***complaint***

[monkey]

*** warning. vapid and girly. you have been duly warned ***

i hate that i have a crush on a boy who shows no interest in me. at first, i thought, maybe he was interested in me... but having given him the chance to try anything and he did NOTHING... obviously he is not interested.

so why does he have to be the one i like, and not the other guys i know that would try to cop a feel, huh?!?!?!?!?!!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!

and here's the thing, i was BOLD. i asked him to come somewhere cool and secluded with me, and he did!!!! but then he just looked around and seemed more interested in everything else.

i even tried to look hot. i wore tight black pants and did my hair all sexy and shit. i never think much of my outfits, but shit, today i looked hot.

nothing.

:mad:

[milleson]

Boys are stupid. Duh.

[Cujo]

he is probably just shy.

[BBboy20]

He's gay on the inside.

Though you should have taken a pic of your recent hotness. >_>

[p-branez]

it probably means that he's just not right for you.

[BBboy20]

To think about it, he reminds me of that shy and silent character from Burn After Reading.

[Dharma]

Was he looking at other girls?

[monkey]

i don't know why i let this bother me so much. it's a classic scenerio of wanting what you can't have. though i wanted it when i thought i could have it too. anyways.

no, he wasn't looking at other girls, i think. or at least, i didn't notice any of that. nor did i get the gay vibes from him. i'm a well taught hag, i know how to spot a gay.

he's just not that into me. i get it. i just wish he was. :o

[ToucanSpam]

Maybe he's just not into you. It happens. It's really not a big deal, eh?

[Dharma]

Not all guys move fast, maybe he is just getting to know you.

Where did you take him?

[TurdBerglar]

he wouldn't have hung out with you if he wasn't interested

[monkey]

well, i figured he just wanted to make a friend. im terribly friendly in certain situations. usually not involving cute guys, but i made an exception cause i thought he was so cute. and... well, he did walk with me to the train from the weather station. and he did wait for my train instead of taking his, which came first. this was last week. today... nothing.

oh i took him to a gorgeous rooftop on the ues. though we were faced with construction i hadn't anticipated. so, the view was limited. so then i took him to my radio station.

[Dharma]

That sounds like more than a friendly hang out ... How long have you known him?

[monkey]

just a few weeks. we take the same class.

[Dorothy Wood]

maybe he was intimidated.

maybe he had gas.

maybe he's recently divorced. :(


I kind of gave up getting disappointed by my crush, he's just kind of clueless and now it's turned into this thing where we seek each other out and flirt mildly, and then neither of us closes the deal. we've recently started casually touching each other, and we text biweekly. he will usually bring up something I said in a text to start a conversation we when see each other. anyway, it's fun, no pressure, no obsession, just taking things as they go and he seems to be gravitating toward me more than when I was trying.

I don't know, keep trying I say, just not too hard. make it more about enjoying each others interactions and getting to know him instead of planning how you're going to get him to date or sleep with you. that way if something happens, awesome, if it doesn't, meh. on to the next.

[Dharma]

What she said.

[ericlee]

yes, we are stupid sometimes.

I had a situation that involved a girl that I had a crush on. I ended up driving with her-she was the driver. She drove us to this secluded area and gave me all kinds of suggestive poses and kisses but, I didn't do anything at all even though I was mad for her.

So maybe this guy had a brainfart like I did.

[Bob]

he is probably just shy.

yeah that sounds like something i would do. it doesn't mean i'm not interested. in fact the less i act like i'm interested, the more likely it is that i actually am interested, that's just how i tick. maybe he does too, i dunno

[Matt]

I know that I'm completely oblivious when a girl likes me. Maybe he's like me in that respect.

And lets hope he is like me. I'm awesome.

[mikizee]

yeah dont giv up yet. hes probably nervous.

next time yr around him just grab his nuts and see what he does

[beastieangel01]

he's just not that into me. i get it. i just wish he was. :o

I know the feeling. Or did rather.

Don't dwell on it too much. There will be others, more worthy, and they will be in to you enough that you don't have to make a hard effort to catch their attention. It's better that way anyway.

[Echewta]

My complaint is that you should be in the kitchen baking. Back to work miss.

[monkey]

the kitchen is the only place men actually appreciate me. that's so fucked up.

[Adam]

[kinda related] I just realised now (after reading this thread) - that the girl I was talking to earlier who I really like but is way out of my league** asked what I was up to Wednesday and if I'd be going to the pub quiz with her (classy I know). I said I had stuff to do and couldn't - again, I'll probably join the fucktard guys here who don't really put 2 & 2 together and ever make 4. Man I suck.

**I've always been lucky enough to go out with some really hot 'out of my league' girls for some reason. They obviously like fat guys who smell bad?

But then I can't make it anyway and if I say why I'd have to expalin about my stupid ill family which would then depress me and I'd be even worse mood.

So yeah, maybe he just was shy or too busy trying to look at your boobs without you noticing so he kept looking away.

[BBboy20]

the kitchen is the only place men actually appreciate me. that's so fucked up.Not even your chest (or beauty in general)? WTF.

[Matt]

**I've always been lucky enough to go out with some really hot 'out of my league' girls for some reason.

me too. For some reason, most of my girlfriends have been actually really hot. High five (y)

[funk63]

Though you should have taken a pic of your recent hotness. >_>

word. and if its any consellation I would of hit on you.

[Matt]

Though you should have taken a pic of your recent hotness. >_>

(y)

[Echewta]

the kitchen is the only place men actually appreciate me. that's so fucked up.


Well now, don't I feel like an ass for joking.

Time to start finding men who apperciate you elsewhere. Its up to you. You may need to change what you are attracted to. Try something different, you could be suprised.

[voltanapricot]

He sounds a bit shy and awkward, I mean, he must like you a bit to accept your offer of company. He probably didn't expect you to make a move and when it came to it he didn't quite know what to do about it. Give him a chance I reckon. Yeah.

[Matt]

Well now, don't I feel like an ass for joking.

do you ever? (y)

[Echewta]

nope.

Just this once.

[HotAndWet]

Just become asexual, I think I'm going to.

[monkey]

Well now, don't I feel like an ass for joking.

Time to start finding men who apperciate you elsewhere. Its up to you. You may need to change what you are attracted to. Try something different, you could be suprised.

oh no worries. i was just feeling bad for myself for a second. now, i just dont care. heh.

well, whatever. i have an unrequited crush. it's not the first, and i doubt it will be the last. it happens.

though im really looking forward to the guy who will have a crush on MEEEEEEEEEE.

[monkey]

i know im being really gay for doing this

UPDATE.


we went for a beer today after working on hw. talked and talked and i stared at his gorgeous face...

but still, he didn't try anything. he was friendly and interested, he hugged me when we parted. that's it.

i'm starting to just like him more and he's giving me...blue balls.

[Myu-to]

Is that even possible?
:confused:

[adam_f]

Just rape him already.

[Dorothy Wood]

but still, he didn't try anything. he was friendly and interested, he hugged me when we parted. that's it.



(y) I think the hug means something! if he was disgusted by you, he wouldn't have hugged you, right?

as for my crush, I am starting to have a hard time hiding my flirting. I acted like a spaz tonight, giggling too much, fidgeting, doing a little soft shoe. must've been okay though, cuz he invited me to see him dj later this week, and he said, "uh, or not, whatever" and looked down and kicked some dirt. we are so gonna bang. :cool: or not, whatever.


keep laying the groundwork, sounds like things are going slowly but surely toward knockin boots. I mean, check me out, I've been laying the groundwork with this kid for like 4 months and it's almost maybe going to pan out. :/