View Full Version : should I let it go, or what?
Dorothy Wood
04-23-2009, 12:39 AM
so, I kind of want to tell my ex that I'm not angry at him anymore. this is mainly because my male BFF just broke up with his girlfriend of 3 years. and for the first time, I was really able to see the rationale behind breaking up with someone even if things are pretty good. and no matter how much anybody wants anything to work, if one person isn't sure, it's bad for both people.
this is all very logical of course, but for some reason I couldn't really see the logic until now.
anyway, this song makes sense to me now: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=p8_FOQ7-P30
so, I guess that song actually answered my question. uhh. nevermind.
he probably doesn't care anyway.
Belt Parkway
04-23-2009, 10:21 AM
Great tune from the '70's. Yeah, I would just let it go. If you contact him, it may rekindle any feelings you still may have for him, then you'll get hurt again (if you were hurt initially).
Or he will be like "HA...she still wants the cack..she called me out of nowhere to tell me that? psshhhh"
Indiana...let it go.
cosmo105
04-23-2009, 11:02 AM
Don't bother. Not worth it. He'd probably be weirded out.
paul jones
04-23-2009, 11:33 AM
I think Dave Mason needs to trim his nasal hair
nodanaonlyzuul
04-23-2009, 12:13 PM
Indiana...let it go.
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Echewta
04-23-2009, 12:33 PM
Its going to be a great day when you don't care about exs and their feelings.
Guy Incognito
04-23-2009, 12:47 PM
let it go deffo, unless you live next door to the guy he wont have any idea if you are still angry or not, and he's obviously moved on, any contact might give him the wrong idea like rock said. I imagine you not being angry at him is a moot point as far as he is concerned
Dorothy Wood
04-23-2009, 11:36 PM
thanks guys. I've let it go. I do think he would like to know that I understand a bit better now, because he had originally wanted us to remain friends. but it's dumb to just let him know out of the blue. these are the kinds of things that are meant to come out when you're wasted at a mutual friend's wedding. or perhaps a 4th of july barbeque. or never.
wait! is it too late to tell you not to let it go? not because i think it's the right thing to do but because i'm bored and i want to play head games
Dorothy Wood
04-23-2009, 11:50 PM
no no, here, I'll give you his cell phone number and you can text him and pretend to be me! it will be awesome.
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