my shitty night, what should I do about it?

[mikizee]

So.

I had a few drinks with my ex last night. We still get along well, she has been seeing some dude lately and I'm fine with that.

This dude she has been seeing fro about 6 weeks, apparently is completely enamoured with my ex and has fallen head over heels. He is so crazy about her it started to scare her a little, seeing as they haven't been seeing each other for long.

Anyway I got a phone call at about 3am this morning from my ex and she was scared out of her wits and crying, and begging me to come over, pleading with me to be as quick as I can. I freaked out because she was losing her mind over the phone so I jumped in my car and sped down to her place as quick as I could.

When I arrived I pulled up opposite her house. There was some dude just standing on the side of the road just in front of my car, but I didn't really take any notice of him. I went inside and my ex is beside herself, crying and crying and saying that she never wanted to see this guy she had been seeing again.

She finally explained that he had called her, drunk as, at about 1am telling her he was going to come over. He was on a boys night at a seaside town about an hour and a half's drive from her place. She told him not to be stupid and not to come down as she was seeing him the next day anyway, and left it at that.

So about 3am her doorbell started ringing and ringing and ringing. It was this dude, and he had just caught a cab that cost $250!!! so he could come and see her. This really freaked her out, as thats not really what a normal person would do. She refused to let him in as he was really drunk and told him to catch a cab home, and he was shocked, and he refused to leave. So she shut the door, scared as and called me.

So this guy who was standing on the road near my car turned out to be the drunk new boyfriend. As soon as I got inside he started texting her angrily asking who the fuck I was and why she let me in and so on and so forth, and she ignored it. Me and her lie down and put on a DVD to calm her down. After a while the phone stops going crazy and goes silent.

So this morning I walk outside to my car and find a massive lump of concrete infront of my car and a huge dent in the bonnet (hood). This cunt obviously got pissed off that I was in there with her and fucked with my car.

I goto the cop shop but there is nothing they can do since no one saw him do it.

My ex has refused to see him ever again, and mostly ignored all the calls and texts from him today. She asked him why he fucked with my car and he said he didn't do it. He has no idea and is very confused why she told him to leave and now never wants to see him again.

So, what should I do with this guy? He doesn't own a car so I can't fuck with it, however I know where he lives. He does live with 4 other dudes tho, and they are all pretty heavy so I couldn't go over there by myself, I'd be killed.

I want vengeance, damn it!

[Waus]

Let it go?

Hah, I know that's not helpful, but really - you got to hang out with the lady and he didn't. You won. Ooh - he dented your car - so what? It still runs.

[mikizee]

Did I mention that the car is less than 12 months old?

and the dent is bigger than a dinnerplate?

[Helvete]

Hey, he fucked with your car, it's on. Firebomb his place or something.
Although seriously, I'd probably do something to him, but if it's bad at all, you don't want your ex thinking that you're just as bad as him. But hey, he fucked with your car, you can't let him get away with that.

[ericlee]

So.

I had a few drinks with my ex last night. We still get along well, she has been seeing some dude lately and I'm fine with that.

This dude she has been seeing fro about 6 weeks, apparently is completely enamoured with my ex and has fallen head over heels. He is so crazy about her it started to scare her a little, seeing as they haven't been seeing each other for long.

Anyway I got a phone call at about 3am this morning from my ex and she was scared out of her wits and crying, and begging me to come over, pleading with me to be as quick as I can. I freaked out because she was losing her mind over the phone so I jumped in my car and sped down to her place as quick as I could.

When I arrived I pulled up opposite her house. There was some dude just standing on the side of the road just in front of my car, but I didn't really take any notice of him. I went inside and my ex is beside herself, crying and crying and saying that she never wanted to see this guy she had been seeing again.

She finally explained that he had called her, drunk as, at about 1am telling her he was going to come over. He was on a boys night at a seaside town about an hour and a half's drive from her place. She told him not to be stupid and not to come down as she was seeing him the next day anyway, and left it at that.

So about 3am her doorbell started ringing and ringing and ringing. It was this dude, and he had just caught a cab that cost $250!!! so he could come and see her. This really freaked her out, as thats not really what a normal person would do. She refused to let him in as he was really drunk and told him to catch a cab home, and he was shocked, and he refused to leave. So she shut the door, scared as and called me.

So this guy who was standing on the road near my car turned out to be the drunk new boyfriend. As soon as I got inside he started texting her angrily asking who the fuck I was and why she let me in and so on and so forth, and she ignored it. Me and her lie down and put on a DVD to calm her down. After a while the phone stops going crazy and goes silent.

So this morning I walk outside to my car and find a massive lump of concrete infront of my car and a huge dent in the bonnet (hood). This cunt obviously got pissed off that I was in there with her and fucked with my car.

I goto the cop shop but there is nothing they can do since no one saw him do it.

My ex has refused to see him ever again, and mostly ignored all the calls and texts from him today. She asked him why he fucked with my car and he said he didn't do it. He has no idea and is very confused why she told him to leave and now never wants to see him again.

So, what should I do with this guy? He doesn't own a car so I can't fuck with it, however I know where he lives. He does live with 4 other dudes tho, and they are all pretty heavy so I couldn't go over there by myself, I'd be killed.

I want vengeance, damn it!

So, how much ya willin to pay? I'll bust his ass up, and his whole crew.

[RobMoney$]

You should have just told the cops that you saw him do it.

[HEIRESS]

totally, lying to the cops usually works, especially if you werent drunk and he was.

waus is right, you got the girl so you are the marty McFly of this situation so what else matters eh?

[Videodrome]

Let it go?

Hah, I know that's not helpful, but really - you got to hang out with the lady and he didn't. You won. Ooh - he dented your car - so what? It still runs.(y)

[Randetica]

he sounds like one of those psychos who would come back and shoot you and his "gf"

problem solved (y)

[mikizee]

You should have just told the cops that you saw him do it.

I reckon! Thats exactly what I should have done.

I'm probably not going to do anything. After my ex and him had a few phone calls yesterday she confirmed that he is crazy. He knows where she lives so if I did something back to him I'd be putting her in danger. She's already scared shitless and is staying at her parent's house.

So it sucks but there is not much I can do. I was thinking though about calling the police and telling them he runs a meth lab so he gets a visit from the police anyway.

[icy manipulator]

I reckon! Thats exactly what I should have done.

I'm probably not going to do anything. After my ex and him had a few phone calls yesterday she confirmed that he is crazy. He knows where she lives so if I did something back to him I'd be putting her in danger. She's already scared shitless and is staying at her parent's house.

So it sucks but there is not much I can do. I was thinking though about calling the police and telling them he runs a meth lab so he gets a visit from the police anyway.

nah, say there's some suspicious looking barrells of acid at his house (Y)

[Bob]

sneak into his house while he's asleep, call the police from inside, pretend to be him and tell them that you've killed a man and you want to be arrested please

he'll never see it coming

[cosmo105]

just back off on him, let it go or else he'll probably do something even worse to you or her. he's obviously unstable so it's best to be the better man here and just walk away.


and tell your ex to change her phone number and maybe look into a temporary restraining order.

[Audio.]

get his address and put him for subscriptions to gay porn magazines.

*shrugs*

[Bob]

just back off on him, let it go or else he'll probably do something even worse to you or her. he's obviously unstable so it's best to be the better man here and just walk away.



seriously. don't exacerbate this conflict with the insane man

[RobMoney$]

The way I see it, I wouldn't be bothered with either of them again.

If the guy bothers her again, tell her what you should have told her the first time, CALL THE POLICE. It's their job to sort that kind of shit out, not yours.
You say "No big deal, it's only a dent". That's bullshit man. You're lucky it's only a dent, it could have been a lot worse, and if you're in that situation again it probably will be a lot worse. He'll more than likely escalate his behavior each time. It's a no win situation for you.

Also, you guys broke up. You obviously still have feelings for her, but this is not the way to win her back. Relationships founded in chaos have absolutely no chance of lasting. She needs to sort her problems out on her own with that guy if she's seriously interested in having a relationship that has any chance of being real.
You're hearing her side of the story, and I'm not saying she's lying to you at all, but you don't know what his side of what happened.
There's her side, there's his side, and then there's what really happened.

Best thing to do is stay out of it.

[hitmonlee]

i know it sucks... but i think you have to suck it up and move on.

personally i can't believe you left an upset drunk dude out the front of her house... let alone with your car!! you could have parked down the street at least or something.

what did you think he was going to do? get bored and walk away? pass out?

you should have called the cops as soon as you got there and got him removed from the premises. or called his parents or something.

ignoring him and going inside was a really stupid thing to do. which you now know.

sorry about your car dude, but i'm really not sure you were using your brain that night.

edit: i'd be thankful that that is all he did, he could have injured you or her or smashed her house up.

[mikizee]

at the time I pulled up to the house I didn't know any of the story, she hadn't told me yet. I had no idea who he was. He just looked like a normal person waiting for a taxi. (which he was). Thats why I didn't take much notice of him at all. Once I was inside and worked out who he was I figured it would be safer if I just stayed inside. (The guy is huge... and I'm not).

Wise words robmoney, I'm trying to stay out of it now.

[hitmonlee]

Once I was inside and worked out who he was I figured it would be safer if I just stayed inside. (The guy is huge... and I'm not).


this is the moment when you should have called the police (!)

and if they didn't show up, at least the call might have been some good circumstantial evidence for the cops to go and scare the guy with.

[RobMoney$]

Sorry if my tone was a little harsh in that last post, but I get hyped when I hear these kinds of stories about guys stalking girls and scaring the shit out of them.
I've been in a very similar situation myself and it's like I can see how your story is going to end before it ends, know what I mean?

Good Luck man.

[paul jones]

much more drama than Home and Away(y)

[mikizee]

I prefer to call that show 'Homos and Gays'

For obvious reasons

[icy manipulator]

I prefer to call that show 'Homos and Gays'

For obvious reasons

true neighbours fan (y)

[russhie]

Hey, H&A storylines have been bomb lately. Drugs, lies, court appearances, drink driving, car crashes, beach parties, older man banging the really tanned chick in one of Sal's caravans

Neighbours has lost it's gloss.

[Yetra Flam]

damn, i really miss home and away now.

[cookiepuss]

geez your ex girlfriend sure can pick em'.



restraining order. nuff said.

[Lex Diamonds]

I don't know why nobody's said it already, but you should obviously kill him. Something quick, clean- nothing fancy. Just make sure fucking with your vehicle was the last mistake he'll ever make...