hate yourself thread

[Dorothy Wood]

what do you hate about yourself?


I hate my arrogance. I hate my stupid pale spotty skin. I hate my chin. I hate my trying to figure out everything that happens and why and how it doesn't matter.

ugh. I'm not even in a bad mood. I just wish I could be nicer and not so worried all the time.



I am totes bonered right now. holy shit.

[Randetica]

my face, belly, ass and my good naturedness

[funk63]

A shorter list would be what I like about myself.:(

[Adam]

I hate how I sometimes care that I am fat. It bothered me last night but doesn't bother me now. But I ain't ever gonna be anything other than fat cus I like food and booze too much.

Erm, I hate how I never finish anything I start

I hate Jews

I hate how I over analyse sometimes and thus never get anything done - I don't have much impulse.



Ugh, I'm depressed now (!)

[ET]

Hate is too strong of a word. I don't like my lil' ponch. I eat candy and drink on occasion so I can't really say more than that.

Also, Adam, check ya pm.

[russhie]

I dislike the way I look but I dislike my insecurity about it even more. The fact I lack confidence in my abilities, don't speak up when I should, possess drive and ambition and intelligence but seem to waste all these things because I'm too busy chasing things that are easier and more fun (and ultimately are bad for me).

[Helvete]

Who cares about these things if you have someone who likes you?

[Randetica]

I hate Jews



who doesnt?

[Bob]

i hate that i don't have anyone that likes me

[Helvete]

i hate that i don't have anyone that likes me
They will one day.

[Randetica]

i like bob but i dont count

[Pres Zount]

A shorter list would be my favourite selection of fruit.

[Myu-to]

How fuckin awesome I am. I mean really, it gets tiring. Looks, intelligence, successful, wife, family, and very modest.

Yeah, I hate my modesty the most.

[checkyourprez]

my cock size.



















































its to big. :eek:

[Adam]

checkyourprez, I generally wrapped my round my leg so not to keep tripping over it. Some baggy jeans so it doesn't show and you can feel comfortable all day

[Bob]

i just let mine hang out of my pants. nobody's offended or anything because women love to look at my big dick. most ask if they can touch it, and the ones who don't, well, i can see it in their eyes

[Adam]

doesn't it drag on the floor behind ya though bob? And what if you step on it? Thats gotta hurt!

[monkey]

i hate that i overthink shit, and the most logical conclusion is usually the one that makes me mad/sad/bad. regardless of the reality of the case.

and my giant dick, yes, i hate that.

[Bob]

doesn't it drag on the floor behind ya though bob? And what if you step on it? Thats gotta hurt!

usually someone offers to carry it for me

in her mouth

[Helvete]

Now you're all being silly. But seriously I hate the fact that I am in Germany right now when I have this amazing girl back home. Well I'm not in Germany NOW, but mostly. You know what I mean.

[Adam]

As I was even typing my reply I was thinking 'boys :rolleyes:'

Can't beat knob gags

[b i o n i c]

i hate it when i talk too much. i can also be involuntarily brash or insensitive at times. i have a hard time saying sorry, im trying to not be like that

im sorry, i mean well

[Randetica]

Now you're all being silly. But seriously I hate the fact that I am in Germany right now when I have this amazing girl back home. Well I'm not in Germany NOW, but mostly. You know what I mean.

your sister doesnt count either

[nodanaonlyzuul]

I dislike:

That because of my body type I will never have a super flat stomach without first deflating my tits and ass. Damn you, you short torso, long arms, long legs, L bust, M waist, L hips weird ass body. You're difficult to deal with. Not to mention it's impossible to find anything that fits correctly.

I also dislike the bump on my nose.
I dislike canine teeth. I think they are too pointy, but at least it's not painfully obvious that they are. Still, I don't like it.

I dislike that I need 8-9 of sleep to function well the next day. Do you have any idea how much I can get done if I could sleep less?!

I'll stop there.

[Dorothy Wood]

I don't really know why I put that I hate my chin in here. I rarely even think about my chin. and it's not my chin really, I just think I have a big jaw which only bothers me when I see profile shots of myself.


oh well. my goodness I was certainly off my gourd last night.

[Helvete]

your sister doesnt count either

Hey, you Austrians are the ones who fuck each other.

[HotAndWet]

I dislike:

That because of my body type I will never have a super flat stomach without first deflating my tits and ass. Damn you, you short torso, long arms, long legs, L bust, M waist, L hips weird ass body. You're difficult to deal with. Not to mention it's impossible to find anything that fits correctly.


I have L hips and M waist and S/M bust, :(

I hate that if I buy pants that fit comfortably on my hips, they're way too big in the thighs but if I get pants that make my thighs look awesome I get a huge muffin top.

I hate that in profile or when smiling my nose looks bulbous-y and sticks out way too much.

I hate that my upper lip generally disappears in photos and makes me look like I'm pouting.

I hate that I can be a bitch and take things out on my family and friends when it has nothing to do with them.

I'm sure there's more but I can't think of it right now.

[Burnout18]

oh wow great thread.

I don't like my crooked nose, i have a body thats somehow skinny but a fat face and double chin that wont go away, I have no jaw line whatsoever. I'm as pale as a ghost, I have bigger lips then jay-z. I stutter a lot, I'm an awful public and private speaker.... shit i even suck at communicating on the internet, as some of you know from reading my posts. And I hate how i settle for women that i really don't like,,, I finally admitted to myself the other day that i don't think i really ever dated anyone that i really wanted to be with, I just settle for any broad that likes me.

[monkey]

i hate that you beautiful girls are hating on your bodies. not to be a bitch about it all, but there are at least a million girls who would kill to have what you guys have. i try to take this into consideration when im having negative self esteem days. not that it always helps, the fact is i'm not the skinny model i wish i was. but i refuse to HATE my body because as far as i'm concerned, it's almost fully functional. i have two legs that work relatively well, all of my fingers, and maybe a few extra lbs that keep me warm in the winter. i may not like them lbs, and i may not like my fat hips half the time, but i refuse to hate them. these are the cards i was dealt, and i will do the best i can with them.

[mathcart]

i hate that you beautiful girls are hating on your bodies. not to be a bitch about it all, but there are at least a million girls who would kill to have what you guys have. i try to take this into consideration when im having negative self esteem days. not that it always helps, the fact is i'm not the skinny model i wish i was. but i refuse to HATE my body because as far as i'm concerned, it's almost fully functional. i have two legs that work relatively well, all of my fingers, and maybe a few extra lbs that keep me warm in the winter. i may not like them lbs, and i may not like my fat hips half the time, but i refuse to hate them. these are the cards i was dealt, and i will do the best i can with them.

Glad a girl said that because frankly it would just be weird coming from me. So well said!
(y)

Also Adam- now I hate you ignorant Nazi ass.
(n)

[jennyb]

I hate that I live so far away from the most important people in the world to me and that I sit alone on a Saturday night. (n)

I also hate my chin and sometimes my lack of motivation.... oh and my inability to find the proper words to express myself at key moments ... and... oh my this is a slippery slope.

[Adam]

Also Adam- now I hate you ignorant Nazi ass.
(n)

:o T'was a joke about the jews.

I sometimes slip in the odd racist remark to see if any1 reads my posts. I've often put I hate whites here to and thinking about it, Randy is the main person who picks up on it.

I bet if I profiled my posts here, I'd pretty much hate who I was.

Sorry if the joke was in bad taste tho, I always try to be offensive but never in bad taste (!)

[Randetica]

Hey, you Austrians are the ones who fuck each other.

ill probably fuck one or two

[Randetica]

I sometimes slip in the odd racist remark to see if any1 reads my posts. I've often put I hate whites here to and thinking about it, Randy is the main person who picks up on it.


cause i got sense of humor, math is humor immune

[Helvete]

I do actually hate my nose, it's pretty big really. No-one really seems to be bothered by it, but it's just one of those things I dislike.

[paul jones]

I hate the fact that I do not have my penis in a vagina right now

[mathcart]

cause i got sense of humor, math is humor immune

I didn't ask for it- they gave me a shit load of shots when I was a baby. Thats just how it is.

Also your not that funny.

[ET]

i hate that you beautiful girls are hating on your bodies.

And one of you guys posted something I like about one of you.

[Matt]

I have scars on my hands from shortly after I was born. The two middle fingers on each hand were fused together, so once I was well enough to have the procedure done, my doctor separated them. I still have web-like scars running down the inside of each finger that was operated on. I can't wear gloves comfortably, and playing piano is slightly difficult because i can't arch my fingers properly.

I have a small mole on my right cheek that's been there for years. I'm really self-conscious about it, though it gets hidden when I grow out my beard. I assume everyone I know just doesn't notice it, but it still bothers me.

I have a weird lump on the bridge of my nose, but that usually gets hidden by my glasses.

I hate that I can never follow through with relationships. In the past month, I've had a shot with five girls. All of them fell through because of my inability to accept that a girl can find me attractive enough to date. I think that comes from being a lonely teenage shut-in, and I'm still dealing with the residual effects of that depression.

Other than that, my life's pretty bitchin'.

[Randetica]

I didn't ask for it- they gave me a shit load of shots when I was a baby. Thats just how it is.

Also your not that funny.

but i understand humor and your comment just proofs you got none at all

[Fern]

I do drugs to hurt myself!!!

[Rock]

I hate that I search for answers that I'll never find.
I hate my height.
I hate my inability to have just a couple of drinks.
I hate my allergies.
I hate that I can't stop biting my nails.

[NoFenders]

I don't like my knees. They're starting to hurt more and more. The many years of skateboarding and snowboarding have taken their toll.

[Waus]

I hate falling short of the integrity I want.
I hate my lack of coding skill.
I hate my slow aptitude for learning.
I hate the amount of time I've wasted already.

[checkyourprez]

anyone and everyone in here that hates your bodies has no excuses. (baring facial features you cant help)


hate your love for food, your weak internal drive, your lack of will power but dont hate your bodies, because you choose to have the one you do.

[Yetra Flam]

oftentimes, new york makes me hate myself. whenever i go shopping i feel like i'm the most out of shape girl in the city.

[Yetra Flam]

anyone and everyone in here that hates your bodies has no excuses. (baring facial features you cant help)


hate your love for food, your weak internal drive, your lack of will power but dont hate your bodies, because you choose to have the one you do.

fair enough, but you can't change your body's basic proportions and where you automatically store fat, or your body's bone structure. know what i'm saying?

[russhie]

anyone and everyone in here that hates your bodies has no excuses. (baring facial features you cant help)


hate your love for food, your weak internal drive, your lack of will power but dont hate your bodies, because you choose to have the one you do.

I'm with Yetra on this. I'd have to diet myself into oblivion if I wanted my boobs to shrink to anything other than generous. Much as the male of the species enjoys ogling them, I reserve the right to hate them as much as I like, because anything short of surgery means those babies are here to stay - how is that due to me enjoying food, lacking 'internal drive' and willpower?

[checkyourprez]

I'm with Yetra on this. I'd have to diet myself into oblivion if I wanted my boobs to shrink to anything other than generous. Much as the male of the species enjoys ogling them, I reserve the right to hate them as much as I like, because anything short of surgery means those babies are here to stay - how is that due to me enjoying food, lacking 'internal drive' and willpower?

i get what your saying. and i never said it was easy, sometimes theres just not enough time in the day.

at the same time, you work hard enough you get the results you want.

[russhie]

i get what your saying. and i never said it was easy, sometimes theres just not enough time in the day.

at the same time, you work hard enough you get the results you want.

I don't think you quite understand what I'm saying - yetra and I both say that there are some things (besides facial features) that are decided by genetics. I'm saying, even at my thinnest, at under 54kg, I still managed to sport at least a D cup. That's just my body and hate it as I do, I refuse to become skeletal to get them to a C cup - cause then I'd have the cup size thing down but the rest of me would be in a sorry state. Bit pointless and not really the result I'm after.

[checkyourprez]

I don't think you quite understand what I'm saying - yetra and I both say that there are some things (besides facial features) that are decided by genetics. I'm saying, even at my thinnest, at under 54kg, I still managed to sport at least a D cup. That's just my body and hate it as I do, I refuse to become skeletal to get them to a C cup - cause then I'd have the cup size thing down but the rest of me would be in a sorry state. Bit pointless and not really the result I'm after.

nothing wrong with big knocks.

kim kardashians a bigger broad. i get that. she can only get to a certain size because of her bone/body type and whateva whateva.

i get that. but people can still realistically look as good as they can if they try hard.

i feel most people when they said they dont look like a certain way because of their body its too easy to "blame the body" instead of the drive and work ethic ect. my under laying point. most people can always work harder than they think they can and see better results, actually surprising themselves.

[Dorothy Wood]

nothing wrong with big knocks.

kim kardashians a bigger broad. i get that. she can only get to a certain size because of her bone/body type and whateva whateva.

i get that. but people can still realistically look as good as they can if they try hard.

i feel most people when they said they dont look like a certain way because of their body its too easy to "blame the body" instead of the drive and work ethic ect. my under laying point. most people can always work harder than they think they can and see better results, actually surprising themselves.


kim kardashian claims to be a size 2, that ain't big.

[NoFenders]

anyone and everyone in here that hates your bodies has no excuses. (baring facial features you cant help)


hate your love for food, your weak internal drive, your lack of will power but dont hate your bodies, because you choose to have the one you do.

My knees are fucking shot. Nothing to do with love for food or internal drive.

[jennyb]

I hate that I drank too much Sunday night and made myself sick for work the next day. (n) Stupid.

[HotAndWet]

kim kardashian claims to be a size 2, that ain't big.

Kim Kardashian is gorgeous and has an awesome body, but there is no way she's a size 2. I have big hips like her, a tiny bit smaller even and I was never and never will be a size 2.

Even when i was at my thinnest I still had these ridiculously wide hips so there's nothing i can do about them so I feel okay about complaining about them.

[paul jones]

I hate that I drank too much Sunday night and made myself sick for work the next day. (n) Stupid.

that's a GOOD thing no?:confused:

[Dorothy Wood]

Kim Kardashian is gorgeous and has an awesome body, but there is no way she's a size 2. I have big hips like her, a tiny bit smaller even and I was never and never will be a size 2.

Even when i was at my thinnest I still had these ridiculously wide hips so there's nothing i can do about them so I feel okay about complaining about them.


well, she is only 5'2" or something. maybe she has small bones? I have a friend who's 4'11" that wears a 0 and she's not skinny. just small. she's got huge boobs too. well, a C cup, which looks huge on that frame.

I dunno, bodies are strange. both of my roommates are thin and about 5'8" each. one is deceptively tiny though, she wears XS and she's gotta be a 2 or smaller. but you would never really look at her and think she was so teeny. the other one, I think wears a 4 and looks it.

I'm 5'5" and the smallest I've been is a size 11 in juniors. and that was when I was working out 2 hours a day, 5 days a week and eating super healthy. I looked thin and muscular, my jaw was sharp as fuck. I'd be stoked to get back to that size. not too far off, my current favorite jeans are 13's. I was wearing 16's this time last year.

whatevs, I've been bigger, but in better shape than my most of friends since I was a kid. I'm actually the biggest girl I know. I hang out with some skinny bitches.

[hpdrifter]

Lately the thing I hate most is that I can't seem to keep my mouth shut. I talk waaaaay too much about what's going on with me to too many people and end up feeling insecure and exposed.

[Yetra Flam]

i get that. but people can still realistically look as good as they can if they try hard.

i feel most people when they said they dont look like a certain way because of their body its too easy to "blame the body" instead of the drive and work ethic ect. my under laying point. most people can always work harder than they think they can and see better results, actually surprising themselves.

I disagree. As a female, there's very little room for error in terms of body type. If you're not automatically blessed with the "correct" proportions, and the tendency to store fat in the "right" areas, simply working hard will not get you a great body.

[russhie]

Yeah, I actually weigh the same as my housemate, but she has a totally different body type - I have boobs and hips that make me look like I'm carrying more weight than her. It's hard for me to look as thin as I want to because of it, but I'm not going to complain about my body in comparison to hers because I'm physically fitter, more muscular and generally the boys like what I have to offer.

I work hard, I generally eat quite well, and yeah, when I step it up I get great results - there are some things that are just never going to change dramatically. Even those Hollywood personal trainers say you can't fight your body type.

Oh, and what's the AU sizing equivalent to a size 2? all this talk about 2's and 4's makes my size 10 self feel large :(

[jennyb]

Lately the thing I hate most is that I can't seem to keep my mouth shut. I talk waaaaay too much about what's going on with me to too many people and end up feeling insecure and exposed.

Woo! I'm right there w/ya on that one.

[Videodrome]

Lately the thing I hate most is that I can't seem to keep my mouth shut. I talk waaaaay too much about what's going on with me to too many people and end up feeling insecure and exposed.

i've been that way my whole life. i feel ya.

[gbsuey]

I can't stand that if i don't fuck about with my hair-blow dry, products-the whole shabizz, then i look like a brunette Crystal Tips

I am the least photogenic person ever-or perhaps i really am just pig ugly(i can believe it)

But most of all i hate not staying true to my ideals.Such a twat.

[hpdrifter]

I can't stand that if i don't fuck about with my hair-blow dry, products-the whole shabizz, then i look like a brunette Crystal Tips

I am the least photogenic person ever-or perhaps i really am just pig ugly(i can believe it)

But most of all i hate not staying true to my ideals.Such a twat.

Wow, it's like you and I are the same person!

[monkey]

Lately the thing I hate most is that I can't seem to keep my mouth shut. I talk waaaaay too much about what's going on with me to too many people and end up feeling insecure and exposed.

much like everyone else, i too have this issue. it's not even that i tell too many people (other than when im oversharing here) but it's that i end up telling certain people that i shouldn't be sharing with. i end up telling someone like the dude i like, and the dude doesnt really care. i end up upset cause i like him and he couldn't care less about me. it's a stupid, stupid cycle. but it's a cycle im not sure how to stop cause i just say shit without meaning to.

also, i hate that i have split ends.

[easy 3]

I give myself a real hard time every time I write something on the BBMB.:(

Seriously, they're my favourite band, I'm a big music nerd generally, and I'm always running out of other things to look at on the interweb, but everytime I come on here I end up feeling dirty. Like 'why the hell did I feel the need to share that with a bunch of other web-obsessed beastie-freaks?'.

I'll be feeling pretty low this evening about this post I can tell ya'.

[hpdrifter]

Wow, I had no idea so many people felt the same way! That's comforting at least.

[Nuzzolese]

Sometimes my clothes take over my mind, and I feel so anxious that I have to run away from public view. It's strange. I can start out the day feeling fine about putting on one item, then using that as a guide for the next thing, confidently following its path to finish it all up. But suddenly I could find myself, hours later after a day of serene oblivion, walking into the supermarket only to be smacked with a wall of horror at the epiphany that everything is just wrong, wrong, all WRONG!

Once, I had on a pair of brown pinstripe pants, a green sweater, a green lizard headband, and a plaid belt - and god only knows what shoes! I might even have been wearing a herringbone blazer, at this point it's anyone's guess. I'd felt spiffy all day until at one strange moment when I knew that my socks- it started with my socks - that something was tragically wrong there, and like a cloud of death it consumed me until I ran home in a panic, ripping the headband out of my hair and refusing eye contact with anyone. I'd lost the battle but not the war. I'm still out there every day, making it happen, you know. But there are those days that haunt my dreams.

[hpdrifter]

I have one of those.

Black pinstripe suit (to a street fair)
Gray tank top with the word "charming" on it
Strings of silver and pearl chains
Hair was braided in tiny braids with long pink and blonde (!) thread woven in
God only knows what shoes

I... I just... really have no idea

[Nuzzolese]

How about this.

Teal scoopneck ringer t-shirt underneath an even scoopier-necked hot pink long seelve shirt. White pants with the ankles draw-stringed. I went to Ruby Tuesday's. Out the door I was like "this is brilliant" but at the salad bar it was a different story... quite a different story.

[Dorothy Wood]

on my 21st birthday, I wore a white hanes t-shirt that I had ripped a little on the bottom, then pinned back together with safety pins. I wrote "punk rock" in pen on the shirt in tiny letters by the rip. on the bottom, I wore a bright green vinyl "skirt" that I made. unfortunately, I do remember the shoes. they were huge over-sized platform mary janes (http://www.kaboodle.com/hi/img/2/0/0/f7/a/AAAAArVgjXcAAAAAAPeuyA.jpg).

:(

who knows what jewelry I wore. I'm pretty sure my hair was a bob though. with a red streak in the front.

[Nuzzolese]

That's a pretty maniac outfit but at the time I'm sure it was apro.

(I'm taking 'apropriate' without the 'priate' for a test drive, what do you think?)

[NoFenders]

Fits you well.
(y)

[Rock]

(I'm taking 'apropriate' without the 'priate' for a test drive, what do you think?)

i think thats fetch.

[Dorothy Wood]

That's a pretty maniac outfit but at the time I'm sure it was apro.

(I'm taking 'apropriate' without the 'priate' for a test drive, what do you think?)

it wasn't really appro (I added a "p"). it was totes ridic. I regretted it as soon as I got to the restaurant for my birthday dinner. then I regretted it even more when my friends decided to take me to a preppy/white trash club for dancing instead of going downtown to a techno club.

plus, my birthday's at the end of july, and plastic skirts are f'ing hot (temp wise).


p.s. I think I can get on board with apro or appro. I guess with apro, it could also mean apropos. same diff.

[hpdrifter]

I have one of those.

Black pinstripe suit (to a street fair)
Gray tank top with the word "charming" on it
Strings of silver and pearl chains
Hair was braided in tiny braids with long pink and blonde (!) thread woven in
God only knows what shoes

I... I just... really have no idea

Oh god, I remember what shoes! They were platform sliders, black with a blue dragonfly on the top.

It was like a convergence of all that was unholy about the year 2004.

[Nuzzolese]

I god, I spelled it wrong anyway! I'm a loser, loser, chicken boozer.

[nodanaonlyzuul]

i think thats fetch.

I think it is too funny/too cute that you pulled that reference out. :D

[hpdrifter]

I need to add that to the list of movies I could watch over and over again.

[Chicka B]

I hate my indecisiveness and tendency to over-analyze. I suck at true and false when it seems to be easy for most people. And I could use some assertive classes, my teacher said. :(

[cosmo105]

I can't cook pancakes.

[Rock]

I hate how I don't know how to take compliments.

[hpdrifter]

I did it again last night dammit. I think I know my weakness, though. It tends to be when I'm angry.

[hpdrifter]

Also, I think I am weak-minded. I tend to be easily swayed to the opinion of the person I am talking to. I guess I need to try to be more grounded and trust my own reason.

[Helvete]

I'm pretty much perfect to be honest, that's also one of my bad points. It's a heavy burden being this good and I have a lot to live up to. So yeah, I guess I'm not very modest. That's bad, right?

[b i o n i c]

for those who are perfect, please explain

[Helvete]

I wouldn't change a single thing about myself or my life right now. I'm not really perfect, that's silly, but I'm just very content with the way things are and about to go right now.

[b i o n i c]

the only other thing i want right now is more money, other than that, im pretty ok.

[monkey]

im a coward.

[NoFenders]

Sorry to hear that Monkey. You're a strong girl, and I'm sure he's happy you are. Keep the faith, a lot of skin cancer can be taken care of.

[hpdrifter]

That's pretty heavy. Don't fault yourself for how you handled it. I'm not sure I'd handle myself well in the same situation.

[Nuzzolese]

I wish I were like Poppy Cross in Happy-Go-Lucky. She's my Jesus. WWPD?