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beastiegirrl101
02-19-2008, 01:31 PM
Has anyone ever left their number for their waiter / server? I did it once back in high school and it actually turned into a relationship for a few months. For you servers out there, has anyone ever left his or her number? Did you think it was super cheesy? Were you flattered? Would you actually call if you were interested? I’m not talking bartenders here because I think that’s a completely different scenario.
Share your funny stories....
abcdefz
02-19-2008, 01:34 PM
I had a friend who used to do this. Then I noticed he'd only hit on girls who were his waitress -- i.e., women who are being paid to be
nice to him. That was a little weird, because I've been on the other side of it. It's fun to flirt with a customer if you're attracted to her
(or him), but it's no fun at all to have someone you're not interested in hit on you in that situation. It's such a lose-lose situation, because
you can be pretty sure it'll affect your tip, and then that makes you feel like a whore.
But if there's attraction, it's fun, and you can start role playing games right away!
beastiegirrl101
02-19-2008, 01:41 PM
^That is a little creepy, did they ever call him?
Freebasser
02-19-2008, 01:44 PM
How do you hit on a server?
"Hi, baby - nice port. How'd you like to come back to my homepage for a bit of 1001001000100100011101100? ;)"
:confused:
MC Moot
02-19-2008, 01:45 PM
I've always found it to be cheap and tacky...(n)
abcdefz
02-19-2008, 01:45 PM
Nevah.
He's a funny guy, because his looks and build are catnip to girls, but then he's so shy and awkward he can go from 60 to zero in ten seconds.
I want to smack him. :D
beastiegirrl101
02-19-2008, 01:47 PM
I've always found it to be cheap and tacky...(n)
why? If you see something you like, why not take action? How different is it than going up to someone at a bar? If they are interested you're only making their work time more enjoyable.
I was out with some friends a month or so ago, and we had a really purty waitress that was pretty friendly. I was leaving early so I got my bill and jokingly said I was going to put my number on the receipt for her to my friends.
The next morning my friend let me know that they actually DID put my number on the receipt after I left and to let him know if she ever called.
I didn't care too much because I never go to the shopping mall that the restaurant was in, but as luck would have it, we had to go that afternoon to return something and had to walk right by the restaurant. I felt like a douche bag.
She never called. So I cried.
I forgot what my point was....and if I even had a point.
MC Moot
02-19-2008, 03:43 PM
why? If you see something you like, why not take action? How different is it than going up to someone at a bar? If they are interested you're only making their work time more enjoyable.
Well,I see at as a employer/employee relationship...in that the person is temporarily inservitude to you...now if I saw her in line at a cafe or at the checkout at my grocers,that's fairplay,she's not concerned about a tip and is on her time.....then again I have a wicked bad history of messing bout with co-workers,so I'm largely talking shit I suppose...:o
abcdefz
02-19-2008, 03:49 PM
I think the thing to do would be, if you were the guest, you wait until all the business is finished off before you say anything.
And if I were the server, I'd probably just say I enjoyed serving them, and I hope they'll ask for my section the next time they come in.
If they can't take that kind of hint, it's probably best to move on, anyway.
In weird situations like this, I usually ask for a phone or an e-mail address. I think asking for the e-mail address puts a woman at ease a bit.
ericlee
02-19-2008, 06:25 PM
haha, I used to wait tables at Frishe's Big Boy when I was 18 and some girl, I swear she was a freshman in High School was with her parents.
She left me her phone number on one of those kiddy cartoon coloring placemats saying that I was cute and stuff.
I left it on the table and I think the busboy probably kept it.
Me and a friend of mine worked at a pizza and grinders place for a while in highschool. Once, this girl from a couple towns over was there with a bunch of friends and left my friend a little note on the table. She ended up calling him later that night - and came over with like 5 other girls to his house while I was there. It was mostly strange because we had no idea what they wanted coming in force like that.
cookiepuss
02-19-2008, 07:37 PM
um yes. I have picked up on my server before. it was in college and there was a lot of booze involved. and I'm a little embarassed to say it was at Denny's. and actually I didn't just leave my number. His shift was ending and my friend and i invited him over for a game of strip poker. he lost. and the rest isn't really something I'm going to get into with you kids...but I'm sure you can imagine. very naughty.:o ah. college.
I actually ended up dating him on and off for a bout 8 months...however...
he turned out to be a drunk (what a surprise:rolleyes:) and he couldn't be faithful to one person (oh again another shocker!:rolleyes:).
ericlee
02-19-2008, 08:49 PM
How do you hit on a server?
"Hi, baby - nice port. How'd you like to come back to my homepage for a bit of 1001001000100100011101100? ;)"
:confused:
hey baby, would you like just a hard drive or would you like a little thumb in too?
Kid Presentable
02-19-2008, 08:56 PM
A friend of mine and myself had been thrown out of a couple of pubs, so we made our way to this eatery/pub thing near home and had a feed. The waitress was pretty hot, so we asked her if she could score us some some pills, and then we threatened to walk out without paying. I fell asleep at the table for a couple of minutes, and fell out of my chair. Anyway, a couple of weeks later I got a job there, and followed her around for a bit. We've been together for over 6 years.(y)
Oh, and a junkie offered me a blowjob for a bottle of rum once on the other side of the coin.
A friend of mine and myself had been thrown out of a couple of pubs, so we made our way to this eatery/pub thing near home and had a feed. The waitress was pretty hot, so we asked her if she could score us some some pills, and then we threatened to walk out without paying. I fell asleep at the table for a couple of minutes, and fell out of my chair. Anyway, a couple of weeks later I got a job there, and followed her around for a bit. We've been together for over 6 years.(y)
:cool:
AceFace
02-19-2008, 09:31 PM
i'm a MAD flirt when it comes to servers. i'll wink and carry on conversations far too long. i LOVE it!
if i'm ever out of town with my girlfriends, they always pick on me for flirting too much when the husband is away.
russhie
02-19-2008, 11:53 PM
A friend of mine and myself had been thrown out of a couple of pubs, so we made our way to this eatery/pub thing near home and had a feed. The waitress was pretty hot, so we asked her if she could score us some some pills, and then we threatened to walk out without paying. I fell asleep at the table for a couple of minutes, and fell out of my chair. Anyway, a couple of weeks later I got a job there, and followed her around for a bit. We've been together for over 6 years.(y)
Oh, and a junkie offered me a blowjob for a bottle of rum once on the other side of the coin.
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