Posting to Vent

[skra75]

Ok so I know I just put a thread up appreciating my GF.
But oh my lord is she getting on my nerves the past few days:

1) she is nit picking shit about my personal appearance. not cool.
2) she is getting mad at me for looking at other chicks. I look at everyone because I enjoy the world. jesus christ please don't be so insecure that you have to call me out.
3) she just snapped at me for something gay.

I might blame it on PMS, if I was a prick. I listened to 'I got shot in the face fuck you' on the way in and am in a fired up mood. Normally I'm a pretty laid back guy and let shit roll but sweet christ.

OK, end rant. GF if you're reading this hey sorry I needed to vent.

* venting *

[internet]

Don't worry, you know you can always turn to me. I'll always love you. I love everyone.

[QueenAdrock]

Buy her some Midol.

[Dorothy Wood]

My dude looks at chicks all the time. I don't like it, but at least he does it in front of me and isn't all secretive about it. plus, I look at people all the time, girls and guys. we had a talk about it, and I said, "if you'd rather have someone else, just let me know, so I can take off" and he was like, "no, I don't want someone else, I'm content".

so gawking is alright. as long as it isn't people we know.

[b i o n i c]

lol @ skra & his love/hate relationship with his girl.

don't let shit roll with her on some of this shit. it will only get worse if you don't stamp loudly about it.

....


im not gonna make a thread about it, but you were in my dream last night dorothy.

all i remember is that there were a lot of people around and i saw you. your hair was way poofed out and covering your face, but i knew it was you. i kept calling you by all your names, hey doro... uh sar... uh ke.... i think you bummed a smoke from me. thats it.


edit: that was my first BBMB dream - - pops a bottle of champaign

[b i o n i c]

nah. that was it. the dream may've been at a beastie boys show. thats all i remember

[Bob]

at first i thought skra said his girlfriend snapped at him for being gay and i was all "wow, what a complicated relationship"

although i guess i could understand that. if i had a girlfriend and she started being gay i'd probably snap at her too

[ericlee]

And why would you be a prick if you were to blame it on PMS?

My wife even warns me to stand clear when her time comes. She sounds like she's nit picky just like your lady is, if not worse.

Honestly, you're not justifying yourself cause you're on here nit picking about her nit picking. It's kind of hypocritical, if ya ask me.

[ET]

Yeah you're going to have to stomp that stuff out or it'll get worse. Why the appearance nitpicking all of a sudden? It sounds like she's in some kind of insecure bubble right now or something. You ought to bring it up to her and see how she responds. Maybe you just need to do something small like tell her how cute she looks and she'll get over it.

As you've probably told her how awesome she is already...

everyday.

For months.

[g-mile7]

Just talk to her. Serious.

[skra75]

As you've probably told her how awesome she is already...

everyday.

For months.

Yes, true. Not over and over again like a dork, but I consider myself to be fairly considerate.

I guess shit like this makes me wonder though, why am I looking? If I was so 100% on this chick wouldn't I not be looking?

aw fuck I'm confused as shit.

Anyways, my hypothesis is:
A) She is in fact pms'ing. I'm 87% sure.
B) I really shouldn't be checking out other chicks. Really that shit ain't cool.
C) I really do love her and should really focus on making it work instead of being an arrogant fuckhead bc she's very sweet and also hot and worth it.

And I'll talk to her. G'mile even chimed in on my thread crap I feel famoussss.

[g-mile7]

Woah, you love her? How long have you dated her?

[skra75]

How long have you dated her?

Almost a year now. She's great man.

[skra75]

Don't worry, you know you can always turn to me. I'll always love you. I love everyone.

I'm so tempted to make this my new signature.

[g-mile7]

Almost a year now. She's great man.

The question is if she really loves U...I mean she kind of seems controling unless U really are gawking (staring at some girls ass). U should be a gentleman, yes, but dont be a puppy...thats almost a definte break up there.

[skra75]

The question is if she really loves U...I mean she kind of seems controling unless U really are gawking (staring at some girls ass). U should be a gentleman, yes, but dont be a puppy...thats almost a definte break up there.

Yeah, you're right man. Nah she's not controlling, I really do think I need to be more of a gentleman and less of a dickface. :/

Ugh. whatevers I need to go home I've been here too long. tradeoffs I guess eh? when one is with someone whom he digs he definately ends up giving up some things in respect to that other person. Such as, awkwardly posting his thoughts on a public message board to vent!

oh but the blue-glow of the internet is so alluuurrring....:o

[Kid Presentable]

You just need to learn how to look at other girls without her realising. It's the central tenet of a considerate relationship with a PMSing stress-ball.

[befsquire]

we pretty much don't like our men gawking at other women at any time of the month. it preys upon our insecurities, and it can sometimes be absolutely disrespectful. if you turn your head or your body, you're being disrespectful, and frankly, it hurts.

by the way, this is the general "you" and not directed at anyone. also, bobby has never done what i posted above, but i've been with several people who have, and it really can be quite painful.

the nitpicking about your appearance and the argument over something stupid sounds like it could be cured with midol, but if you get some for her, be careful about how you give it to her or she might hurt you.

[ericlee]

I guess shit like this makes me wonder though, why am I looking? If I was so 100% on this chick wouldn't I not be looking?

Dude, if you don't look, you'll be walking like a damn caveman with his head slumped towards the ground. You shouldn't feel guilty about it, it's only the nature of this game.

Do you think your girlfriend likes to walk around and not be noticed by people? She'd think that she has some kind of facial disease that people are afraid to look at.

It's the best thing I love about my wife. She doesn't mind me looking because looking isn't fucking and it's more just appreciating other people. I catch married guys looking at her all the time and it doesn't bother me unless like on a few occasions, they'd be drooling and very crude but, I'd make it very clear that they'd better put their wolf tounge back in their mouths.

She'd even ask me if I think she's (a lady that has caught my eye) beautiful and I give her my honest opinion all times. I mean, if I asked some guy if she was beautiful or not, then I'd probably be upset and therefore, so will she. She doesn't want to be known as my ugly wife.

I'm tellin ya, if she's pms'ing, just stick it. I know it's rough brotha, believe me. I've seen the sides of my lady that I was in shock cause she'll nitpick the hell out of me and then ask me to fan her to sleep, haha.

[Kid Presentable]

also, bobby has never done what i posted above


He's never been caught.

edit: not having a go, just saying.

[g-mile7]

There is a diffrence between gawking and looking though. Guess only you know if you are in the wrong.

[Rock]

Dude, if you don't look, you'll be walking like a damn caveman with his head slumped towards the ground. You shouldn't feel guilty about it, it's only the nature of this game.

Do you think your girlfriend likes to walk around and not be noticed by people? She'd think that she has some kind of facial disease that people are afraid to look at.

It's the best thing I love about my wife. She doesn't mind me looking because looking isn't fucking and it's more just appreciating other people. I catch married guys looking at her all the time and it doesn't bother me unless like on a few occasions, they'd be drooling and very crude but, I'd make it very clear that they'd better put their wolf tounge back in their mouths.

She'd even ask me if I think she's (a lady that has caught my eye) beautiful and I give her my honest opinion all times. I mean, if I asked some guy if she was beautiful or not, then I'd probably be upset and therefore, so will she. She doesn't want to be known as my ugly wife.

Word to the motherfucker.

Sometimes if some fine lady walks by and I don't notice, my wife will point her out to me, either to say, "she is hot", or "how could you not notice those tits that she had out on display?".

As far as her fronting on your appearance...that shit needs to be squashed...like last year. She can try and get you to try different stuff, but if you don't like it, she should accept that in a "ok, just thought you should know those pants show off that bulge in your crotch, which I like, but its all gravy either way." way.

[hpdrifter]

There is a diffrence between gawking and looking though. Guess only you know if you are in the wrong.

There it is.

[Dorothy Wood]

im not gonna make a thread about it, but you were in my dream last night dorothy.

all i remember is that there were a lot of people around and i saw you. your hair was way poofed out and covering your face, but i knew it was you. i kept calling you by all your names, hey doro... uh sar... uh ke.... i think you bummed a smoke from me. thats it.


edit: that was my first BBMB dream - - pops a bottle of champaign


YOU PERVERT!

[de-nice]

Wow, boys have... erm... feelings?

skar, anyone would be lucky to be with you... you wanna' know what I think? Insecure - Yes. But she is probably not aware of it. Find her some Xanax and let her "talk about her feelings". Works every time, just like Colt 45.

d (y)

[Randetica]

i would watch my boyfriend like a rolex watch if he was awesome like you

thats what you deserve for being hot stuff, eat that bitch!

[g-mile7]

i would watch my boyfriend like a rolex watch if he was awesome like you

thats what you deserve for being hot stuff, eat that bitch!

ZING!

[Randetica]

ZING!

im the rhyme meister!

[g-mile7]

im the rhyme meister!



all hail the rhyme meister:eek:

[Yetra Flam]

Looking at other women in an obvious fashion is hurtful, and there is no reason why you have to do it. "Being a guy" is not a reason. Women put a lot of work into making sure that they're the only one you're interested in, but if you have a wandering eye, it's like a slap in the face, self confidence or no.

[TurdBerglar]

i thought you like slaps


well, cock slaps...