ANGRY!

[Dorothy Wood]

so some of my friends opened a bar by my house and my good for nothing ex is constantly hanging out there now. it's not even his neighborhood, and they're MY FRIENDS! he only knows them because of ME. he had his god damn birthday party there last week. and I got a mass text today from a friend that was like, "me and [the ex] are DJing at [my friend's bar] tonight, come out for a drink!"

GET OUT GET OUT GET OUT GET OUT GET OUT GET OUT GET OUT GET OUT OF MY LIFE!

I think he's trying to drive me insane.

is no fair, how am I supposed to move on if bitches be up in my face and on my turf all the time? :( :mad:

[marsdaddy]

Drop a roofie in his drink?

[DandyFop]

He's just living his own life dude...you can't really get angry at him for that. Do your own shit.

[Dorothy Wood]

I am doing my own shit dude. that place is part of my shit though, that's why I'm pissed. I probably wouldn't be so pissed if I wasn't constantly subjected to frigging texts and updates and stupid myspace bulletins like, "hey, come out to blah blah for my blah blah". I hung out at that place before it was even built. I was drinking beers in there when it was a pile of bricks and dead rats.

he has his own friends. and his own neighborhood. it just sucks. I already ran into him once there and it was fine we said "hi" (I think I said "howdy") and that's it, and he saw me with other boys he didn't know, so that was cool. but, but, but it's my hang out, not his. :(

it's not like I can even do anything about it, so I'm just yelling about it here. that would be super lame of me to even say anything. but I can type it, god damn it I will type it!

[cookiepuss]

that would be annoying. The only thing that's made my break up so much easier is NOT having to see him or talk to him much...oh and fucking other people helps too. heh.

but yeah, what can you do? unless you're like: ok I get the bar of Mondays, Weds and Friday. and you get it tues, thursday and sunday...etc. that would be lame.

[cookiepuss]

oh wait...I might have an idea....

what if you get some chick you KNOW he would never have any interest in, to go there and constantly try to hook up with him and annoy the crap out of him? if she's there every time he's there then he'll stop going to avoid her..right?

of course this ugly annoying ho-friend is probably gonna want some compensation for chasing this guy out of the bar...and that could get expensive.

[Dorothy Wood]

I just wish we never dated so we could still be friends. or that we were never friends. it's really painful remembering how things used to be before. :/

[Dharma]

Is this the same ex your always complaining about?

[Dorothy Wood]

yes. I am a loser. I know. but I loved his guts. a lot. and I still get sad about twice a month.

[Dharma]

Goddamit just tell him how you feel already ...the worst that can happened now, is he will avoid you if he doesn't feel the same...and your problem will be solved!

[Dorothy Wood]

I don't think he magically loves me now. he didn't love me before. I guess he said loved me when we were friends, but never said it when we were dating. he only said, "I don't not love you, I just can't say it until I know". and he never knew. I doubt he knows now.

also, I wrote him an email some months ago about how I loved him as a friend and will always love him, etc. (not too creepy...I don't think). and he never responded. again, I'm not quite sure if he even got the email, but he probably did. I don't think I have the guts to say anything again.

I've been hanging out with other people, doing well at work, keeping myself busy and ignoring him for a long time now. at this point I don't even know if I could take him back because I'm so angry for making me feel so bad time and time again.


and I should note that my guy friends think it's weird what he's doing. they all think that you should stay far away from your exes, partly to avoid conflict and partly out of respect.

[Videodrome]

all i know is that has to suck. sorry.

[kaiser soze]

go to the bar....kick him in the nuts and hit him over the head with a liquor bottle

he'll get the message

[Audio.]

dude, I am not one to go in people's business but I think Dharma is right. I feel like it would be easier just to be honest.

[Dorothy Wood]

nah. sometimes things just don't work out. I need to learn to live with that. maybe one day we'll talk. I deserve a person who isn't afraid to love.

merp. I am feeling better now anyway. I think I have PMS.

[Knuckles]

nah. sometimes things just don't work out. I need to learn to live with that. maybe one day we'll talk. I deserve a person who isn't afraid to love.



That's the spirit!

[taquitos]

drink until you pass out and you won't feel bad anymore

[Dorothy Wood]

not tonight, I've been drunk for various reasons the past 5 nights in a row. then I got a birthday thing tomorrow with margaritas and bar hopping, then I have a project runway finale party on thursday which will have champagne, then friday I have another birthday outing bar hopping thing, then for the weekend I'm going spelunking in iowa with some girlfriends and staying in a haunted hotel WITH A HAUNTED BAR. and if I don't get drunk, I will be too scared of ghosts to sleep.

I suppose I don't have to drink on all of those days. I suppose I didn't have to drink on all the days beforehand either. :/

*puts bandaid on liver*

[paul jones]

just stop drinking like me.

I'm much happier staying indoors 'just-like-a-hermit' lately and watching DVD's.

[Echewta]

We are gonig downtown, oh yea.

[funk63]

you should toss a coin that says "EMO" on one side and "HULK" on the other, then either sob for an hour or beat your pillow while yelling "I HATE YOU!"

[Dorothy Wood]

you should toss a coin that says "EMO" on one side and "HULK" on the other, then either sob for an hour or beat your pillow while yelling "I HATE YOU!"


LOL, best idea yet.

[DandyFop]

you should toss a coin that says "EMO" on one side and "HULK" on the other, then either sob for an hour or beat your pillow while yelling "I HATE YOU!"

No duh, it should say SULK on one side and HULK on the other.

Otherwise, fantastic idea

[funk63]

No duh, it should say SULK on one side and HULK on the other.



Whoaa.. yea that couldnt be any more perfect.

[BangkokB]

My professional opinion is that you really only have 2 ways to deal with this. You have to hit this square on the head and that is A. Burn the Bar Down or B. Have a Barroom Brawl

Either/Or make sure you film it and put it on youtube

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