Loppfessor
07-01-2008, 12:27 AM
I'll try to keep this short cus i tend to ramble...
A couple weeks back I was at the doctor's office on base and then had to go the pharmacy afterwards. While I was in the waiting room a very attractive young lady came in, I smiled at her but didn't talk to her. Later when I went to the pharmacy there she was again so I chatted her up a bit and did some flirting.
The next day I was still thinking bout her and I thought she was really cute so I sent her an e-mail (I got her work address because we wear name tags and she was the only one in the directory with that last name) which went something like this "Hey this is that dude you met in the pharmacy the other day...listen I realize this is kind of a cheesy way to contact a woman but I thought you were really cute and seemed interesting. I did notice a ring but it didn't look like a wedding ring. Anyway if you ever wanna get together I'd like that"
Well she wrote me back and said that she did have a boyfriend but he has moved out of state and wasn't sure exactly what was going to happen with that situation. I told her that was cool and I could respect that she had a man but the worst case scenario would be that we both make a new friend...no big deal
So we e-mailed back and forth a few times but then I went out of time for like 5 days but we were texting most of that time as well. So when I got back into town yesterday I asked if she wanted to meet for dinner so we did. I had a really nice time and I thought she did too. The conversation was great, she did most of the talking but she was animated and funny...plus had some really pretty eyes lol. Anyway the point is I thought it went well but today I haven't really hear from her. Like we were texting back and forth pretty much all day when I was out of town but today it was like 2 messages.
So my only theory is that she may have been upset that I didn't pay for her dinner. The only reason I didn't was because during the course of the meal she did make a few references to her boyfriend. Not like "my ex" or "the guy I was seeing" whatever....it didn't matter because in my mind I figured it was a just friends kind of deal right? So the way I was it when the waitress asked if it was together or separate I was ok not paying for her. I have been racking my brain all day and that's the bes I've come up with because honestly she wasn't putting out any vibes like she was having a bad time or thought I was a creep.
What do you guys think? Oh and sorry this is so long
A couple weeks back I was at the doctor's office on base and then had to go the pharmacy afterwards. While I was in the waiting room a very attractive young lady came in, I smiled at her but didn't talk to her. Later when I went to the pharmacy there she was again so I chatted her up a bit and did some flirting.
The next day I was still thinking bout her and I thought she was really cute so I sent her an e-mail (I got her work address because we wear name tags and she was the only one in the directory with that last name) which went something like this "Hey this is that dude you met in the pharmacy the other day...listen I realize this is kind of a cheesy way to contact a woman but I thought you were really cute and seemed interesting. I did notice a ring but it didn't look like a wedding ring. Anyway if you ever wanna get together I'd like that"
Well she wrote me back and said that she did have a boyfriend but he has moved out of state and wasn't sure exactly what was going to happen with that situation. I told her that was cool and I could respect that she had a man but the worst case scenario would be that we both make a new friend...no big deal
So we e-mailed back and forth a few times but then I went out of time for like 5 days but we were texting most of that time as well. So when I got back into town yesterday I asked if she wanted to meet for dinner so we did. I had a really nice time and I thought she did too. The conversation was great, she did most of the talking but she was animated and funny...plus had some really pretty eyes lol. Anyway the point is I thought it went well but today I haven't really hear from her. Like we were texting back and forth pretty much all day when I was out of town but today it was like 2 messages.
So my only theory is that she may have been upset that I didn't pay for her dinner. The only reason I didn't was because during the course of the meal she did make a few references to her boyfriend. Not like "my ex" or "the guy I was seeing" whatever....it didn't matter because in my mind I figured it was a just friends kind of deal right? So the way I was it when the waitress asked if it was together or separate I was ok not paying for her. I have been racking my brain all day and that's the bes I've come up with because honestly she wasn't putting out any vibes like she was having a bad time or thought I was a creep.
What do you guys think? Oh and sorry this is so long