Do You Ever...

[Teh]

Get bored of all your closest friends?

For example, i could've suggested going out tonight but didn't, because my group of really good friends i have are really, really boring me. Right enough, i'm bored out of my coconut sitting at home right now, but i had considered that when i considered doing something with them.

It's a bit of a shit feeling, to be honest. We're all on the same course at uni, so maybe i've just seen enough of them, but i haven't wanted to do anything like we used to in a long time. Recently it feels like i'm doing all the talking and everybody else is just drinking themselves into oblivion.

Right enough, i am going on a subcrawl with a bunch of peeps i've not seen since high school on monday and i'm looking forward to that, but this is the thing i'd invite other people on, and i just don't want them there, at all.


I think i'm just bored of life in general. I've spent a lot of time on my own this year, doing things i'd normally do with someone else, and i've enjoyed that because i've actually met new people even if only briefly, but it's not the same.

[Big Gus]

Seriously, this place is 50% more emo these days...

[Teh]

You are gutted, Gus.

I supposed you're used to being bored of your daily routines, living in Dundee and all. I mean, how exactly do you tell where the buildings stop and the sky begins, anyway?

[Big Gus]

Heh. I quite enjoy it up here actually.

Beats the pointless football based religious bigotry and needless street stabbings of Glasgow, I find...

[Caribou]

I know what ya mean Timmeh. I hardly speak to my old friends at all anymore.
I don't know, they just seem to do the same things all the bloody time and I've ran out of conversation with them. I was supposed to phone one of these friends over a month ago, because she had invited herself over, and I still haven't. The last year, everytime I've been with her we just sit in a room watching DVD's, or she seems to have more important things to do and she drags me along to her Rugby practice and I just sit there...

The people I like to see most are the ones I only see occasionally and don't make a fuss when I don't phone them. I'm just not very good at keeping contact with people, and some of them find that annoying. Maybe I'm just too self-centered to have a really close friendship. And I just can't stand clingyness!

[Big Gus]

Holy shit. So, people develop and end up "growing out" of their old friends eventually??

I mean... I'm frankly amazed.

[Caribou]

Stunning, innit.

[Teh]

Holy shit. So, people develop and end up "growing out" of their old friends eventually??

I mean... I'm frankly amazed.

Well, evidently i find it difficult to just brush off people i've known for 3 plus years. Silly me.

Right enough, i basically just hate this country in general. Dundee and Glasgow both, chum.

Danke, Anouk, that's what it is like with these people, but the thing is, i've had a shit time with certain people in the past and these people have always stuck by me, and that's why this bothers me is that it's come to a point where i just can't do anything and everything with any of them without finding it just so bloody dull. Clingyness isn't a bad thing unless it's a defining characteristic, my mates get depressed and i'll offer support, but if they're like that the entire time then they need more than friends...

anyway i'm just talking drunken shite now, thanks for the reply, but. :D

[Big Gus]

I was just playin' and stuff.

Fact is, people move on, old friends get annoying. You should make new friends easilly enough. Shit, I'd buy you a pint an' ting.

[TurdBerglar]

three years isn't a very long friendship at all...

[Planetary]

Heh. I quite enjoy it up here actually.

Beats the pointless football based religious bigotry and needless street stabbings of Glasgow, I find...

nothing wrong with football based religion...

[Big Gus]

Shut ya fenian bam etc!

[Dorothy Wood]

I have to say that I mostly spend time with people who aren't boring. I just get bored/annoyed when all people want to talk about is "remember when?" and I feel like we shouldn't just rehash that crazy thing that happened 2-5 years ago, we should be making new memories.

:/