I think I just broke up with my gf

[tracky]

But she's done this before. I never know when it's going to be for real or not.

I'm not really cut up about it. I mean I'll miss the company but sometimes I think it's for the best anyway.

The last message.... wait another one just came!

Ok the last last message was

"do not contact me"

I think to myself, ok I won't....

last message (just then)

"enjoy waking up alone tmrw"


I think shes wanting me to respond in some passionate way


all this cause i'm broke on valentines day. mang. women :rolleyes:

[camo]

blimey, just coz you're skint on vday? That sucks (n)

[Lex Diamonds]

Just don't respond. She obviously wants you to and it will drive her crazy.

She just sounds like one of those girls who loves drama. She'll come crawling back, they always do.

[tracky]

well she's pissed cause i spent my last $25 on weed, really.

so it's like "weeds more important to you than me!"

well duh





no i kid. it's not more important, she just blows it all out of proportion and ignores the fact i coulda gone any time in the last few days and got some but i didnt. then i'd probably lie about it, and she's already pissed because i did that once before.

[Lex Diamonds]

Tell her that you're very very sorry and you can understand exactly why she's upset BUT it is ridiculous to suggest that weed is more important than her, she is blowing the whole thing out of proportion and needs to get some perspective on how much your relationship is worth.

[Kid Presentable]

We don't celebrate valentines. And knowing she wasn't into that shit was one of the things that sealed the deal.

[camo]

We don't celebrate valentines. And knowing she wasn't into that shit was one of the things that sealed the deal.

Thats Hallmark out of a couple of bucks then :D

[Kid Presentable]

I'm just saying; empowered women in a reversal of roles would be all "nuh-uh don't take no guff!" (while listening to The Waitresses) and so on. Tracky should know there's no reason to sit through lunacy like this. HE doesn't need to feel inferior to please anyone. If she doesn't like it, she can fuck right off.

*before any ladies come in here ready to cut me, I'm the most under-the-thumb motherfucker you'll meet. I love my bitch. But that doesn't mean I can't have some self-respect. Drop this banshee, tracks.

[Kid Presentable]

Plus two stoned people fucking could power a small city.

[TurdBerglar]

she's playing attention games. she wants you to grovel at her feet and beg. i personally don't understand how that's attractive. i see begging like that as very very low.


a female that plays games is a female you can't trust.

[Lex Diamonds]

Plus two stoned people fucking could power a small city.Cheah, stoned sex is dat piff. Nice sig btw.

I ordered my bitch this (http://www.aspinaloflondon.com/details.asp?CategoryID=27&RangeID=83&StyleID=342&ProductID=523&DesignID=2096) for Valentine's. She didn't really want to do gifts but I'm pretty sure she's getting me a nice Zippo so I encouraged it.

[abcdefz]

well she's pissed cause i spent my last $25 on weed, really.

so it's like "weeds more important to you than me!"

well duh





no i kid. it's not more important, she just blows it all out of proportion and ignores the fact i coulda gone any time in the last few days and got some but i didnt. then i'd probably lie about it, and she's already pissed because i did that once before.



Uh... that sounds fairly legit, to me.

[camo]

a female that plays games is a female you can't trust.

I'd trust her (http://lizrevision.com/wp-content/uploads/Nerdcore_Cover21.jpg)

[Kid Presentable]

Cheah, stoned sex is dat piff. Nice sig btw.

I ordered my bitch this (http://www.aspinaloflondon.com/details.asp?CategoryID=27&RangeID=83&StyleID=342&ProductID=523&DesignID=2096) for Valentine's. She didn't really want to do gifts but I'm pretty sure she's getting me a nice Zippo so I encouraged it.

I always needed a signature that reflected your interests.

[Kid Presentable]

Uh... that sounds fairly legit, to me.

Nah. He has to make it hard on himself. Trust.

[abcdefz]

I wonder how a guy would like it if he knew that this Saturday he'd be getting laid, and come Saturday night she's like, "Oh -- I've been
masturbating all day and I'm really worn out. Let's not."

"But you've known about this for a week!"

"Don't be a drama queen. I'm not into it."

[Lex Diamonds]

I always needed a signature that reflected your interests.
Well Reservoir Dogs is one of my favourite films. And I loooooves me some Madonna. (y)

[Kid Presentable]

Well Reservoir Dogs is one of my favourite films. And I loooooves me some Madonna. (y)

Zactly

[HEIRESS]

I date broke guys all the time. I have never dated anyone who made more than me. even in university when everyone is broke because I had two jobs and shit. so ive never dumped anyone over their $$$ situation.

what I dont date are guys who do drugs. yeah whatever its just weed, but if you are buying it for yourself for your own personal usage on a regular basis, then i consider it a habit. so I dont feel sorry for you or her. she knew what she was signing up for, so she can sit at home and cry over her stupid decision.

I will deal with being related to people who have drug habits, but I will not openly entertain friendships or relationships with those who do.

ms. crafty is right. find a chick who rolls the same way as you, and then you wont have these problems. youll have all the other shit that goes along with bein in a relationship, but this particular issue wont come up again, hopefully.

[Randetica]

thank god i dont need weed so i could buy myself a valentines present and im also good in bed (y)

[beastieangel01]

all this cause i'm broke on valentines day. mang. women :rolleyes:

and this is why it would be GOOD for you to not be with this woman.

jesus.

[abcdefz]

He clearly made his choice. :D

[Kid Presentable]

Is saying "death to him!" going too far?

[abcdefz]

Oh, yeah.

Something along the lines of "awareness of others and less self-pity to him!" is probably more appropriate.

[checkyourprez]

its a made up holiday anyways. she sounds like a beeyatch to me.

do you get pissed when she doesnt get you something for 4/20? that holiday is legit as v-day.

[AceFace]

this is ridiculous. she's hurt b/c it's obvious that you didn't care to think of her before blowing your wad on weed. she might not have wanted a huge gift, but just a little thought put into her.

i'm not a big valentines day person, but i am big on getting the attention i need to feel loved.

i'm with a-z on this one.

[abcdefz]

^

You said it better than I did.

Plus, if she's someone who doesn't put any value on pot, it's even more of a slap in the face, because you literally spent money on a weed
rather than her.

[kaiser soze]

Maybe its not the fact that you bought weed, but that you smoke weed and she's sick of it.

I'm sure she digs you (obviously by her texting playing hard to get), but doesn't appreciate your drug use and doesn't know how to approach it.

Valentines Day is big to people in relationships, you prioritized getting stoned for the umpteenth time over getting something special for her....

....or she's a nutbag

[kll]

when i first read this thread, i was thinking it's not even valentine's day yet and a bit premature to be getting pissed about something that hasn't not happened yet...

i was annoyed with the (ex)girlfriend needing something that costs money on V-day instead of waiting to see what he plans in lieu of something tangible...

but, he never, in defense of his actions, tried to explain that he was planning a romantic sex fest or anything, so i am now sorta siding on the (ex)girlfriends side...


and i don't think this post makes sense... bah.

[trailerprincess]

Every day I spend on this planet I get closer to my cat-lady nightmare.

And that's the winning attitude that's going to sort everything out.

[kll]

haha. for me, it's the crazy lady with 25 dogs and a hose that squirts anyone who comes near my property.

[Yetra Flam]

Every day I spend on this planet I get closer to my cat-lady nightmare.

And that's the winning attitude that's going to sort everything out.

i think i'm already there. i was really relying on my accent getting me more attention. but that's bollocks.

[AceFace]

you're in the wrong city for that girl!

you need to go somewhere that isn't a cultural melting pot...

[Yetra Flam]

i can't compete with the girls here

[Dorothy Wood]

that girl sounds like trouble. but it's also pretty shitty that you spent the last of your money on weed. when do you get paid again? I would never buy weed if it'd make me broke.

I don't know, I don't really like either of your behavior!

but I suppose I'm not the type to expect any sort of monetary gift. I'd like to get something like a card at least, but I won't be mad if I don't since we're going out to dinner and he'll probably pay (since dinner was his idea). boo ya. I'm giving heem a bear I made out of paper. it has a wiener and balls! maybe some candy. and a blow j. ;););)

[DandyFop]

Screw this bitch, tracky, let's get high!

re: Valentine's day - I have a beau this year but I haven't thought twice about getting him anything and I'm assuming vice versa

[tracky]

I get paid tommorow, then everything is sweet again.

yeah the whole relationship isnt working. since the beginning she's been trying to make it more than what it is, getting me to meet her parents etc., even tho we'd only been seeing each other 2 months. i think thats half the problem, she's trying to go fast and I'm trying to slow things down.

i think she's a massive hypocrit anyway, cause as soon as she gets paid she wants to go blow it on the pokies, which isnt much better than my habit. I don't like the pokies but I never complain, I just sit there and play them with her. I'll even give her money so she can keep playing when she runs out. I bet she'd never give me money if I was hanging for some green!

for the record, I was going to give her a set of engraved wine glasses (I can 'borrow' the stock from work)

[ms.peachy]

for the record, I was going to give her a set of engraved wine glasses (I can 'borrow' the stock from work)

Classy! She's a fool if she lets you get away!

[tracky]

Is that just a hint of sarcasm I detect there? Is it the wine glasses, or the borrowing of?

[mikizee]

I get paid tommorow, then everything is sweet again.

yeah the whole relationship isnt working. since the beginning she's been trying to make it more than what it is, getting me to meet her parents etc., even tho we'd only been seeing each other 2 months. i think thats half the problem, she's trying to go fast and I'm trying to slow things down.

i think she's a massive hypocrit anyway, cause as soon as she gets paid she wants to go blow it on the pokies, which isnt much better than my habit. I don't like the pokies but I never complain, I just sit there and play them with her. I'll even give her money so she can keep playing when she runs out. I bet she'd never give me money if I was hanging for some green!

for the record, I was going to give her a set of engraved wine glasses (I can 'borrow' the stock from work)



Stay away from her! If she has a gambling habit with poker machines, its all downhill and a very slippery slope. Trust me, I'm a poker machine technician. They are bad, bad news.

[tracky]

I honestly don't know how bad her habit is, I think she has played them a few times without me, other than that it's just been after a meal at the pub, but she's always hanging to get on them. Last night her pay went in and she asks if we can go play the pokies. Warning bells!

I can see the addictive nature of them, but it's not something I'm willing to let myself get addicted to. I mean you only have to look at the calibre of people on the machines to realise it's not exactly a wise life choice. I've already made enough un-wise life choices I don't need more.

[Randetica]

tracky is one helluva guy (y)