View Full Version : turns out I'm a bitch
Dorothy Wood
03-12-2009, 02:27 AM
yup. it wouldn't really matter if I were a man, but because I'm a lady, my stern leadership is frowned upon. whatever. grow the fuck up and do shit right, you fucking babies. I'm not about to go around holding people's hands just because I have a god damn vagina.
(this is not about work, my leadership is accepted and commended at work. I think because I work for gays who don't expect me to fulfill any specific gender role).
anyway, I'm never going on a date again. they are awkward and stupid and I hate them.
Hey don't yell. :(
Bad night, I take it?
Lex Diamonds
03-12-2009, 02:29 AM
So what happened? Why? Involving who?
You can't dangle some juicy beef just out of reach and not even tell us what it's marinated in.
Dorothy Wood
03-12-2009, 02:51 AM
meh, I just went out with a kid who asked me out from this group I'm a part of. and we were talking about random things and he teasingly quoted something I said at this recording session we just did where everyone was acting immature and not paying attention and pretty much disrespecting the sound engineers who were basically just waiting for all of us to get our shit together. nobody else took the reins, so I did, and I yelled a little...basically told everyone to act their age.
and also, I told everyone they sounded like shit after I went in the booth and heard the rough cut of one of the songs. but you know what? we sounded like shit. I wasn't saying, "everyone sounds like shit but me", I was saying as a whole, we sounded like shit. and then I gave notes and direction. we tried it again and it sounded better. duh.
but apparently, when I say, "it sounds like shit", that brings down morale (according to this kid).
anyway, we didn't get into a fight exactly, but it made things tense and no amount of flirting could make up for it. I was left feeling confused as to why someone who thought I was a bitch would decide to ask me out in the first place.
and it just made me realize that I need to date people who aren't big whiny babies, and/or I need to express my opinions in a more diplomatic manner so as not to offend big whiny babies.
whatever. don't take me out and tell me I'm bossy. I already know I'm bossy. take it or leave it.
Gareth
03-12-2009, 03:03 AM
i know it seems cool to be indifferent and jokey and everything
that's how my closest friends are
but sometimes shit needs to get done
and to get it done, someone needs to step up
sometimes this isn't me but sometimes it is...
packing a sad over it is lame
Dorothy Wood
03-12-2009, 03:03 AM
29.
meh, I did have some fun, he's not a bad dude, we'll remain casual friends I'm sure. it's just frustrating to hang out with someone who doesn't understand me when I already know plenty of people who do.
I think the older I get, the harder it is for me to be fake to suit other people's needs.
RobMoney$
03-12-2009, 05:32 AM
I don't really see what it has to do with you being a girl at all.
People generally don't like to be bossed around or told they suck by anyone, regardless of gender.
jabumbo
03-12-2009, 07:24 AM
new anthem? (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ARTS2lQ9bZo)
Myu-to
03-12-2009, 09:19 AM
Is this really news to you?
Just kidding. I hate it when people waste my time when music is involved. Fuck around in a jam session sure, but when it is recording time, it's called professionalism baby.
Nuzzolese
03-12-2009, 09:22 AM
Maybe he was hoping you would boss him around a bit, in the bedroom.
Or he asked you out because he thought you were a challeneg, and he wanted to try to control you, break you like a wild filly. But you reared up and kicked your front hooves at him, neighing and knickering to tell him that you can't be saddled. Wild hearts can't be broken.
checkyourprez
03-12-2009, 09:36 AM
I don't really see what it has to do with you being a girl at all.
People generally don't like to be bossed around or told they suck by anyone, regardless of gender.
nah though dude, its defiantly worse when it comes from a woman. they arent "supposed" to act like that.
Nuzzolese
03-12-2009, 09:56 AM
Taking charge and being tough is part of being attractive for a man. So even if he's mean, women like that because we're sick.
Myu-to
03-12-2009, 10:07 AM
Maybe he was hoping you would boss him around a bit, in the bedroom.
Or he asked you out because he thought you were a challeneg, and he wanted to try to control you, break you like a wild filly. But you reared up and kicked your front hooves at him, neighing and knickering to tell him that you can't be saddled. Wild hearts can't be broken.
So you're saying she's a horse and not a dog?
Dorothy Wood
03-12-2009, 10:26 AM
I don't really see what it has to do with you being a girl at all.
People generally don't like to be bossed around or told they suck by anyone, regardless of gender.
okay, I don't tell people they suck, I tell them that what they're doing sucks. if people construe that as me telling them they suck, then they're the big whiny babies.
I look at a situation, assess it, and tell my thoughts on it without sugar-coating. I don't nag, and I'm usually fair. and when a bunch of idiots are wasting other people's time, damn right I'm going to say something. the people at the studio were gracious enough to have us, and they deserved our attention and respect.
a lady would say, "okay guys, let's get together and quiet down". I say "shut your mouths, pay attention and be respectful. we're acting like children, and we're not children are we?"
fact of the matter is, I've tried the pussy footing and it just doesn't work.
anyway, he is texting me this morning about this and pissing me off, but I am totally winning. I don't even know what winning means in this situation though.
Nuzzolese
03-12-2009, 10:30 AM
Tell him "you can't corral this, cowboy" and that your real friends at the message board are behind you. I think he'll get the picture. If not, send him to us. *punches fist into palm*
AceFace
03-12-2009, 10:32 AM
did he ask you out after the "bitchiness" occurred? if so, he probably liked it!
Planetary
03-12-2009, 10:34 AM
So what happened? Why? Involving who?
You can't dangle some juicy beef just out of reach and not even tell us what it's marinated in.
lol such a queer
Dorothy Wood
03-12-2009, 10:48 AM
Tell him "you can't corral this, cowboy" and that your real friends at the message board are behind you. I think he'll get the picture. If not, send him to us. *punches fist into palm*
yeah!
did he ask you out after the "bitchiness" occurred? if so, he probably liked it!
erm, I've known him for awhile, he's seen me act like a complete lunatic on more than one occasion. sometimes I even fall on the floor and roll around like I'm dying when I don't like something. I've cut down on that though, because it is clearly obnoxious.
but you know, I'm a likable lunatic. usually.
AceFace
03-12-2009, 10:55 AM
maybe that's why he likes you, then, if he's seen this kinda behavior before.
rolling on the floor would be obnoxious. i hope you were joking there. :p
Dorothy Wood
03-12-2009, 11:57 AM
yeah, I wasn't joking. I am pretty obnoxious. well, I guess I don't roll around, I fall down and pretend I'm dead. it only lasts for a second. and it was funny the first couple of times. I'm not going to do it anymore. I will still sink to the floor and pretend to cry though.
usually I just put my hood up and tie it tight so I look like a turtle, or wrap my scarf (if I'm wearing one) around my face like a bandit when I get really frustrated. quiet opposition, through immature toddler-like means.
maybe I should try harder to be a normal person. *sigh*
paul jones
03-12-2009, 12:03 PM
you fucking tells those punks Kel!(y)
they need to stop wetting their beds and watching High School Reunion 3 DVD and grow some balls and do some real work in the mines or putting up scaffold and getting their hands dirty
Nuzzolese
03-12-2009, 12:05 PM
Every time I go to Chicago I look around for you, thinking that will be the time I happen to see you just passing by. What are the chances of that ever happening? Don't freak out or anything, I hardly ever go anymore. And if I saw you I wouldn't say anything. Jeeze, I sound like a stalker.
taquitos
03-12-2009, 12:07 PM
i bet he doesn't really care. sounds like it will be okay if you don't yell at him or anything anytime soon.
hpdrifter
03-12-2009, 12:08 PM
I was in the same situation once, my friend's wedding rehearsal. She was the most disorganized bride ever and the maid of honor was a complete flake so I stepped in (I was a bridesmaid) to help her.
She didn't reserve the space for the rehearsal so we ended up doing it in a friend's living room which wasn't big enough. Anyway, the groom had asked about 10 dudes to be his groomsmen. The rehearsal was a complete disaster because 5 of the groomsmen wouldn't focus, they kept fucking around, laughing, making jokes. It was late, the minister was sick, everyone just wanted to get through it and leave but after 45 minutes we didn't even get through one full processional because of those fuckers.
I still regret that I didn't have the cajones to put them in their place. Someone needed to do it and it should have been me because I was kind of running things. But I couldn't do it because I didn't want to "be a bitch".
Dorothy Wood
03-12-2009, 12:20 PM
i bet he doesn't really care. sounds like it will be okay if you don't yell at him or anything anytime soon.
oh it'll be okay. okay in the way that we're just gonna be friends.
I was beginning to feel a bit like Mark from Peep Show anyway, when he finally gets to go out with Sophie and she's not that great and it's quite an effort to get along.
Dorothy Wood
03-12-2009, 12:22 PM
I was in the same situation once, my friend's wedding rehearsal. She was the most disorganized bride ever and the maid of honor was a complete flake so I stepped in (I was a bridesmaid) to help her.
She didn't reserve the space for the rehearsal so we ended up doing it in a friend's living room which wasn't big enough. Anyway, the groom had asked about 10 dudes to be his groomsmen. The rehearsal was a complete disaster because 5 of the groomsmen wouldn't focus, they kept fucking around, laughing, making jokes. It was late, the minister was sick, everyone just wanted to get through it and leave but after 45 minutes we didn't even get through one full processional because of those fuckers.
I still regret that I didn't have the cajones to put them in their place. Someone needed to do it and it should have been me because I was kind of running things. But I couldn't do it because I didn't want to "be a bitch".
well that's a tough situation when you don't really know the people that well. I'll never understand why some people are so thick-headed they don't realize they're wasting other people's time with nonsense. I mean, if they were bored and acting up, they should be grown up enough to realize that if they buckled down, the whole thing would be over sooner.
that kind of stuff really gets my goat!
I wish I had a goat. I'd call it Billy. Billy the Goat.
paul jones
03-12-2009, 12:40 PM
I was beginning to feel a bit like Mark from Peep Show anyway, when he finally gets to go out with Sophie and she's not that great and it's quite an effort to get along.
:D
Are you fat? Because the only time that I would call a girl a cunt or bossy is if they were a fat ass. I'm like "hey fatass, you're lucky that you're even here..." You never see a dude bitch out a hot chick because she is bossy.... tue story
anyway, you sound like you need a good fuckin... i'm in town one more night ;)
Dorothy Wood
03-12-2009, 01:02 PM
Are you fat? Because the only time that I would call a girl a cunt or bossy is if they were a fat ass. I'm like "hey fatass, you're lucky that you're even here..." You never see a dude bitch out a hot chick because she is bossy.... tue story
anyway, you sound like you need a good fuckin... i'm in town one more night ;)
dude, I've been on this message board for almost 10 years and have explained what I look like, how much I weigh and what size I am on many occasions. I am not fat, but I am bulkier than average. my ass is darling.
also, I didn't get bitched out. and he didn't call me a cunt. wtf?
I'm gonna go ahead and pass on the fuckin. I'm not in the market for an STD.
Dorothy Wood
03-12-2009, 01:03 PM
Every time I go to Chicago I look around for you, thinking that will be the time I happen to see you just passing by. What are the chances of that ever happening? Don't freak out or anything, I hardly ever go anymore. And if I saw you I wouldn't say anything. Jeeze, I sound like a stalker.
I thought I saw you downtown once. :cool:
If it makes you feel any better, Ms. Wood, I don't think you're a bitch.
hpdrifter
03-12-2009, 01:17 PM
DW: Don't even bother with Fern. I'm convinced he's an alias. Probably someone who just wants to try to be totally different from themselves and see what happens for the fuck of it. Bob?
Fern has been about 10 or so years also.
If he is an alias, he is by far the greatest alias to never give it away or get bored.
hpdrifter
03-12-2009, 01:30 PM
Maybe it gets passed from person to person. Who cares.
DeeJayZap
03-12-2009, 02:02 PM
i know how you feel. i told the guitarist in our band that he wasn't putting in the work he needed to and he went in a huff and left the band and now everyone thinks im a bastard because i took a stand.
Nuzzolese
03-12-2009, 02:31 PM
I thought I saw you downtown once. :cool:
I WAS downtown on several occasions! Do you remember if I was alone or with someone? What was I wearing, when was this?
hpdrifter
03-12-2009, 02:44 PM
i know how you feel. i told the guitarist in our band that he wasn't putting in the work he needed to and he went in a huff and left the band and now everyone thinks im a bastard because i took a stand.
It is especially important in a band situation to nip these things in the bud. And usually much harder to take for the bitchee.
NoFenders
03-12-2009, 02:49 PM
Every time I go to Chicago I look around for you, thinking that will be the time I happen to see you just passing by. What are the chances of that ever happening? Don't freak out or anything, I hardly ever go anymore. And if I saw you I wouldn't say anything. Jeeze, I sound like a stalker.
Look for the lady screaming at little boys.
;)
Chicago, I been there.
Yeah, I think I'm going to take a post break for a while.
also, I didn't get bitched out. and he didn't call me a cunt. wtf?
I'm gonna go ahead and pass on the fuckin. I'm not in the market for an STD.
I guess it adds up: not being bitched out means that you are not necessarly fat, and cunt is what you call a hot girl if you just had enough, I guess i'll have to see a picture of these days...
As for the STD's, i've only had clymidia. Not a big deal. And trust me tank ass, it's worth it for a ride on the kid, or what I have heard.....:o
DW: Don't even bother with Fern. I'm convinced he's an alias. Probably someone who just wants to try to be totally different from themselves and see what happens for the fuck of it. Bob?
I am really (lb)Blighty.
checkyourprez
03-12-2009, 11:00 PM
Maybe it gets passed from person to person. Who cares.
until you feel the burn when you pee.
until you feel the burn when you pee.
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA. GANGSTA SHIT
Dorothy Wood
03-13-2009, 01:01 AM
I guess it adds up: not being bitched out means that you are not necessarly fat, and cunt is what you call a hot girl if you just had enough, I guess i'll have to see a picture of these days...
As for the STD's, i've only had clymidia. Not a big deal. And trust me tank ass, it's worth it for a ride on the kid, or what I have heard.....:o
I don't have tank ass. if I did, I would be honest about it.
also, I don't really understand the first part of your statement. he didn't bitch me out because I'm probably not fat...but he didn't call me a cunt so I must not be that hot? and you want to see a picture of...these days?
awesome bro.
beastiegirrl101
03-13-2009, 11:23 AM
Every time I go to Chicago I look around for you, thinking that will be the time I happen to see you just passing by. What are the chances of that ever happening? Don't freak out or anything, I hardly ever go anymore. And if I saw you I wouldn't say anything. Jeeze, I sound like a stalker.
This is how Sarks and I actually met...we ran into eachother at a bar, we got all squinty eyed and pointed at eachother, giggled and then hugged. AWE.
Now I know run into her in the shoe asile at Target.
Dorothy Wood
03-17-2009, 03:11 PM
nuzz, I don't actually know if it was you because it was just a thin woman with dark hair. it was probably jennifer connelly. I don't know when it was either.
nata, I thought we met first when you came to my work? or did we meet before that? I'm getting old, my memory is fading. I think we did the squinty thing after that. at...uh, what's the name...liar's club!
well, I hung out with that kid again. and I'm pretty sure he was just using me to make some other chick jealous, then got visibly irritated when I was talking to other dudes. I ain't got time for high school hijinks, son. we done.
pardon me, I got some padster on the last line, let me just wipe it off.
*squeegie*
paul jones
03-17-2009, 03:40 PM
. I ain't got time for high school hijinks, son. we done.
pardon me, I got some padster on the last line, let me just wipe it off.
*squeegie*
you've been attending Padster's " School of Rap" but don't worry I won't tell anyone(y):cool:
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