy guys. i can't tell you how many guys i dated where i ended up being their first kiss. (awesome feeling, btw.) but they couldn't really handle a relationship and always freaked out. i only ever chased after a couple of douchebags but they were the ones that really dug into my skin. eventually i got over that, though, and went for a super hot geek that makes me really happy. :)

[Dorothy Wood]

I think that every girl falls for a bad boy once or a few times. I don't know why they're so sexy. I think it's because you think you can change them or something. or like, they're assholes to everyone else but you *swoon*. but that's a total farce man. they're just assholes.

my first "love" was an asshole bad boy with a GED who could buy alcohol because he looked older. he was total trash, but I thought I could see through to his inner self...and you know what? maybe I could, and maybe there was some good stuff in there, but it wasn't worth it, and it wasn't really who he wanted to be or ended up to be.

you go through so many changes in your life, I highly doubt you're going to find the love of your life when you're a teenager. if you do, he's not going to be a person that makes you feel bad.

so just, be you, be who you want to be. I never conformed in high school and I was miserable, yes. but now I'm like the coolest.

but I will say that my dude now is kind of an asshole. but I'm the same kind of asshole, so it works.

[Praying Mantis]

Watch your mouth

but Im just talkin 'bout SHAFT

[skra75]

yeah, what cosmo said, plus this:

i deal with these people every day. every single one of them telling me how they can't do jail time because they have several kids with several baby mommas, and they need to be raising their kids. well, why didn't you think about those kids when you were out on bond for selling crack, and then you get caught with crack and a gun, knowing you're a convicted felon? these women (the baby mommas) are constantly calling the cops when their man beats the shit out of them, and then they bitch at me because he's in jail and isn't out earning money to support the kids.

if you aren't looking for a good future with a solid person, then by all means, fall for the boy and either visit him in jail or visit his grave. and for the love of god, if he hits you and you call the cops, do not bitch at his attorney because he's sitting in jail, because that's on you.

pwmndndz
wow

[camo]

he's affliated with gangs

sounds like the kinda guy who after smacking him in his chops he shouts out names of all the people who he's going to get to smack you back :D

[Lex Diamonds]

so that means i have to keep my hands off paddy?

well doesnt matter aslong i dont have to keep my mouth off him
Sorry mami but you probly gon' need both, nahmean?

[Randetica]

then stop being that damn gangsta!

[Lex Diamonds]

Not for nothin', never happen, I'll be forever mackin'.

[Randetica]

yeah i guess it's not your fault
youre born a gangsta

but that doesnt change the fact that i need cosmo's permission to hj you

[Randetica]

understandable

[camo]

One day I will rape Padster.

straight up just' jacksey. :D

[QueenAdrock]

Bad boys didn't attract me as much as dicks, when I was younger. I liked a guy who was on the wrestling team and didn't even acknowledge me when he was around the upperclassmen on his team. He was one of my best friends when he wasn't around them...or so I thought. He wouldn't make an effort to be friends with me outside of school, he constantly teased me to the point of insults and I liked it because I thought he was funny. He'd call me and talk for hours, yet he'd rarely make an effort to see me. He sent me mixed messages all the time, but looking back, I shouldn't have run after him if he only treated me well 20% of the time I was with him, the other 80% of the time he was too preoccupied being busy or a jerk, or both.

I found him on myspace the other day, turns out he's a conservative, in the military, supports George W, and loves country music. *shudder* :(

Anyways, most people your age like bad boys or dicks or guys like that. I think for most girls the attraction morphs when they get older. Instead of liking dickheads or bad boys who treat you like shit, you'll like guys who look rugged and manly but treat you well and don't come with baggage. (y)

[jackrock]

Some of you ladies need to start speaking at high schools across NA.


SaveUsNerds2007

[QueenAdrock]

Yeah, we could bring powerpoint presentations that will show the age progression of the badboys vs. nerds. It'll show all the nerdy high schoolers with hot chicks now and all the bad boy high schoolers on a street corner sucking dick for their coke addiction. It'll be effective, just like that video they showed us in sex ed of the live birth. It scared me away from sex for a good 3 years, and now I use protection every time. (y)

[Schmeltz]

Instead of liking dickheads or bad boys who treat you like shit, you'll like guys who look rugged and manly

QueenAdrock, of course, knows this from personal experience. (http://bbmb.wiki-site.com/images/f/f7/Cannon.jpg)

[Lex Diamonds]

Yeah, we could bring powerpoint presentations that will show the age progression of the badboys vs. nerds. It'll show all the nerdy high schoolers with hot chicks now and all the bad boy high schoolers on a street corner sucking dick for their coke addiction.
That shit aint true though, it's just what the nerds tell themselves to feel better about their lives.

[QueenAdrock]

QueenAdrock, of course, knows this from personal experience. (http://bbmb.wiki-site.com/images/f/f7/Cannon.jpg)

Sigh, I knew one of you would post that up.

Whatever, we were on vacation this past week and he didn't bother shaving and it was fucking hot. :cool:

And it is true, Paddy. At least in my experience. Bad boys will fuck up their lives, and others. Lasting relationships go to the shyer, more nerdy guys. They grow out of their awkwardness when they get older and can land long term relationships.

[Freebasser]

I'm attracted to ladyboys.

[abcdefz]

I was just reading this book that had a kind of amusing paragraph about a woman attracted to bad boys. Something about how "he was hairy and knuckled and wild, which was what captured her; as they began living together, she realized that really this meant that he didn't do any dishes and refused to learn to use the washing machine." Something like that.

it was much better in the book.

[Bob]

QueenAdrock, of course, knows this from personal experience. (http://bbmb.wiki-site.com/images/f/f7/Cannon.jpg)

haha

hahahaha

hahahahahahaha

i forgot how great that picture was, thank you, haha

ah ha...

hoo

[QueenAdrock]

you'll like guys who look rugged and manly


Man stubble = hawt. (http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v131/QueenAdrock1/OBX/falkorbrett.jpg) My best friend guy's on the left, and she concurs, obviously. :p

[cosmo105]

stubble can be real hot but it's not so nice when he's sleep-making out with you and doesn't realize he's kissing too hard. cactus :(

[ggirlballa]

cosmo, queenie, beth, and dorthy are great advice givers beth's advice is gangsta tho ahaha

man but i hear he's really sweet from my friend alysha who knows him really well, she says he's respectfull but he "acts out" at times thats mainly the reason why he's been expelled from our school. for right now i just want to get to know him better he's going to the same high school as i am.

"showed me his bag of weed" erm yea umm bout that :rolleyes:

[Big Gus]

I keep my bag of weed hidden away. I dont show it to many girls.

Man, this is where I'm going wrong??

[cosmo105]

cosmo, queenie, beth, and dorthy are great advice givers beth's advice is gangsta tho ahaha

man but i hear he's really sweet from my friend alysha who knows him really well, she says he's respectfull but he "acts out" at times thats mainly the reason why he's been expelled from our school. for right now i just want to get to know him better he's going to the same high school as i am.

"showed me his bag of weed" erm yea umm bout that :rolleyes:

respectful? of what? HE IS AFFILIATED WITH GANGS. HE'S BEEN EXPELLED FROM A SCHOOL. stay the fuck away! that is all you need to know. don't try and get to know him better! what the fuck good could possibly come of that? WHY would you want to get to know him better? you have no idea how many other, better guys there are to date. seriously. be choosy!

[ET]

I keep my bag of weed hidden away. I dont show it to many girls.

Man, this is where I'm going wrong??

No way. Keep it well hidden away under your balls. Then tell them where it is and they can have all they want while they're down there.:cool:

Also, choose white boys. Nerdy ones.

[ggirlballa]

respectful? of what? HE IS AFFILIATED WITH GANGS. HE'S BEEN EXPELLED FROM A SCHOOL. stay the fuck away! that is all you need to know. don't try and get to know him better! what the fuck good could possibly come of that? WHY would you want to get to know him better? you have no idea how many other, better guys there are to date. seriously. be choosy!


right now i don't want to date him, i just want to know him better. *sigh* man i don't want to stay away from him he really isn't a guy who abuses ladies he does do a lot of ilegal shit though. i feel like i have stuff in common with him maybe thats why i'm attracted to him (besides the good looks) hes into the same music as me, he makes music too, he's into graffitti and i am too the only thing that bothers me a lot is the gang ties he has :( for right now i'll keep my distance but if we get put in the same classes in high school then i'll be tempted so much to talk to him.

[QueenAdrock]

To tell you the truth, I don't really expect you to take anyone's advice. I know how headstrong I was when I was 14, if someone told me then the guy I liked was a dick, I wouldn't have listened. I would have still pursued him because it's what I wanted and thought he was *different* somehow than what people were telling me. But he wasn't, and I had to figure that out for myself, just like you'll figure out for yourself. You can then chalk it up to life experience and move on and grow because of what happens...I just hope it doesn't end TOO badly for your sake.

Do what you plan on doing anyways, but please at least be cautious and keep our words in mind.

[ggirlballa]

To tell you the truth, I don't really expect you to take anyone's advice. I know how headstrong I was when I was 14, if someone told me then the guy I liked was a dick, I wouldn't have listened. I would have still pursued him because it's what I wanted and thought he was *different* somehow than what people were telling me. But he wasn't, and I had to figure that out for myself, just like you'll figure out for yourself. You can then chalk it up to life experience and move on and grow because of what happens...I just hope it doesn't end TOO badly for your sake.

Do what you plan on doing anyways, but please at least be cautious and keep our words in mind.

yea i am going to be cautious but i can't completly forget about him, i can try but i doubt it can happen.

[-T-]

From what I see it seems like It becomes a trend for many girls. They pick an obviously shitty guy get screwed(no pun intended)on then move to the next D-bag guy. Some grow out of it some do not. I have Friends who treat girls like shit(not physically) and they keep coming to him. Of course I suppose I'm the "nice guy" and I cannot get shit.:D I'm not enough of an asshole I guess. Or maybe I just look for the wrong girls.:confused:

[HEIRESS]

*shows Heiress his bag of weed*

:mad:

[ggirlballa]

*update* like any of you care or remember this thread*



so high school started and i got classes with him but only P.E and so far i haven't gotten a chance to speak with him because the boys & girls are doing seperate sports for the 1st two weeks

i think about him everyday now! it got waaaay worst! when i close my eyes his image is there! this feels way too strong to be a crush:( i've only talked to him like 3 times and it was very small talk stuff he did come up to me tho the first day of school said he recognized me

i find it weird tho that his original schedule had no classes with me & that his first day the school changed his classes and i got a P.E class with him now, hmm????

oh and i see his krew's taggins even more now around the area & his tags too, he lives in the apartment housings that are like sick hood, that bugged my best friend cuz now she thinks he's ghetto but cute :confused:

urgh and i'm in an honors class right? and i asked the teacher how her 6th period english non-honors class is? (he's in that class) and the asshole behind me says "that class has the kids who are really slow" and i wanted to cuss his ass off cuz i felt offended that he was calling him stupid cuz he's probally really deep inside


hahah i'm laughing at what i've written but shit this is seriously what i feel





:(

[The Notorious LOL]

and i wanted to cuss his ass off cuz i felt offended that he was calling him stupid cuz he's probally really deep inside


looks like you're well on your way to getting pregnant (y) the second kid wont be so fun when hes out banging some other girl.


seriously though stop being so stupid.

[ggirlballa]

looks like you're well on your way to getting pregnant (y) the second kid wont be so fun when hes out banging some other girl.


seriously though stop being so stupid.

i actually like that post even thou its not the nicest thing someone has said to me

y'all are acting like he's a thug who just wants to get into a girl's cooch, he's had 2 gf's his whole life he's prolly never even kissed a girl before, my friend alysha said that even she was really surprised when she got to know him that he's not just some cholo (gangster) that he's surprisingly deep. she's said "whatever people think he is its like the complete opposite"



fruck but then again i also seem to be protecting a person i don't even know well thats why i'm stupid i know i'm being stupid but its not my mind its my heart being the dumb one:(






*blech emo post!*

[cosmo105]

hahahahaha really deep...

ohhh, sweetie pie. we ALL have felt the EXACT same thing about a boy. they just don't know! they just don't understand!

hahahaha. hah.

i dated boys EXACTLY like that. just because he's "not a player" now, that doesn't mean he'll be a good boyfriend. boys that were "misunderstood." that weren't in the honors or AP classes with me because they "acted out," or because they had troubled home lives.

guess what?

you are too smart for him. he's dumb enough to get involved in gangs (look at what you just typed, just honestly read it back to yourself! fuck!) and drugs and isn't as smart as you are. you said it yourself! and guess what, it IS just a crush. that's what it is by definition. a really, really stupid crush. for god's sake, re-read what i wrote. don't be an idiot. if you're going to be an idiot and chase after him, know when to say when. don't let him get in your pants. i seriously doubt he's even that cute. :rolleyes:

[ggirlballa]

hahahahaha really deep...

ohhh, sweetie pie. we ALL have felt the EXACT same thing about a boy. they just don't know! they just don't understand!

hahahaha. hah.

i dated boys EXACTLY like that. just because he's "not a player" now, that doesn't mean he'll be a good boyfriend. boys that were "misunderstood." that weren't in the honors or AP classes with me because they "acted out," or because they had troubled home lives.



this is where half of me is saying, right on, like everything you just wrote fits perfectly








guess what?

you are too smart for him. he's dumb enough to get involved in gangs (look at what you just typed, just honestly read it back to yourself! fuck!) and drugs and isn't as smart as you are. you said it yourself! and guess what, it IS just a crush. that's what it is by definition. a really, really stupid crush. for god's sake, re-read what i wrote. don't be an idiot. if you're going to be an idiot and chase after him, know when to say when. don't let him get in your pants. i seriously doubt he's even that cute. :rolleyes:



this is where the other half of me (i guess the dumb half) is going " BUT!!! its not like that, no u got it wrong about him"



at least i got this place to let my mind out & good people like cosmo and the rest of the bbmb'ers if i didn't i wouldn't have any of this advice to think about and then i think i'd really be in deeper shit.

[cosmo105]

i'm not wrong about him. i dated him. trust me. we've all dated him.

you're not me, but you're kind of me.

[ggirlballa]

but how would i really know if he is bullshit or not? , what if he's the real deal and i let it slip away, i want to see if he's the real thing but without getting hurt or doing something stupid yet i know thats close to impossible

[Freebasser]

trust me. we've all dated him.

Speak for yourself :/

[Kid Presentable]

Great, now I've got to explain to the woman why that dude wearing women's shoes leaning on a cannon is our home computer desktop.

[hitmonlee]

i dated a drug dealing drug taking tagger for over 3 years.

i was VERY fucking lucky to not be arrested also.

i don't know what the law is like over there - but if you wanna date "bad boys" do it in the years before you turn 18. date them and get it out of your system before it results in you being arrested because you're holding his backpack containing illegal items while he writes on a wall.

[Bob]

Speak for yourself :/

i am him

[abcdefz]

He's a rebel
And he'll never be
Any good

[b i o n i c]

this thread is hilarious.

ggb, save this and read it ten years from now.

you're gonna want to punch yourself in the face.

generally speaking, immature 'women' are all about attaining the "unobtainable". now its the graffiti scribbling rebels (who actually tend to be illiterate, unemployable and often steal money from their mom's purses). you won't give this dude the time of day in a few years. for those who never grow out of their immaturity, it later becomes trying to get the well off men they work as receptionists for and the like.

out of all the "badass" graffiti, druggie types i knew growing up: one is an electrician, another is a laborer in construction, one walks around scared that he's gonna get shot in the back of the head for having to rat out people in exchange for his own freedom, another is still at home with mom in community college, the other works at a chain pharmacy store. they're all pushing 30. they're still badasses, and by badasses i mean losers.

one of them is married with a kid and is buying an apartment. he gave up graffiti years ago and won't even look at a marker. he was the best in the crew, his pieces are ALLLLLLL over new york.

i met up with him a few months ago and invited him out to an adidas grafitti event. he didnt want to go and said, "that stuff's for dumb kids... i got my own dumb kid i'd rather stay home with." this kid had more badass under his pinky nail than any of the cholos im reading about here. he got smart and he made it better. his gorgeous wife woulda never given him a minute of her time years ago. all the chicks they used to roll with are either strippers, bartenders, unemployed, single moms or just bar sluts. the old badasses wouldnt give them the time of day now either.

have you ever been to court? no? go spend a day at your local courthouse. you can just walk in. see how badass these dudes are in front of a judge with their moms all worried behind them. its actually really funny how fast fear wipes the badass right off. go to a drug counseling meeting... where all the baddest of asses go. its really surprising how quick a badass turns into a crying boy in a room full of strangers. its even funnier when they get into fights with their old man and have their asses kicked in front of everyone.

seriously, listen to the women on here who've been there, done that. what you're going through has been gone through over and over before and will continue to be the case long after you're old and gray. everyone here likes you. dont be stupid.

ps, stay away from anyone who calls themselves a cholo, or chingon, or vato, or any remotely hispanic sounding gang term. they've got less of a chance in the future than nearly any other gang type

[Lex Diamonds]

This sounds kind of like how me and my girl started. I was known as a player and she thought I was all gangsta cuz of the way I dressed and cuz I skipped loads of college to go smoke weed. But she always said she thought I was more intelligent than I let on. She used to tag along and smoke with me and my friends, it fucked up her grades and I felt quite bad about it after. But when we hooked up she changed me for the better, I stopped blazing as much, dressed better, missed less college and I guess I'm just a more presentable and nice person now.

So ggirl, maybe you could help change this guy into a better person?

[Kid Presentable]

more presentable


Best thing you could do.

I think people like us, Pad, we're too suburban to be bad anything unless it's bad cooks. I used to think I was badass, but that mating dance never worked.

[Lyman Zerga]

today i had eye contact with someone who looked like paddy, sure he wasnt AS sexy but good enough to give me the club tropicana feel (y)

hope that helped you some, ggballa


and you fags stop calling her an idiot, she will only learn from her own experiences/mistakes anyway, i mean if that G kid doesnt kill her before

[cosmo105]

So ggirl, maybe you could help change this guy into a better person?

no offense to padster, do NOT listen to this. this is NOT the case with, well, anyone that i've ever known or heard of. you cannot change someone. (if anything, padster, you just grew up. please don't put the idea "you can change him" into a young girl's head; it's just about the worst thing they can hear.) "the real deal?" YOU'RE FIFTEEN. you are not going to find "the real deal" at fifteen. please. trust me. you won't. get that idea out of your head. the longest it could last would be a few months. this guy is a fucking loser that could probably barely write a coherent paragraph.

[-T-]

this feels way too strong to be a crush:(


No thats what a crush feels like when your young. Seriously.

[Bob]

No thats what a crush feels like when your young. Seriously.

haha, yeah. i remember when i was in high school, i had a crush on a girl who sat in front of me in a few classes (her last name was "gonzales", mine begins with an H, it must have been fate), it felt pretty damn strong to me at the time. so strong i couldn't even talk to her or make eye contact with her or smile back when she smiled at me. i even wrote her a love letter once, i'm not even going to tell you what was in it, it was so fucking lame. i came thiiiiiiiis close to putting it in her locker (i can't remember if it was anonymous or not), but thank god i didn't, the whole thing, lol oh my god it was so lame. i wouldn't have even known what to do if she came to me and said "yeah i like you too let's go out"

ANYWAY my point is is that i had a big huge crush on her, and at the time it killed me to think about it, and she was all i could think about, and it really damn well felt like love as far as i can remember, but now it's about 8 years later and i cringe about how lame the whole thing was. hell, i felt lame about it 2 years later, it just gets lamer by the year

and i wasn't even in love with a gangster (or is it gangstress? are there female gangsters?)! imagine how lame you're gonna feel in 8 years. where's he gonna be in 8 years?

[de-nice]

I LOL at that one...does he live with his mother and steal money out of her purse, too?


"hell yeah its supposed to have stems in it, that means its good"

[de-nice]

You are the 1 out of 1000. Trust me. The fact that 'yer still blazin' at all tells me that you are not really ready to settle down. That's Fine!!!

But if you want a future (trust me) it's really cool to cruise around without lookin' out 'yer back window. (Takes years! I still do sometimes!)

Respectfully,
D

This sounds kind of like how me and my girl started. I was known as a player and she thought I was all gangsta cuz of the way I dressed and cuz I skipped loads of college to go smoke weed. But she always said she thought I was more intelligent than I let on. She used to tag along and smoke with me and my friends, it fucked up her grades and I felt quite bad about it after. But when we hooked up she changed me for the better, I stopped blazing as much, dressed better, missed less college and I guess I'm just a more presentable and nice person now.

So ggirl, maybe you could help change this guy into a better person?

[Lex Diamonds]

no offense to padster, do NOT listen to this. this is NOT the case with, well, anyone that i've ever known or heard of. you cannot change someone. (if anything, padster, you just grew up. please don't put the idea "you can change him" into a young girl's head; it's just about the worst thing they can hear.) "the real deal?" YOU'RE FIFTEEN. you are not going to find "the real deal" at fifteen. please. trust me. you won't. get that idea out of your head. the longest it could last would be a few months. this guy is a fucking loser that could probably barely write a coherent paragraph.
Bitch please. I haven't grown up at all, 90% of what I say is dick and fart jokes and I still think guns are cool. Leave the guy alone, just because you had a bad personal experience doesn't mean this boy is a complete cunt like you're making out.

And you've never heard of someone changing how they are cuz they got a new girlfriend? Shit, you obviously don't get out much.


PS
I'm a gangstaaa
I'm a thuuug
I'm a pimp, girl
I'm a hustla, hustla

[Lyman Zerga]

yeah someone sounds bitter

well yeah people at this age are very naive but i guess everyone (but me) has to go through such shit to deserve the black karate belt of life.. some time..

[Kid Presentable]

Bitch please. I haven't grown up at all, 90% of what I say is dick and fart jokes and I still think guns are cool. Leave the guy alone, just because you had a bad personal experience doesn't mean this boy is a complete cunt like you're making out.

And you've never heard of someone changing how they are cuz they got a new girlfriend? Shit, you obviously don't get out much.



Everybody skips school to smoke weed.

[Lyman Zerga]

Everybody skips school to smoke weed.

haha i finally understand your sig

[Lex Diamonds]

Everybody skips school to smoke weed.
True, a lot of people do, especially at my college. I could always find one group of people to go out with and to smoke off if I didn't have any of my own. But the extent I was doing it to at one point was ridiculous, my attendance dropped to 40% and they wanted to kick me out. Luckily my girl helped get me on the straight and narrow, by the end my attendance was up to 70% and that was mainly just because I was too lazy to get up early and we would skip classes to go have sex. So she definitely helped me out with that.

[Lex Diamonds]

By the way, I don't want anyone to get the wrong idea, I still fucked up college. :)(y)

[Kid Presentable]

Hey, hey now. I'm not completely out of touch. The balance between getting head jobs and getting faded can be delicate, but it's manageable.

[cosmo105]

sigh. listen padster, you're not a young woman, and this is something that pretty much every girl has gone through or will go through. read the responses from other women in this thread. fuck, read Women Who Love Too Much. so many women attach themselves to the "bad boy" because they think they can change him into their prince charming, and will cling to that hope to the point where they completely neglect their own well-being. if i can, i'd like to see that this girl can avoid falling into a cycle of unheathy and unstable relationships that might never end. seriously, everyone i've known has dated at least one "bad boy" or "misunderstood deep thinker" or whatever you want to call him that ended up really fucking up their lives for at least some time. it's not just me. your experience really is unusual, and not the norm. trust me on this one.

i'm in a very healthy and satisfying relationship right now, and i can say what i should and shouldn't put up with. i put up with a lot of shit when i was younger because i thought love conquered all and you had to suffer if you really meant it. i know ggirl won't listen, and thinks he's special and unique and no one but her sees it because i've been exactly there and know i didn't listen to anyone that knew better. not family, not friends - it's one of those things that you have to go through for it to sink in. but hopefully talking to her help her open her eyes to what could be a dangerous situation before she gets too deep. gang ties and drugs are hardly positive things with which she should be affiliated.

[Lex Diamonds]

You act like I live in a cardboard box in a cupboard or something. My experience isn't unusual at all, I know plenty of people who have gone from "bad boy" off-the-rails dicks to nice, well-behaved guys because they've found a good woman. It's nice that you've had experiences and that you feel world-wise but to be honest your advice is closed minded and, though you may think the opposite, very naive.

[Kid Presentable]

I'd never be ridiculous enough to say I was ever a bad boy, but meeting someone special (No Eddie Murphy) really did change me. I was never a gang-affiliated cholo in Los Santos, but hey.

There's never a cut and dry answer to this shit. He sounds like bad news, and it would be easy for you (ggirl) to define yourself early on as the kind of girl who just takes shit from men because they see something that isn't there. Women for generations have been getting duped , and you're giving yourself the perfect opportunity to be one of them. If you do pursue it, don't turn to this messageboard for any sympathy when (and it's not a matter of if, it will fail eventually)it goes to shit.

Cosmo would have been padster's age when she suffered this prick she talks of, which is pretty typical. Just because she broke the cycle doesn't mean she'll never fall back into it. The neuroses of people evolves so the tricks don't change, just the execution. It's cool she found a nice, caring fellow. None of us can be sure what forever means, though. We can just try to make the best of good things while they're with us.

Padster's situation isn't completely atypical, at all. I think that Ggrilballa is probably better off with the advice from the ladies of the board for now, though. But they're not perfect either. They've just been there.

[Lex Diamonds]

Whatever man I don't really care, I just think you're all assholes for cockblocking some guy thousands of miles away who you've never even met.

[Kid Presentable]

QueenAdrock didn't even cockblock in this thread; there's nary a cockblock to be found. I think people just want to help ggirl cause they like her.

[thegoodmrbrodie!]

i am an awful boy, and get next to no 'action'. this isnt fair.

[Audio.]

bad boys? why you like "bad boy". you should find someone that is funny rather than get someone that will abuse you or else you are FUCKING retard. well that is already noted so its no use to post this - eh, what the hell.

[ggirlballa]

I effin love you guys. all this advice i really am taking it seriously don't think i'm brushing this shit off

and padster i do know of relationships where a girl has changed a guy for the better this girl in my class turned a complete dick into a gentleman he went from baggy clothes to prepster hollister wearing shit (lol)

and cosmo you're words have been repeating in my head and now i'm thinking about moving on (considering the idea of moving on) but i haven't yet, my friend says why quit if i haven't even really tried and found out if he's a good guy inside.

actually i think he's pretty literate cuz he writes lyrics too and he listens to conscious rap (sp) and when we had to do a 3 paragraph essay on defining characters for P.E (i know wtf its p.e class?) everybody just did the standard 3 and he turned in 2 pages


but what bugged me is last night while i was out with some friends i heard he got into a fight with some other cholo in school i don't know why they fought but i heard he won. that just bugs me a lil bit that he would fight somebody


*sigh*



and female gangsters are called "cholas"


i'm debating if i should post a pic of him or not but that might be too creepy no???

[ggirlballa]

Whatever man I don't really care, I just think you're all assholes for cockblocking some guy thousands of miles away who you've never even met.



hahaha

[Audio.]

pretty much, yeah.

[ggirlballa]

this thread is hilarious.

ggb, save this and read it ten years from now.

you're gonna want to punch yourself in the face.

generally speaking, immature 'women' are all about attaining the "unobtainable". now its the graffiti scribbling rebels (who actually tend to be illiterate, unemployable and often steal money from their mom's purses). you won't give this dude the time of day in a few years. for those who never grow out of their immaturity, it later becomes trying to get the well off men they work as receptionists for and the like.

out of all the "badass" graffiti, druggie types i knew growing up: one is an electrician, another is a laborer in construction, one walks around scared that he's gonna get shot in the back of the head for having to rat out people in exchange for his own freedom, another is still at home with mom in community college, the other works at a chain pharmacy store. they're all pushing 30. they're still badasses, and by badasses i mean losers.

one of them is married with a kid and is buying an apartment. he gave up graffiti years ago and won't even look at a marker. he was the best in the crew, his pieces are ALLLLLLL over new york.

i met up with him a few months ago and invited him out to an adidas grafitti event. he didnt want to go and said, "that stuff's for dumb kids... i got my own dumb kid i'd rather stay home with." this kid had more badass under his pinky nail than any of the cholos im reading about here. he got smart and he made it better. his gorgeous wife woulda never given him a minute of her time years ago. all the chicks they used to roll with are either strippers, bartenders, unemployed, single moms or just bar sluts. the old badasses wouldnt give them the time of day now either.

have you ever been to court? no? go spend a day at your local courthouse. you can just walk in. see how badass these dudes are in front of a judge with their moms all worried behind them. its actually really funny how fast fear wipes the badass right off. go to a drug counseling meeting... where all the baddest of asses go. its really surprising how quick a badass turns into a crying boy in a room full of strangers. its even funnier when they get into fights with their old man and have their asses kicked in front of everyone.

seriously, listen to the women on here who've been there, done that. what you're going through has been gone through over and over before and will continue to be the case long after you're old and gray. everyone here likes you. dont be stupid.

ps, stay away from anyone who calls themselves a cholo, or chingon, or vato, or any remotely hispanic sounding gang term. they've got less of a chance in the future than nearly any other gang type


actually i have been to courthouses and seen the kids get probation n waay worst, my cousin got a few months in juve, probation, random drug testing, counseling and house arrest for tagging & he broke down i didn't see it as ohh wow the baddass isn't as hard as he looks i saw it as dang he's got feelings like everybody else. i don't like badboys that are so rebelious and macho thugs and will never shed a tear in public i like the badboys who are sensitive inside and thats what this kid seems to be:(

and yes i do know that most cholos and cholas end up having shitty jobs n such, i look at all the homegirls in my grade that act so hard & tough with thier girls and their krew and will jump any girl who looks at them wrong but then be all flirty & sweet around the guys and i think that out of say 10 of them probably only one or two will have a decent to successful future.

and he doesn't call himself a cholo i actually feel a lil bad for labeling him that in this thread

[Audio.]

yeah graffiti and gangs don't mix. we are all different individually.

[ggirlballa]

. I think people just want to help ggirl cause they like her.



awwwy

i love the people on this board i really thought nobody would give a shit

[-T-]

Padster reminds me of the kids in my area that think they are gangster or badsass but in reality if they walked down the street of an real ghetto area acting the way they do they would get the shit kicked out of them for being d-bags. Also they are all talk,exaggerate and are compulsive liars. Just like Padster!!

Gangsters hang out on the internet? Fag.

I'm sorry to pollute your thread ggirlballa.

[ggirlballa]

umm thats alright but no hatin on padster he's to gangsta for that

[vickista]

that guy sounds like a complete retard.


"showed me his bag of weed.." hahahaha

i'd have to agree. he sounds like a fool.

but yes badboys are attractive bcoz not only are they hott but they're exciting as well.
:]

[rampancy]

I'm the baddest boy ever!


*Mum shouts at me to get off the internet*
Sigh, yes mother.

[b i o n i c]

on second thought, definately go for this guy. he seems like the diamond in the rough type, one of a kind. and tough too. go get 'im, tiger!

[ericlee]

I sure hope my daughter doesn't get attracted buy bad boys. Her boyfriend wouldn't know how to handle the sight of my bag of weed.

[-T-]

haha this reminds me of when my oldest sister was 17. She had a boyfriend who was 23. He thought he was a huge badass as did my sister. He was in the Marines, always got into trouble and so on. So my sister wanted to run away so she clled him up. He said he will come get her and take her away and there is nothing my dad could do about it. So my sister tells my dad that. he comes over walks to the door "like a badass" my dad opens it. He says "Nichole is coming with me". My dad jabbed him in the face and dropped him instantly. Funniest thing ever.

[Lex Diamonds]

Padster reminds me of the kids in my area that think they are gangster or badsass but in reality if they walked down the street of an real ghetto area acting the way they do they would get the shit kicked out of them for being d-bags. Also they are all talk,exaggerate and are compulsive liars. Just like Padster!!

Gangsters hang out on the internet? Fag.

I'm sorry to pollute your thread ggirlballa.
Congratulations, you sound like the biggest cunt I've ever heard. Hey genius, I never claimed to be a gangsta. Your big sexually frustrated tirade is completely pointless, pea-balls. I said people who don't know me mistake me for being that kind of person cuz of the people I hang with and the way I dress.

Although I would love to see you come to South London, some of the kids round here would love the opportunity to stab a fat nerdy American. Believe me no one is kicking the shit out of me, I don't claim to be a gangsta but people don't push me around. I'm one of the few people I know who have never been robbed or jumped on the street because I know how to act. You don't know anything about me anyway. I've never even read your posts before, who the fuck are you?


PS
You think that "gangsta"s don't have access to the internet? Do you also think they don't have electricity or running water? You don't know shit, moron.

[Bob]

PS
You think that "gangsta"s don't have access to the internet? Do you also think they don't have electricity or running water? You don't know shit, moron.

i think it might go a little something...like this (http://www.somethingawful.com/d/weekend-web/bloodfetish-minimizer-wb.php?page=6)

[Yetra Flam]

Jesus christ, just don't even fucking go there. you will hate yourself for years and years to come. You have to believe that you deserve better, like believe it and know it, or you will end up dragging yourself down to his level. Also, something that i continue to have a hard time with now, is understanding that you're better off alone rather than with someone that is going to make you miserable. Better off alone. I mean, i fucking hate it, and look at all of the supposed "missed opportunities" and the "oh, i should have done this," "he likes me more because i'm special and i can turn him around". It's bullshit.

[Yetra Flam]

But then again, meh, maybe i shouldn't be so picky. How do you really know if you deserve better? hmmm.
I mean ggirl, i'm sure you do, i'm just turning this into me now.

[ggirlballa]

i'm stupid to have liked him as i'm walking to 5th period class i see him holding & hugging some twigg looking girl. too shy my motherfuckin ass. i'm not saying i don't like him any more i'm just sayin that i was so dumb for liking him as much as i did. i felt like i was in love with him for like 4-5 months and in the past 3 days it started to wear off like that .

i'm amazed and in shock right now


also if this is how the rest of high school crushes are going to feel like then i'm going to be in hell.

[Yetra Flam]

i'm stupid to have liked him as i'm walking to 5th period class i see him holding & hugging some twigg looking girl. too shy my motherfuckin ass. i'm not saying i don't like him any more i'm just sayin that i was so dumb for liking him as much as i did. i felt like i was in love with him for like 4-5 months and in the past 3 days it started to wear off like that .

i'm amazed and in shock right now


also if this is how the rest of high school crushes are going to feel like then i'm going to be in hell.

fuckin hell man, i know what that feels like. christ, every girl does.

[kleptomaniac]

beastie boys attract me. <3

[Yetra Flam]

when they get older, they learn how to deceive you better.

[ggirlballa]

he didn't decieve me though this was a crush i only talked to him a couple times he had no idea i liked him . i still don't know for sure if it was his girlfriend or he was just hugging a friend but the way he was hugging scratch that holding her makes me think she's more than just a friend, who holds their friend???

oh fudge sticks

well there is a cutie in my spanish class maybe i should spit some game eh???? surprisingly this isn't hurting as much as i thought it would even tho i know i still have feelings for that friggin thug maybe it hasn't sunk in fully yet

[TurdBerglar]

you need to relax

[Yetra Flam]

you two should go out, turd and ggirl.

[TurdBerglar]

you need to relax.

[Yetra Flam]

he's a pretty decent guy, ggirl, this turd here.

[ggirlballa]

you need to relax

i do i just re-read my last post & its some psycho shit

[TurdBerglar]

well atleast you can actually see your psycho shit

[Yetra Flam]

i thought it was pretty normal. it's a process.

[Kid Presentable]

he didn't decieve me though this was a crush i only talked to him a couple times he had no idea i liked him . i still don't know for sure if it was his girlfriend or he was just hugging a friend but the way he was hugging scratch that holding her makes me think she's more than just a friend, who holds their friend???

oh fudge sticks

well there is a cutie in my spanish class maybe i should spit some game eh???? surprisingly this isn't hurting as much as i thought it would even tho i know i still have feelings for that friggin thug maybe it hasn't sunk in fully yet

I don't want to ruin all the surprises for you, but whatever you do, never assume that teenage boys aren't trying to chase one thing only. I'm trying not to be base, but you get what I mean, yeah?

[Bob]

well atleast you can actually see your psycho shit

yeah i was gonna say the same thing. if you can at least step back and acknowledge that you're acting crazy that's a step in the right direction

and i don't think you're acting that crazy anyway, all high schoolers think like that i think. i did anyway

[Yetra Flam]

it's a process

[TurdBerglar]

you crushed on the badboys, bob?

[Bob]

no, the cholas

[TurdBerglar]

so the gay badboys?

[ggirlballa]

haha^ again this board is too bomb(y)

and yea i'm going to just chill, boys are stressful so i'm not going to chase after it for now i'ma just go with the flow & see what happens, its just chill like that