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Waus
08-14-2008, 03:00 PM
There was some article that got about 2 billion comments on digg and I thought it was pretty interesting.

http://digg.com/people/What_If_Your_Wife_Were_A_Porn_Star

What does bbmb think - would it be fun or hard?

I don't think it would fly with me.
cookiepuss
08-14-2008, 03:14 PM
well when you get down the brass tacks, it's just a job...a very unconventional job, but she's not fucking guys cause she cares about them or isn't satisfied with her partner. it's a business contract.

however, it takes a certain kind of person to WANT to see their partner getting railed by someone else. such people do exist though. People that are poly or just very kinky would probably be the best suited to have a relationship with a sex worker.

your average joe would not be able to handle this. no way. no how.
paul jones
08-14-2008, 03:15 PM
I've got a long list of porn stars that I'd marry and live with in a harem.
BangkokB
08-14-2008, 03:27 PM
well when you get down the brass tacks, it's just a job...a very unconventional job, but she's not fucking guys cause she cares about them or isn't satisfied with her partner. it's a business contract.

however, it takes a certain kind of person to WANT to see their partner getting railed by someone else. such people do exist though. People that are poly or just very kinky would probably be the best suited to have a relationship with a sex worker.

your average joe would not be able to handle this. no way. no how.

And that is why you will make a perfect wife:Amongst other Things
beastieangel01
08-15-2008, 12:32 PM
well when you get down the brass tacks, it's just a job...a very unconventional job, but she's not fucking guys cause she cares about them or isn't satisfied with her partner. it's a business contract.

however, it takes a certain kind of person to WANT to see their partner getting railed by someone else. such people do exist though. People that are poly or just very kinky would probably be the best suited to have a relationship with a sex worker.

your average joe would not be able to handle this. no way. no how.

exactly.
ericlee
08-15-2008, 01:11 PM
there's no way. One of the best parts of a relationship which is sex wouldn't hold value at all.

I had a friend while I was in the mid east go off to Dubai for a little vacation. He married a Russian prostitute that he met there. Their relationship lasted a whole two months.
Waus
08-15-2008, 01:39 PM
Honestly, I just can't imagine it. I mean sex is something that connects people and can be what disconnects them. It's something central to a relationship, either as a thermometer or a thermostat, and to have that whole balance thrown off by just copious amounts of sex with outsiders would ruin the ecology of the marriage I would think.

To say nothing of whatever moral issues I'd have with it.
cookiepuss
08-15-2008, 01:59 PM
but you'd be surprised at how easy it is for some people to compartmentalize thier lives. I would think for the people in the sex industry who are married it's a matter of separating making love, as opposed to having sex. Some people can separate the two and in their minds one has nothing to do with the other.

I'm not advocating anything here I'm just saying this is how I believe some people are able to have these kind of relationships.
AceFace
08-15-2008, 02:04 PM
i wanna know if if there are any married men in porn and if their wives have problems. why didn't they cover any of that? there's two(or three or for or five or whatever) people in a porn, they should have given them equal coverage.

i'm joking, but still curious.
abcdefz
08-15-2008, 05:14 PM
If nothing else, I'd be concerned about disease.
jabumbo
08-18-2008, 07:49 AM
i think it would be most awkward talking about it with other people. i mean, even if you as a spouse are down with it, im sure the majority of your friends would either find it really weird or get turned on by it to the point that it would bother you
camo
08-18-2008, 11:15 AM
There's no way I would want to be stirring someone else's porridge. So no for me.

Also...

Me: 'Mum, Dad. Meet Trixie my new girlfriend'

Dad: Hmmm hello Trixie, have we met? You seem kinda familiar???
abcdefz
08-18-2008, 01:19 PM
i think it would be most awkward talking about it with other people. i mean, even if you as a spouse are down with it, im sure the majority of your friends would either find it really weird or get turned on by it to the point that it would bother you



Imagine what that loan application must look like.

From what I understand, there's not really any money in it unless the women start to be their own producers or whatever.