ever gotten shit over your myspace?

[befsquire]

i'm currently getting shit for a comment on mine. as if i can control what other people say.

yes, i could delete it, but i'm so angry that i'm in trouble for what my good friend said that i refuse to do anything of the sort.

maybe i'm wrong, maybe he's wrong, whatever. i'm just mad that i'm in trouble over my gay friend's comment on my myspace page, which i barely go to.

[The Notorious LOL]

I thought you deleted your profile. Turns out you just de-friended me :mad:

[befsquire]

no. it wouldn't let me delete it because i didn't have the email address i signed up with. you have to click some link.

...

anyway, go to his page and then add me. i still don't check the shit.

[Bitchamachacha]

Woah! What?

I recently deleted my 3rd MySpace. It took up WAY too much of my time and I got tired of stalkers. Never let people you date look at your MySpace. It either A) Causes trouble like mentioned here or B) They stalk you for life after the fact.

Internets! YAY!

I hope whatever is troubling you works out, Beth. :)

[befsquire]

it's what's troubling him. and i truly don't get why he's mad.

he says my friend is taking advantage of being gay and that no one should tell another man's wife that he loves her. i tried to explain that he doesn't love me like that, but he's still pissed and i'm still in trouble.

whatever. i don't get it and i just won't ever get it, more than likely. and i don't discount that i could totally be wrong in all this, but he doesn't try to make me get it. instead, he just sounds jealous of my gay best friend who is moving to another state in 2 days.

[DandyFop]

Wow...yeah. That sounds lame. If my friends and I find ourselves talking about myspace in real life we try to end it as soon as possible. Myspace dramzz

[ms.peachy]

What a bizarre thing to be upset about.

I can't do the myspace thing. I finally just got myself on facebook, and that's as far as I can go I think.

[venusvenus123]

it's what's troubling him. and i truly don't get why he's mad.

he says my friend is taking advantage of being gay and that no one should tell another man's wife that he loves her. i tried to explain that he doesn't love me like that, but he's still pissed and i'm still in trouble.

whatever. i don't get it and i just won't ever get it, more than likely. and i don't discount that i could totally be wrong in all this, but he doesn't try to make me get it. instead, he just sounds jealous of my gay best friend who is moving to another state in 2 days.

yes, that is very silly. people can still love you after you get married. i think this guy loves you and is jealous that he can't say it to you because he's not gay. that's my pseudo psychological take on the matter.

i deleted my myspace account too. altho i did resurrect an old one, just for bands and a few people. i'm all about the facebook these days. even then, it's all a bit much!

[ericlee]

Hey, Def and Bef. You both are sexy mofos. Quit gettin angry about the positive remarks said to you randomly while walking around.

Anyway, random remarks on myspace about my lady? Pssshhh... Forget about it.. It's innarwebbblsss

Why would people complain about positive remarks, just as long as they're truthfull and not overdone in a demeaning way.

[venusvenus123]

sorry... am i missing something here.... is the guy getting annoyed with the comment bobby? :confused:

[Lyman Zerga]

I recently deleted my 3rd MySpace. It took up WAY too much of my time

not here, i just log in to see if i got new messages or requests (which hardly happens anymore, except for the music spam) then i leave
guess im more of a receiver than a giver cause i cant hardly ever think of anything good to post to someone, it would be way more fun and easier if i had people on my list who i know in real

i used to spend much time on myspace but mainly to work on the perfect layout, now i got it and now im just boo bie bored of myspace

atleast myspace entertained me for about a year, FB for like a week..

[hellojello]

sorry... am i missing something here.... is the guy getting annoyed with the comment bobby? :confused:
Well that's what I assumed as soon as I'd read that second comment....

and I have had people start shit over myspace comments and yes I find it stupid and annoying.

[roosta]

One time, but I cleaned it off before anyone noticed.

[Kid Presentable]

He's got every right to be annoyed. Stupid female insecurities are pandered to daily, indulge his male ones and just acknowledge it. It's not so hard to see it from his perspective, is it?

Your posting this part of the problem on the messageboard just highlights another issue with internet couples; whether you control it or not, everything becomes everybody else's business. Once he gets over the gay man saying I love you like he can, he's got you airing your dirty laundry to deal with.

[RobMoney$]

It takes a very secure man to have a hot girlfriend/wife.
He's moved thousands of miles to be with you. He's invested a lot into your relationship.
In a way it's a sign of how much he cares about you.


Seems like his anger is being directed at the wrong person though.
If his issue was that "any man should never tell another man's wife that he loves her" then his issue is with your friend, not you.

[Deep_Sea_Rain]

I remember a big fiasco that happened last summer....a friend of mine (who happens to be a stripper) left a comment on my page that my girlfriend took the wrong way. Long story short, the girlfriend threw a fit and I lost a friend.

(y)

[cookiepuss]

um you can set it up so that you have to approve comments before they are posted to your page.

that's how you avoid this sort of thing.

I once sent a comment to Paul Jones and Paul thought his lady friend might get the wrong idea about my comment, so he didn't allow it to get posted and he told me about it and i completely understood. yup/

[Deep_Sea_Rain]

That should have been a (n)

[Dorothy Wood]

I don't get shit, but sometimes I get mad about some stuff on dude's page. there's this one girl who always leaves flirty comments and I hate it. I know that she's engaged though, so I don't say anything. EVEN THOUGH, I know that they almost hooked up. one time he was talking about going to her birthday party and I was like, "oh, the girl you used to make out with?" and he was like, "ha, no, I almost made out with her" and I was like, "oh" and he was like, "I should've", and then I punched him really hard in the arm. he told me not to worry and I told him he was being disrespectful. and he agreed and apologized.

I still hate her though. whatever, she's 4 years younger than me, but looks like she's older than me. I'm also more clever. I win the contest.

and it's not like I don't flirt with people on the internet myself soooo, yeah. take off your pants bob.

[Bob]

I don't get shit, but sometimes I get mad about some stuff on dude's page. there's this one girl who always leaves flirty comments and I hate it. I know that she's engaged though, so I don't say anything. EVEN THOUGH, I know that they almost hooked up. one time he was talking about going to her birthday party and I was like, "oh, the girl you used to make out with?" and he was like, "ha, no, I almost made out with her" and I was like, "oh" and he was like, "I should've", and then I punched him really hard in the arm. he told me not to worry and I told him he was being disrespectful. and he agreed and apologized.

I still hate her though. whatever, she's 4 years younger than me, but looks like she's older than me. I'm also more clever. I win the contest.

and it's not like I don't flirt with people on the internet myself soooo, yeah. take off your pants bob.

i saw you had the last reply here, so i had them off before i opened the thread

[Loppfessor]

So I bet he’d really get mad if I said “Hey Beth don’t only do I love you, but I wanna fuck your brains out”….hypothetically speaking of course right? I just try not to read comments on my girlfriend’s page it helps to reduce the number of people on my kill list…

[Lyman Zerga]

im not feeling completely comfortable "talking" with people who are in relationships

and guys with gfs need to be shot anyway

[Belt Parkway]

Enjoy the makeup sex.

[befsquire]

i think this guy loves you and is jealous that he can't say it to you because he's not gay. that's my pseudo psychological take on the matter.

oh no. my friend is totally and completely gay. he moved to atlanta because that's where his boyfriend got transferred to. he bitches about his boyfriend as much as any girl could EVER complain about her boyfriend. he is truly gay, and both of us know that like we know our own names.

[befsquire]

He's got every right to be annoyed. Stupid female insecurities are pandered to daily, indulge his male ones and just acknowledge it. It's not so hard to see it from his perspective, is it?

Your posting this part of the problem on the messageboard just highlights another issue with internet couples; whether you control it or not, everything becomes everybody else's business. Once he gets over the gay man saying I love you like he can, he's got you airing your dirty laundry to deal with.

but he didn't say "i love you" he said "love ya darlin," which to me doesn't mean anything at all.

i guess my main issue with your post is about "internet couples." when i was married to my ex, i didn't get any posts about how i shouldn't be using this as an outlet of frustration. but because i met bobby here, i can't ever use this site to vent? i have plenty of things, both good and irksome, that i have never posted here. i chose to post one that particularly bothered me, in part to see if maybe i'm in the wrong, but yet automatically i appear to be wrong for posting at all because we met here.

i guess i should only choose to post if i have something really fun / happy to post about, because obviously i'm a different person since i met my husband here.

[Yetra Flam]

Not shit over my myspace, but i am continuing to fend off aggressive emails from a disgruntled girlfriend. I should probably block her, but i'm actually interested in what she has to say. I completely do not deserve this at all because i haven't done anything untoward. (is that the right word?) But i feel like i'm getting what i deserve in a sort of weird karmic sense because i acted like the same kind of jealous, insecure girlfriend, attacking my partner's female friends. I think that's probably what dissolved my relationship in the end. It's been a sort of me learning my lesson type of thing. The circle is now complete.

[Kid Presentable]

but he didn't say "i love you" he said "love ya darlin," which to me doesn't mean anything at all.

i guess my main issue with your post is about "internet couples." when i was married to my ex, i didn't get any posts about how i shouldn't be using this as an outlet of frustration. but because i met bobby here, i can't ever use this site to vent? i have plenty of things, both good and irksome, that i have never posted here. i chose to post one that particularly bothered me, in part to see if maybe i'm in the wrong, but yet automatically i appear to be wrong for posting at all because we met here.

i guess i should only choose to post if i have something really fun / happy to post about, because obviously i'm a different person since i met my husband here.

I was just offering my two cents. You marginalised him as far as I saw it by deciding this place was yours to vent in, and not his. Like I said, it's really just about making a private issue public. Share all you want, but this place is both of yours to use, and I don't see him here.

I was just offering another perspective. Sorry if it bothered you.

Edit: Bitching about your ex here may have been part of your problem together, I don't know. There's really no ill will in my post. Surely if this relationship is better than that last one, you shouldn't fall back into the old holding pattern of bringing the squabbles to this forum for dissection?

[Loppfessor]

^You're just saying that cus you want to be her next husband....