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Kid Presentable
01-13-2009, 05:50 AM
I never really spoke to any of mine and then they all wound on my facebook list.

russhie
01-13-2009, 06:00 AM
Barring five minute highschool romances, I'm still friendly with all mine. I remain on very good terms with my most recent ex, though the road has been rocky and at times I thought we'd end up being not-so-good mates.

Guys that I've sorta been seeing and stuff since my ex tend to come back - all but one one-night stand have been in touch with me at some point (even ones that were adamant it'd be a one night thing at the start, though why you'd ask for my number if it's a one night thing doesn't really make sense). I guess that means I'm friendly and stuff. I don't know.

Also, a few have found their way onto my facebook.

yeahwho
01-13-2009, 06:07 AM
I'm letting a few come on my face too.

Matt
01-13-2009, 06:59 AM
I've been friendly with one, we text back and forth and stuff, but I haven't hung out with her in forever. I can't really be friends with most of them, cause they're all FUCKING BITCHES GOD DAMNIT.

DandyFop
01-13-2009, 07:03 AM
I usually end up making out with them again at some point. I donno.

trailerprincess
01-13-2009, 07:39 AM
I prefer Ys and Zs but I'm ok with Xs. They're a bit rude sometimes though.

rirv
01-13-2009, 07:49 AM
My last ex turned out to be a lesbian.

mikizee
01-13-2009, 07:57 AM
My last ex and I get along on really good terms... altho she's just introduced me to her new BF, he's a 27 yr old rich very handsome nuclear physicist who works for ASIS (oz version of CIA). He travels the world, drives a 911 and has a massive wang (apparently). I bet she's counting her lucky stars I broke up with her.

Lyman Zerga
01-13-2009, 08:39 AM
im not enough of a slut to have exes

kaiser soze
01-13-2009, 09:31 AM
It's weird, I usually connect with an ex after a breakup of the current girlfriend.

So now I'm lightly talking with my ex from oh...98 or so. My last breakup was fucking messy as hell and that person has been trying to make nice with me but I am treading lightly with it considering she cheated on me with her bestfriend's boyfriend so I know she's a bit selfish and unstable.

Dorothy Wood
01-13-2009, 12:57 PM
I'm pretty good friends with 2 of them. there's also one guy I didn't really keep in contact with, but we were on good terms before we lost touch (we didn't have much in common anyway).

I'm doing pretty shitty with the recent ex, but a lot better than I was. it's going to take a lot of time for me to be friends with him again. I think it has something to do with the fact that he was the first person to actually "dump" me, the others were either mutual or I was the dumper. :/

Adam
01-13-2009, 01:04 PM
The answer you seek my son only poses more questions.
Ask many women why relationship has failed.
Each woman offer unique reason for demise.
One woman may say, "man could not commit."
Or, "man is douche, and is now free to make love to himself instead."
Another woman may say, "man had changed,"
or even, "man no longer satisfactory lover."
But my son, ask many men same question all over the world, "why has relationship failed?" Each man, each time, will give same, simple answer...

Lex Diamonds
01-13-2009, 01:12 PM
Funny, I ran into my ex yesterday and she's been texting me quite a bit. I might tap it and bail just to fuck wit her. Lord knows she fucked me up enough.

b-grrrlie
01-13-2009, 04:26 PM
I've just about lost contact with all of them.

fucktopgirl
01-13-2009, 04:32 PM
Always in good terms. I don't like complicate relationship so maybe that why after it is done, things stay simple.

monkey
01-13-2009, 06:16 PM
my first ex doesnt really seem to want to be friendly. i've sent him a couple of emails over the years, but he's very brief with the responses. i took the hint.

my second ex says that he would rather not talk to me because he doesnt want to have "exgf trouble" in his new relationship. i wasn't causing or trying to cause trouble, but i guess he doesn't want to be my friend. this has hurt me tremendously but i respect his wishes and stay the fuck away.

my latest ex is the only one who still talks to me, and often. he's my best friend, and we're just not good together romantically, but we're good at being friends.

na§tee
01-13-2009, 06:30 PM
it was sort of easy with my ex since he lived 4 plus hours away - it wasn't like we had to adjust immensely or anything. contact reduced a bit but we still spoke quite frequently. he was mature and an absolute god send when we broke up. we gave each other some space and we get on better now i don't have that "errghh i don't want to be with you how the fuck can i tell you this" pressure hanging over me. s'cool.

i went through a very bad period early last year and he dropped everything on one occasion to travel down and look after me. and no, it wasn't for ulterior motives. he is a genuinely nice guy. he didn't have to. but he did. i appreciated it and still do.

nowadays we don't talk as often purely because i've moved down here and he has a new girlfriend now, so i guess he found another person to chat to in the evenings - haha. but when we do speak it's all jovial good stuff and we take more of an active interest in each others' lives now that we're more like old friends and less like depressed partners. ha!

Fern
01-13-2009, 09:37 PM
My friends call me Ted Bundy because when I'm done (or break up) with a girl, no one ever sees her again.

paul jones
01-13-2009, 09:39 PM
My friends call me Ted Bundy because when I'm done (or break up) with a girl, no one ever sees her again.

you can call me AL, minus the family but with my hand down my pants whilst the other controls the remote

b i o n i c
01-14-2009, 06:53 PM
i love them all. seriously, if i could have a reunion with all of them at once, i would love them all.

exes are creepy