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Dorothy Wood
10-03-2008, 03:09 AM
so I'm hitting my 3 month limit on celibacy. in the past 8 odd years I usually haven't gone more than 3 months without at least a little something, not necessarily sex I guess, but some male companionship if you will. I'm in serious need of a makeout sesh.

anyway, I went out tonight to see my crush DJ because he invited me in person and via text several times. we chatted, he seemed happy to see me, etc. etc. we had also been texting when I was out of town last weekend. so, I'm thinking, "maybe I should put the moves on this kid", and then a friend of his was sitting with my girlfriends and I talking about this chick he's seeing and then mentions that this girl who owns a flower shop in the neighborhood has a crush on my crush and that my crush thinks she's cute and he's going to try to hook them up. and I was instantly crabby. but then my crush comes over to talk to me like a minute later, sitting behind me so I had to turn away from the group and just talk to him in this dark corner. that went on for awhile, whatever. I stopped being crabby because I felt like he was into me afterall.

then he had to go switch a song or whatever, and we separated and he'd look at me and nod across the room when he saw me, yadda yadda. come closing time, he motioned me over and we were talking for awhile and then he brings up the flower shop girl, and I was like, "oh, cool, you guys gonna get married?" and he was like, "yeah, we already got married, after six days, pretty amazing" and I was like, "well, I don't trust small business owners" and he laughed and asked why and I was like, "I'm just kidding". and we continued to talk and have a good time until it was time to leave.

and then outside it was more joking around and talking, etc.

fine, yes. we enjoy eachother's company. that is clear. but I totally want to hit that shit for realz. and I don't know if I should just say something, or give it up, or...what?

I've been completely clearheaded about this whole thing until now, and I can't tell if I just want this to happen because I'm horny or because I actually like him.

:mad::rolleyes::o

Dorothy Wood
10-03-2008, 03:18 AM
also, the chick has the same name as me. I don't know why, but it makes me mad.

Dharma
10-03-2008, 03:19 AM
I don't know ....

Personally I would be turned off by knowing he liked someone else and she likes him back.

Dorothy Wood
10-03-2008, 03:25 AM
well, they think each other is cute, as the story goes. I don't think they've even talked. he asked me about dudes also.

I came sooo close to saying, "I have a crush on you dumbass".

maybe I'll do that tomorrow when I'll be at an art opening where he, my ex who I still love and this man who has a girlfriend that has a crush on me that I used to love will be. I'll just dress super cute and flit around like I'm the best thing ever. maybe I should invite my coworker who I also have a crush on and fill up my dance card so full that I'll just end up going home alone like always.


fffft. Im kinda drunk.

Dharma
10-03-2008, 03:36 AM
Well then...

What the hell is your problem?
You could totally be hitting it right now, but instead you are *online discussing it.

*so tomorrow when your doubting yourself, remember me talking shit to you ...and make a move so you don't go home ALONE again for the 90TH day in a row!

Dorothy Wood
10-03-2008, 03:47 AM
gahhh, but I have a job interview saturday morning!

yeah, I should've gone for it. problem is this kid doesn't drink, so I didn't want to be all, "blaghhh, I'm drunk, let's do it".

he's not even that great anyway. but I'm pretty sure we should kiss. just to see what happens.

funk63
10-03-2008, 06:35 AM
is the friend zone like the chalk zone?

beastiegirrl101
10-03-2008, 12:42 PM
Just be blunt...tell him you want him to be your big spoon.

Oh...dude...you have an art opening?