Question for the boys

[russhie]

If you accidentally (by that I mean you don't set out intending to) cheat on your girlfriend (doesn't matter how long you've been together)

are you more likely to do it with someone you think is pretty damn hot

or someone average?

Just wondering.

[mikizee]

If you were gunna cheat you would at least wanna cheat with someone hot

Other than that I wouldn't really know.

[Adam]

Well personally I wouldn't sleep with some1 I didn't find hot.

I've never cheated but have been cheated on - I think if I did then it'd be a way to get out of a relationship and if subconsciencly I thought that is the only way to get out of it - then some1 avg would do..

[ericlee]

so the question is, hot attitude and average looks?

[BBboy20]

That kind of scenario would most likely happen when both male and female find a certain chemistry despite at or above average physical attraction.

Though, I guess you would more likely, subconsciously, fall for the hottie as us males would ideal to...or your desperate only when to realize this out of the blue opportunity (or your the kind that doesn't mind some "hot" personality...damn, this is getting varied).

[thegoodmrbrodie!]

this is a strange question. i cant imagine anyone accidentally sleeping with someone they dont find attractive whilst being in a relationship with someone that they presume-ably find attractive.

[Dorothy Wood]

I know that the man I liked (and still harbor slight feelings for some days) a couple of years ago that had a girlfriend thought I was hot. He basically told me (and his friends) he thought I was the most attractive woman ever on earth. He almost cheated on her with me, but didn't. we did drunkenly hold hands under a table at a diner once. and we had lunch together, he paid. it was not nice of me. they live together now, but I know he still checks up on me.

I also held hands in a van with a married man who I thought just liked me in a friend way. he got divorced soon after. we never did anything though. he was 21, I was 19. he got married when he was 18 though, that's ridiculous.

[Guy Incognito]

If push came to shove i seriously doubt whether i would have the stones to go thru with it but if there was absolutely no chance i would get caught and i found the lady attractive i would certainly consider it but knowing me i would have to be really drunk to consider risking my marriage and nothing would happen at all as i would be too busy being ill as i havent got the best drink handling skillz.

[DandyFop]

My question for the boys is much simpler:

Why are you all assholes?

[ericlee]

My question for the boys is much simpler:

Why are you all assholes?


Sorry, brabs but I think my statement was more taintish than assholeish-horseradishish.

or whatever that statement meant. Who's gonna spin butthole suffers? It taint gonna spin itself, yo.

[BBboy20]

My question for the boys is much simpler:

Why are you all assholes?Because we enjoy having big egos.


Not like all of us are proud of it; some of us try to be decent despite tumbling from our own selfishness from time to time.

[Audio.]

hey us gays arent assholes. :mad:

[jabumbo]

are you saying like...oops i went to the bar with friends, got drunk and went home with some random chick type of thing? because if thats the case, it would have to be someone extra attractive (although i guess once the booze sets in, who knows what you think is good looking)

[Guy Incognito]

i have been thinking about this all morning and despite my earlier post (which wasnt a definite "yes" anyway) i definitely would not have the bollocks to do it no matter the situation. Its too much to risk. I love my family too much to even have it on my conscience

[kaiser soze]

cheating is filthy.

cheating is a two way street, this question should've been for girls too (considering I know a few who have cheated)

and how does one go about doing it "accidentally" ?

[Knuckles]

and how does one go about doing it "accidentally" ?

Yeah, that's impossible.

[russhie]

are you saying like...oops i went to the bar with friends, got drunk and went home with some random chick type of thing? because if thats the case, it would have to be someone extra attractive (although i guess once the booze sets in, who knows what you think is good looking)


haha, yeah, that's the right sorta scenario.

PS. I know it doesn't happen "accidentally" but that's why I said (in brackets) that in this case by accident meant not intending to cheat when setting out for the day/night.

I never said anything about girls being without blame either, it's just that I'm a girl and my question was for boys because I was curious about the thought process.

[Adam]

in a bar the thought process is:

tits
tits
need sex
puke
tits
my gf won't mind
tits
sex
shit
ouch (hangover next morning)
shit
shit
shit
shit

[ericlee]

the question is easily answered. I don't care how tough a guy is, he wouldn't even like the fact at all if he found his girlfriend cheated on him.

[Bjork]

It doesn't really matter if the chick is hot or average, if a guy is debating on cheating on his girlfriend and the opportunity presents itself ... They are going to do it.

[BangkokB]

I read that as hot and My God: You're Beautiful~ Science!!!! (http://weirdward.net/sitebuilder/images/Thomas_Dolby_-_She_Blinded_Me_With_Science_016_0001-283x206.jpg)

[funk63]

My question for the boys is much simpler:

Why are you all assholes?

Haha a drunk girl asked me something along those lines and I smacked her in the face and she freaked out then I said sorry and she said its ok so you chicks must not mind it too much. Oh wait dont chicks like assholes? So to answer your questions its because chicks like assholes.

[BangkokB]

The same thing happened to me but it was the girl that slapped me and i ended up wearing the handcuffs....

And I wasn't even dressed for handcuff wear....

But the good news is they found some clothes that were fitting for handcuffs...

Apparently, it's STARBRIGHT ORANGE....

With the County Stamped on Back....

Ladee Da Dee La

[Lex Diamonds]

Men can't be trusted to stay faithful when there's alcohol involved.

Women become steadily more attractive the more men drink, even the ugly ones.

Put it together.

[Loppfessor]

Every time I have cheated (not proud that I have) it's been with someone less hot but way more slutty than my girlfriend...I dunno why that is. I think it's cus the woman is disposable and there's not feeling or emotion involved.

[Lex Diamonds]

Every time I have cheated (not proud that I have) it's been with someone less hot but way more slutty than my girlfriend...I dunno why that is. I think it's cus the woman is disposable and there's not feeling or emotion involved.
(y)

[MagicSpork]

and how does one go about doing it "accidentally" ?

Just remember the Eminem song "Guilty Conscience":

Dre: Wait! What if there's an explanation for this shit?
Eminem: What? She tripped? Fell? Landed on his dick?!

[Videodrome]

Every time I have cheated (not proud that I have) it's been with someone less hot but way more slutty than my girlfriend...I dunno why that is. I think it's cus the woman is disposable and there's not feeling or emotion involved.

(y) that's good times.

[russhie]

Men can't be trusted to stay faithful when there's alcohol involved.

Women become steadily more attractive the more men drink, even the ugly ones.

Put it together.

Yeah.

I think I was one of those ugly women.

[mikizee]

will you shut up with the ugly

[Lex Diamonds]

Yeah, you're hot, now stop fishing for compliments.

[BBboy20]

Why do you always have low self-esteem towards your looks?

[Matt]

I'll need proof (y)

nudez plz.

[russhie]

My self esteem issues are numerous and complex, I don't care much to discuss why I feel the way I do.

Anyway, I wasn't fishing for anything. I don't know how attractive his girlfriend is, but I was definitely not in fine form on that particular night. I was horribly drunk after work and on the cusp of a glandular fever relapse (hence the excessive drinking, though I don't really need an excuse). I can only assume that I looked like a) a drunken slut b) completely shit.

Who knows though, maybe I looked awesome and wasn't slurring my speech at all. Stranger things, and that.

[Matt]

My self esteem issues are numerous and complex, I don't care much to discuss why I feel the way I do.


I'm the same way. I hate when people think that a compliment will fix my issues automatically. It doesn't work that way.


Anyway, this is not about me. Nudes kplzthx. (y)

[Myu-to]

Since you're so ugly, you might as well go for slutty too.

[russhie]

Tell me I'm fat and we'll have the trifecta

[Myu-to]

That will come after you get knocked up.