cheaters

[b i o n i c]

whoo boy those orange crunchy things are cheesy, mang!

[Lex Diamonds]

Both. Mine were justified, hers weren't. I'm not going to go into it, but trust me.

[b i o n i c]

justified? like she did it first, right?

[Lex Diamonds]

That's really only the beginning of it but yeah, she did.

[Videodrome]

i was a cheater until i became engaged, then i came completely clean and retired my cheating status. my cheating days were before i was 20. a decade or so later i've only been cheated on. i guess what goes around comes around.

[Dorothy Wood]

does kissing a DJ at a party after getting into a fight with your boyfriend count? and if said boyfriend never found out about it?

[Videodrome]

yes, it counts.

[b i o n i c]

if this was the jenny jones show right now the audience would be all "oh no dey d'int, once a cheatuh always a cheatuh.."

lol there was just a guy on tv whose name was patrick cox, pat cox.. haha

[Nuzzolese]

Does it count if you were only 15 or 16 years old?

[b i o n i c]

yes, everything counts!

[Nuzzolese]

I kissed another boy at a party while I was supposed to be dating someone else. But I never wanted to date the first guy in the first place, he just asked me out and everyone told me that I had been flirting with him even though I hadn't been meaning to, so all the social pressure made me feel like I had no choice but to date him. His mom drove us to our dates, and his little sister rode shotgun. I know it was wrong to cheat.

I've probably been cheated on but I never knew about it. I prefer it that way.

[Lyman Zerga]

i could never cheat especially not for just sex

in my school years i cheated on tests though

[monkey]

cheating is a very very selfish thing to do. and people are occasionally very very selfish.

[P of R]

Nope never cheated, and hopefully never been cheated on either.

[Lex Diamonds]

Crimes of passion are what make us human. Most everybody will cheat at some point and it doesn't (always) make them a cunt.

But sometimes you just have to listen to Cocaine Blues (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ITsvPjbEPtc) and say "fuck that bitch".

[Whatitis]

Crimes of passion are what make us human. Most everybody will cheat at some point and it doesn't (always) make them a cunt.


Absolute immature view. But not much more to expect from you. If you're cheating, there is something wrong with the relationship, end of story.

[Nuzzolese]

Crimes of passion are what make us human. Most everybody will cheat at some point and it doesn't (always) make them a cunt.

But sometimes you just have to listen to Cocaine Blues (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ITsvPjbEPtc) and say "fuck that bitch".

I'm sold. Can I stay the night?

[b i o n i c]

sometimes if im watching those tv court shows, it kind of makes me laugh how seriously bent out of shape people get over cheating/being cheated on.

also, there's a lot of cheating going on in r&b.. cheating lyrics crack me up too

[beastieangel01]

I was very, very unhappy and whilst on vacation let someone go down on me. The boy didn't like giving oral, ever. I broke up with him a week later.

I think being satisfied sexually is a key component in a relationship that is going to last. As are other things, since they were many other issues with the relationship I was in, but yeah.

[ms.peachy]

It's not for me. I'm happy with what I've got, because what I've got makes me happy.

[beastieangel01]

oh, I should mention that I think I shouldn't have done it. Sure, I don't feel too much remorse because that ex is a jack ass. But really, I should have broken up with him a long time before that incident. Cheating is never good, even if you are unhappy.

Leave them.

[Lex Diamonds]

Absolute immature view. But not much more to expect from you. If you're cheating, there is something wrong with the relationship, end of story.
There is ALWAYS something wrong with a relationship. Thinking a relationship can be perfect, now that's immature. More than half of marriages end in divorce due to adultery. Whatever you may think of me I've been some shit with myself and my parents would probably make you piss your little pants so sit down and shut the fuck up about things you don't know.

[Fern]

Repeat offender.

I am an artist and cheating is my canvas. I take it to a totally higher level than most. I have had a steady girlfriend get blonde highlights so she was not alarmed in finding blonde hair in my bed, banged best friend's and have gotten off scott-free, even got caught red-handed and the Kid talked his way out of it. I learned absolutely nothing.

In fact, I enjoy cheating more than the actual relationship. I purposely go out 'exclusively' with girls JUST to cheat on them. I can't say enough good things about the thrill of doing something wrong. Better than any coke or other drug high for me at least. Heart starts beating hard when I know it is going to happen, deep breathing.

I usually go out with pieces of ass, and I will even cheat on them with fat, nasty pigs just to do it. It is more of a compulsion than anything. I have a 26 year record of never turning down pussy. Oh wait a minute, I turned it down once.

Awesome.

:)

[ms.peachy]

There is ALWAYS something wrong with a relationship. Thinking a relationship can be perfect, now that's immature.

Padster I am curious why you equate the idea that because a relationship isn't 'perfect' - and I agree with you that no relationship is - that that means there is something 'wrong'.

[Adam]

I'm the only one who has voted - has been cheated on :-(

[Schmeltz]

I can't say enough good things about the thrill of doing something wrong. Better than any coke or other drug high for me at least.


Now that is a true blue GWB supporter! Thinking with everything but his head. Let me guess: North Kentucky.

[Fern]

Nope. Metro NY

[Schmeltz]

Oh, but you moved there from North Kentucky. Come on, man! Where's your red state pride?

[Fern]

I'm a Republican

[Schmeltz]

I'm a Republican

Yeah I can tell, like I said above. Amoral, perverse, coked up - just like your joke of a President was.

[Fern]

*Yawn*

[Adam]

I like Fern, he has no apologies about what he believes or who he is. Doesn't try to justify to others why he thinks something is so and is at total ease with his behaviour. (y)

I prefer Fern types to the ones who are arseholes but think they are not and are justified in cheating some1 because "he/she did it first" and somehow that makes them better than them. And think they have the moral high ground because "he/she doesn't know how much he/she hurt me" type bullshit.

Anyway, that kinda doesn't make sense but I know what I mean.

[Schmeltz]

You're right, this is boring. Baiting Republicans is out of fashion now. Just like Republicans are, come to think. I'll let him go back to being the Kid, which I assume is a reference to his juvenile intellect.

[Fern]

^^Sounds like someone may have been cheated on before???^^

It's Okay, sweetheart. The're other fish in the sea....

:)

[Whatitis]

There is ALWAYS something wrong with a relationship. Thinking a relationship can be perfect, now that's immature. More than half of marriages end in divorce due to adultery. Whatever you may think of me I've been some shit with myself and my parents would probably make you piss your little pants so sit down and shut the fuck up about things you don't know.


Never said relationships had to be perfect, just that somethings wrong with it. It takes mature/unselfish people to make a relationship work. It's not what I think of you, it's your whole persona on this board that wreaks of immaturity when it comes to relationships.

Good to see that nearly half of marriages still stick it out in todays time, according to your figures at least.

[Rock]

It takes mature/unselfish people to make a relationship work.

word.

people who cheat in relationships....fuck em. People who cheat with people in relationships...fuck em too.

[Lex Diamonds]

Padster I am curious why you equate the idea that because a relationship isn't 'perfect' - and I agree with you that no relationship is - that that means there is something 'wrong'.
By it's very definition, if there wasn't anything wrong then it would be perfect.

[ms.peachy]

By it's very definition, if there wasn't anything wrong then it would be perfect.

I guess we have different definitions of 'wrong', then. Or maybe you're seeing a relationship as a 'thing', whereas I see it as a 'process'. I don't think any relationship is perfect, because that implies that there is some sort of finished state of being to it. But viewed as a something more like an organism, it's more like one can look at what is working well and what isn't, what's healthy and what's not. So you can have a relationship that is working well and is perfectly healthy, where there's nothing 'wrong' and everything is functioning optimally, but because it is ongoing, the concept of 'perfection' doesn't really enter into it.

That's my view of it, anyway. Intimate relationships are never static.

[Lex Diamonds]

I'm just saying there are always problems and sometimes (especially in more intimate relationships) they can creep up and become destructive without either party realising. Cheating is rarely pre-meditated, it usually comes from a sudden realisation that you're not happy with whoever you're with. In that moment, most people will go for it without thinking about the consequences rather than wait and break off the relationship.

It's nice you've never experienced that shit but I bet a lot of people on here have. Like I said, it's just human nature.

[Adam]

...most people will go for it without thinking about the consequences...

I know we are probably from different sides of the track but in my experience, most people think about the consequences unless blindly drunk or intoxicated some how.

And normally you have a mate or two about making you realise is something is a bad idea or not. But, different mould and all that - personally I don't find one night stands attractive, maybe when I was a teen and still hadn't got my dick wet but not now.

[Bob]

this one time, i used my left hand

has anyone made that joke yet? paul jones?

[ms.peachy]

I'm just saying there are always problems and sometimes (especially in more intimate relationships) they can creep up and become destructive without either party realising. Cheating is rarely pre-meditated, it usually comes from a sudden realisation that you're not happy with whoever you're with. In that moment, most people will go for it without thinking about the consequences rather than wait and break off the relationship.

It's nice you've never experienced that shit but I bet a lot of people on here have. Like I said, it's just human nature.

I understand, and I don't disagree with anything you've said here really. I guess what I meant was, of course no relationship is perfect because at the end of the day, a relationships is nothing more than the people involved - and since no person is perfect, then no relationship can be either. To me though that doesn't mean that by default, something is necessarily wrong in the relationship.

[Lex Diamonds]

Yeah cool, I get you. I really don't wanna argue about this anyway cuz it's depressing shit.

Just know that I go colder the older I grow; this boulder on my shoulder gets heavy and harder to hold.

[Fern]

personally I don't find one night stands attractive, maybe when I was a teen and still hadn't got my dick wet but not now.

Ya know, I feel similar.

I have 1 night stands regularly, almost like a screening process. If a girl fucks or sucks the first time I meet or hang out with her. I usually never call her again. If I am going to have a relationship, I like her to generally wait about 1 - 1 1/2 months before we fuck. Keeps her honest. The only exemption is say I have a friend that is a girl and we end up fucking, that is a different story, which has happened to the Kid. Fortunately I do not have many female friends, or friends that are females; the Kid is typically all-about-business.

[b i o n i c]

according to the poll half of you are scumbags and the other half are in denial

[b i o n i c]

option 4 is a trick question... how would anyone really know if its never been done to them?

[Rock]

So whats worse? being cheated on physically or emotionally?

[beastieangel01]

I think both are equally bad.

I'd want to be able to share both with my partner. I'd feel violated and let down either way.

[Fern]

according to the poll half of you are scumbags and the other half are in denial

best. quote. ever.