adam_f
06-21-2008, 11:50 PM
I dated this girl briefly for a couple weeks but at the time I was going through personal problems. I was kinda moody and didn't really want to be in a group or whatever, so we just hung out the two of us. She got to know my moods pretty well and I knew she wanted to ask if something was wrong, but didn't know how to ask, and it wasn't the type of thing you just talk about with somebody you didn't know well.
One night, she sends me a text saying something to the effect of "I don't know what the fuck your problem is, but you need to get your head examined if you want to be with me." I'm paraphrasing but that's essentially what she said. She insinuated I needed mental help because I didn't want to go to the drive in with some other people even though I clearly stated the season finale of the Office was on. I didn't text back.
We kinda drifted apart after I got tired of getting yelled at in text message, but the problem was that all of a sudden she's hanging out with my friends now so we have to be around each other. Now she's dating my best friend Jay, whom I bitched to profusely during my spat with the girl, who now claims I need God in my life since I really don't believe in that shit. I think it's kinda shady on his part, but no one else agrees.
Now, I understand her being angry at me for not wanting to hang out, but I got some news I wasn't too fond of hearing, news Jay knew about. I was still pleasant to be around, especially one night there was a fire at a friends house. I was sitting around, laughing and joking with everybody (including her) and I get a text later on saying "I'm sorry I ruined your night." I didn't know what to make of it, and Jay tried to talk me through all this and failed, but at least he tried.
I don't understand what her logic was but she treated me like shit when I was making a sincere effort to try to get back to being regular Adam, but I didn't feel comfortable talking to her about the news I got because I only tell that to a certain few people. Rather than just try to coax it out of me, she told me I was fucked up in the head and needed God, and Jay knew all about this but now they're dating and I don't know what to do. I'm civil around her but I clearly don't want to be around her, and Jay doesn't seem to care. I don't know what to do at this point.
I just need advice. I don't know what's going on. I'm back to being myself again and I understand I wasn't the greatest person ever at the time, but you could tell I was going through shit but she didn't seem to understand that.
One night, she sends me a text saying something to the effect of "I don't know what the fuck your problem is, but you need to get your head examined if you want to be with me." I'm paraphrasing but that's essentially what she said. She insinuated I needed mental help because I didn't want to go to the drive in with some other people even though I clearly stated the season finale of the Office was on. I didn't text back.
We kinda drifted apart after I got tired of getting yelled at in text message, but the problem was that all of a sudden she's hanging out with my friends now so we have to be around each other. Now she's dating my best friend Jay, whom I bitched to profusely during my spat with the girl, who now claims I need God in my life since I really don't believe in that shit. I think it's kinda shady on his part, but no one else agrees.
Now, I understand her being angry at me for not wanting to hang out, but I got some news I wasn't too fond of hearing, news Jay knew about. I was still pleasant to be around, especially one night there was a fire at a friends house. I was sitting around, laughing and joking with everybody (including her) and I get a text later on saying "I'm sorry I ruined your night." I didn't know what to make of it, and Jay tried to talk me through all this and failed, but at least he tried.
I don't understand what her logic was but she treated me like shit when I was making a sincere effort to try to get back to being regular Adam, but I didn't feel comfortable talking to her about the news I got because I only tell that to a certain few people. Rather than just try to coax it out of me, she told me I was fucked up in the head and needed God, and Jay knew all about this but now they're dating and I don't know what to do. I'm civil around her but I clearly don't want to be around her, and Jay doesn't seem to care. I don't know what to do at this point.
I just need advice. I don't know what's going on. I'm back to being myself again and I understand I wasn't the greatest person ever at the time, but you could tell I was going through shit but she didn't seem to understand that.