Call me Bob

[Adam]

I backed out of a going to the pub with a girl I met tuesday because I liked her too much.

It was a pretty retarded situation and I'll sound like a fool explaining here but it'd of just been for an hour while her friends arrived. But god damn, why the fuck didn't I just take home the advantage instead of turning into a social fuckwit.

Bob - not that I am calling you names, but I was just thinking of that thread you did about that girl which went into about 20 pages... I just mean, you ain't the only one who buckles under pressure of getting some.

heh. I'll sort it tomorrow.

Feels like a being a teenager again :-)

[Lyman Zerga]

ok, adam

[ms.peachy]

awww.

If it makes you feel any better, mr.p was a lot like that when he was younger and it took him close to a year to work up the nerve to ask me out. And now we've been married for 10 years and have a kid and are moving to China.

Actually, maybe that won't make you feel any better, forget I said anything.

[b i o n i c]

at the very least, she had friends showing up (thatyoucouldhangwithandgethookedupto), numbnuttz

[Adam]

heh.

Like I say, I met her Tuesday and we've kinda hit it off a bit too well. Some1 at work is all.

Within 3 days, we've shared coffee, crisps, done a crossword, broke the works laminater, removed all evidence of the laminater crime... *** ...loads of other random stuff.

***I did put a list here of stuff but paranoia hit me that some how she visits here and I didn't know and it'll be all awkward tomorrow. Still from what I've put she know it'd be her.

Its kinda what I needed to be honest - I've been so up & down and she has put my ego back onto its first peg since it all fell off. I haven't really talked about me cus I'm a bit fucked up atm but y'know she has made my first few days back at work tolerable. A reason I backed off I think, cus after a drink I'd of probably declared my love and try to get her to marry me then cus I was scared of dying alone in a gutter eating leaves.

[Bob]

oh none taken, that's exactly the kind of thing i'd do. i once bumped into my girl getting on a train, and i nearly turned around and waited for a different one, but i didn't

it doesn't matter now though, i'm probably never going to see her again after 4-5 weeks or so, because she's going out of state for an internship, and then who knows where after that, so even if i did ask her out and she said yes it would be stupid. we'd have 4 weeks or so together (during law school, studying for finals, which is a terrible time to have a significant other) and then it would be a long distance thing and that would never work

i had so many chances, i kind of wish i'd taken one but OH WELL


happy birthday adam

[ericlee]

Man, I've turned down getting laid a few times when I was younger.

I wanted them badly, always liked them and once, a girl I liked was on the couch with me close to being naked and all hot and I got up and told her I had to go.

I dunno, I was shy then. You'll figure it out, man.

[Lex Diamonds]

it doesn't matter now though, i'm probably never going to see her again after 4-5 weeks or so, because she's going out of state for an internship, and then who knows where after that, so even if i did ask her out and she said yes it would be stupid. we'd have 4 weeks or so together (during law school, studying for finals, which is a terrible time to have a significant other) and then it would be a long distance thing and that would never work
Damn son! You'll never catch a dimepiece trying to plan shit out like that. Take shit as it comes and tap that ass before you have time to think about the consequences.

[Adam]

Ha! I asked her for that drink, she turned me down. Shows how I can read a situation...

lesbian obviously! :rolleyes:

:D

[Bob]

yesterday i saw her in the computer lab, using a computer. she was sitting by herself in the corner, with a bunch of empty seats next to her. so i quickly ducked behind another computer on the opposite side of the room before she could see me

why do i do these things

[checkyourprez]

because you think your not worthy.

[Adam]

Dude - just ask her. So what if she is disappearing in a bit. World is tiny these days. Might as well have some1 thousands of miles away than not at all imho.

[checkyourprez]

because you think your not worthy.

to further build on this...


we are just animals correct? the thing that "seperates" us is that we are just really smart ones (in some ways), but in the end we are still just animals. do you think a lion does not try and fuck a lioness because he is scared, or shy? no, that lion trys to do whatever he can to get that lioness punani, because thats life. so why should you think any different? don't let what makes us more than animals (our smart brains) act as a determent to you. you over think it to the point where you make yourself scared shitless. you have every right to that lioness punani as the next guy. be the lion bob, be the lion.

[Adam]

^A lot of species continue with what we would call rape. I wouldn't recommend this.

[Bob]

yeah i don't wanna rape her

[funk63]

do you think a lion does not try and fuck a lioness because he is scared, or shy? no, that lion trys to do whatever he can to get that lioness punani, because thats life. so why should you think any different? don't let what makes us more than animals (our smart brains) act as a determent to you. you over think it to the point where you make yourself scared shitless. you have every right to that lioness punani as the next guy. be the lion bob, be the lion.

That was on some bootleg school for scoundrels tip.
Hey Bob not to intrude but did you have a fucked up child hood? Or just a fucked up relationship with your mom? Because That might have something to do with your problems with women. Not saying that you do, Im just sayin it seems like your ridiculously shy. Maybe you should try going to a counselor, or psychologists, w.e. I dont know what your stance is on that stuff or if you have done it before but it really is helpful and can really help a person get to the roots of their problems and such. Im just throwin it out there.

[Lyman Zerga]

yeah i don't wanna rape her

i wish there would be more classy men like you out there :eek:(y)

[Bob]

That was on some bootleg school for scoundrels tip.
Hey Bob not to intrude but did you have a fucked up child hood? Or just a fucked up relationship with your mom? Because That might have something to do with your problems with women. Not saying that you do, Im just sayin it seems like your ridiculously shy. Maybe you should try going to a counselor, or psychologists, w.e. I dont know what your stance is on that stuff or if you have done it before but it really is helpful and can really help a person get to the roots of their problems and such. Im just throwin it out there.

nah my childhood was pretty normal. my parents are divorced (or separated or something, i dunno what the difference is), apparently because my dad was pretty cold and distant at times (like i tend to be), driving my mom to cheat on him, that all happened right before i started high school, which is when i started getting really quiet and shy, so ok maybe there's something to that but i'm not sure what to do with that information even if it is important

[checkyourprez]

yeah i don't wanna rape her

tell her that.

[Adam]

when I was <19 I was insanely shy. Best way to get over it is to get rejected a few times. Aim above your league and you'll realise its no biggy. But if you succeed, thats even better! I had a pretty normal childhood to.

Just some people aren't made for social interactions, which kinda sucks cus humans are social creatures. Some say its a sign of intelligence but I've proved them wrong with that.

I mean, I kinda dislike crowds, and being the centre of attention. It really gets to me; I get too hot, head ache and the only thing I want to do is walk the other way. I can still do the same around women I fancy. But once I get comfortable with some1, I'm not shy at all. Weird innit. I'm home early tonight for the same reason, just too many people in a small space - hate it, hate it, HATE IT!!

[mikizee]

I think he hates it