It should have been me...

[cookiepuss]

it just should have been.

I should have been his wife. I should have been the one to have his kid. but it didn't work out like that.

regret sucks. I don't usually regret. But now I'm fucking myself up over things that might have been.

*sigh*(n)

I also should have won the lottery but that's a different story.

[Yetra Flam]

it always should be me. they never realise that though

[cookiepuss]

I think I thought I was a little more "over it" than I am. whew. fun. *vomits*

I mean fuck I've been in a relationship for a long time now...it's just not really going anywhere and I don't know.....I love my partner...but it just isn't what THAT was. if you know what I mean.


missed opportunites...I think we both regret it a little now....


I share your sad cowness , ms. crafty.

[fucktopgirl]

I did come close at one point to lose the love of my life, but we were strong enough to fight and stick together... not to be a bitch but yea... i am pretty happy.


Regret is the worst, but ya know, if it did not happen, maybe because it was meant to be this way.


i always have wisdom sentence to say :D

[Dorothy Wood]

gah, I hope this shit doesn't happen to me. my friend told me "you know how in the movies, there's a break up and then the person's really sad, but then they find someone way better? that's because that's what happens, and it will happen to you". and I was like, pfft. but I hope she's right. :/

[cookiepuss]

did you end it or did he?

it was sorta mutual...there was long distance, and we both kinda had other local people come on the scene and I we thought that maybe long distance wasn't going to work out and we should open ourselves up to happiness with other people. basically we both pussied out...

but as it turns out the chemistry never went away and some feelings still remain...

feelings that need to be ignored...

[cookiepuss]

gah, I hope this shit doesn't happen to me. my friend told me "you know how in the movies, there's a break up and then the person's really sad, but then they find someone way better? that's because that's what happens, and it will happen to you". and I was like, pfft. but I hope she's right. :/

oh man...that's kinda putting some false hope your way...I mean yeah...some of the time someone better comes along...but MOST of the time it's just someone different and you can't even compare the two.

[monkey]

yah... i know this feeling.

but fuck, one day it's gonna be me, and... i dont know. in my perfect revengeful dream, im gonna be super happy and have all those things i wanted and he's gonna wish it were him, but i will have (finally) moved on. :o:(

[fucktopgirl]

ya know, our mind is creative so, create what you want. be realistic for sure, but if you want a loving, simple relation with good vibes, you will eventually get it.

Maybe i am too positive , but yea, we attract what we want or think of... Our mind is a powerful tool...


ok enough!!:D

[Yetra Flam]

not true

[fucktopgirl]

What not true?

[Yetra Flam]

no matter what you do or think, bad shit is going to happen to you, people will treat you badly. it has nothing to do with the "vibe" you put out there, it's just the way life goes

[fucktopgirl]

Well, i think that what you feel AND THINK, will affect what will happen in your life. Think negative shit, it will surface in your life, think lighter, more positive, better things will come your way. For sure bad shit will always happen , like death. We cannot escape that, but i Do think that your frame of mind will affect your outcomes. Negatives ones will attracts negative shits, positives shits will attracts positives things. It is as simple as that.

[Yetra Flam]

i can understand why people think that way, and if that works for them, that's fine.
but in my experience, no matter how positive or negative your outlook on life, most things are out of your control.

[Yetra Flam]

also, it's pretty hard to think positive when all the shit is coming down

[taquitos]

chick thread!

[fucktopgirl]

I know it can be hard, it is practice, like playing pool.

I am telling you, our mind is powerful, it is a creative tool. Don't forget your heart, pretty strong , you have to think with it and with your reason . You cannot separate both.

things are not so out of our control.... i mean our attitude is number one for dealing with life. So better get yourself arm with good thoughts . It will help , that for sure. We are the master of our own destiny, so, create what you want!!!!!

[TurdBerglar]

what the fuck is going on in here

[Yetra Flam]

I know it can be hard, it is practice, like playing pool.

I am telling you, our mind is powerful, it is a creative tool. Don't forget your heart, pretty strong , you have to think with it and with your reason . You cannot separate both.

things are not so out of our control.... i mean our attitude is number one for dealing with life. So better get yourself arm with good thoughts . It will help , that for sure. We are the master of our own destiny, so, create what you want!!!!!

tell me exactly how it helps.

[fucktopgirl]

tell me exactly how it helps.

Just do the test!

[Yetra Flam]

i don't get this

[fucktopgirl]

just try to switch your mind to a positive outset...then maybe you will witness difference.

[jackrock]

WRONG, BITCH!

[fucktopgirl]

Are you talking to me??

[fucktopgirl]

yah, pretty much

[Yetra Flam]

i find that to be fairly unrealistic and incredibly naive

[fucktopgirl]

there is nothing unrealistic about that, c'mon!!



just a choice!

You decide what will be. You want to have load of shit or you want to have load of good things before you die.


Your choice.

[TurdBerglar]

if you constantly expect a shit storm to ruin everything you won't do anything about it when it peaks from hehind the clowds miles away. you just let it happen.

if you don't expect it to ruin everything you kinda do things naturally that stop it from fucking everything up.

[funk63]

i should of been his wife too

[Waus]

what the fuck is going on in here

lol

[Miho]

what the fuck is going on in here

chick thread!

(y)

[Miho]

I wasn't interested in that one bit.