Modern manners

[trailerprincess]

Friend married boy A about 18 months

About 1 month ago, friend announced self as 'In relationship with boy B' on facebook. I was somewhat shocked (but had only seen the wedding video where they looked wildly happy which might have presented a rosy picture)

I haven't been in touch with her since I saw this update (busy, not snub as had never met boy A)

Friend emails me to ask whether I want to meet up with her and boy B when they come to Europe in Jan (they're American)

Do I acknowledge this 'boy b' situation now? How? What do I say?? (looks like you've been busy nudge nudge) Or shall I just ignore it completely and deal with it in person (awkwardarama)

[b i o n i c]

say nothing, see your friend

[camo]

Ask her about the amazing coincedence of Marrying someone called Boy A, and then falling for someone called Boy B. That's some crazy odds!

[AceFace]

^ hehe. cute.

i'd totally ask in a "girl you haven't updated me!" kinda way.

[Elusive]

steal her boyfriend !

[trailerprincess]

^ hehe. cute.

i'd totally ask in a "girl you haven't updated me!" kinda way.

I followed your advice, in a kind of psuedo-posh Surrey kind of way but yeah, just said hey, kind of awkward but what's going on. And then invited her and boy B to stay at my house when they come to London.

[Elusive]

your 'house' ?

I thought you had a trailer.
are you frontin' on having a trailer?

you don't even know ricky and julian do you?

[Echewta]

hey 19!

[Elusive]

here is what you do:
buy her a cake and while she is eating it, say something such as
mmmmm, this cake is good. I wish that I could eat it and it would never go away this cake. mmmmm.

cake