eve had your friends go out without you?

[ggirlballa]

yeah well i have a feeling tonight is that kind of night because i'm on myspace all alone none of my friends are online and i do remember telling a friend that we shud go to the movies today to see superbad and she said yea. but i go on someone els's page and see her comments from yesterday & she said at 6:30ish and that (a grip of people's names) and me might go, yea well today i didn't get a phone call at all, nobody's online and its now 8:35 so yea i think they went out without me

:(

[BBboy20]

If you are on a adult age, I think you should handle and reason it like any normal adult would do.

If not...well, I don't know what to say maybe they just don't think as much of you.

[ggirlballa]

nah its cool i'm not depressed by it just a lil ticked but i made up with 2 ex-friends from the past tonight so i guess thats a good thing and made a new friend too, still i've been online for a long ass time when i could have been at the movies...


also if any people in the bbmb can help me out what the hell do i reply to this from an Ex- friend's message:


wow, spending your summer
rethinking about the past
really does take alot outta you
well your actions in the past
towards me doesn't mean anything
so it's ok to be friends

[BBboy20]

...like "WTF?"

[ggirlballa]

its like a lecture/lets be friends again?

i have no clue what to reply

[BBboy20]

"You don't need a poem to say those four words."

[Pootytang]

Have you ever thought that they might have been waiting for you to call and when you didn't they were like "fuck it, she found something else to do"?

[RaZoRbLaDe KiSs]

I normally am that person thats like "yeah.. we should just ditch them." Im not saying this happened in your case, but sometimes its hard to work things out. Most of the time when I'd rather not do something with someone its because im either A. not that fond of them, or B. it's hard to get together with them (for example, if you live too far away and dont have a car/someone to drive you) Maybe none of them went at all. Obviously they remembered you if they just left a comment on a friends blog like "were all going" maybe it just fell through, or maybe everyone was ditching and they were like, screw it, lets just go with 2/3 people instead of a buttload of us.

[Auton]

oh, to be 12 again...

[RaZoRbLaDe KiSs]

As for friends sending you weird messages, you're quite young right? Way I see it, kids do have these funny ways of dipping in and out of spiritual/cool/what they think is cool type of stuff to say to people. Unfortunately stuff doesn't really work out how you plan it if you aren't upfront about it.

Yeah I was thinking the same thing. When your younger and someone ditches you its like oh my god! the end of the world! I used to be like that when I was in middle school/freshman - pretty much until the year before last.. I always wanted to be everywhere with everyone, and always got kinda upset when people didnt include me (especially the people i considered my "best" friends) Now I just really dont care.. if someone doesnt want to do something with me, Oh well, I've got a million other friends - it's their loss.

[Yetra Flam]

I know that paranoia well.

[ggirlballa]

got a comment from a friend and she says how come i didn't go?


umm maybe cuz i didn't think i was invited oh well.....

[adam_f]

When my friends ditch me, it usually means that my people aren't allowed to enter.