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Advice.
So I've met this girl. She's as hot as the sun and really really funny but I think thats she's a massive prick tease. We went out with her and her mates on Saturday and had an awesome night. I spent the majority of it laughing my ass off at/with her. She kept nicking my glasses and pouting at me and speaking sexily in my ear. I can't figure out if it's just how she is or if she was interested. I kept thinking of going in for a kiss to test the water but I thought it best to hang back a while. At one point I was chatting to these two girls (one of whom is seeing a new pal of mine but it doesn't stop her from telling me how fit I am when he isn't around but thats another story) and the other was her really pretty mate whom she was introducing me too. Everytime I looked over they're shoulders I could see 'hot girl' staring at me doing daft things like licking her lips and winking at me. When I went back over she was asking if I was into either of the two girls and saying that I was a 'go off'. I can't figure her out. I pulled a different girl though.
The following morning I had a random text off her so I rang her and the first thing she asked was 'did you fuck that blonde?' I just can't read this girl at all.
Help.
Kid Presentable
06-08-2009, 08:56 AM
Man, it's so unlike women to make absolutely no sense.
Man, it's so unlike women to make absolutely no sense.
True, but absolutely is too definite, at least I can usually attain some sort of sense to gauge my possibility.
I hate when I can't read a skank.
Swing for the fences. Swing away.
I went home with some sexy 32 yr old woman the other night and she sucked me off under the blankets while her mother was dozing off in the chair next to us. I felt like I was in high school again! Then I woke up later that morning not knowing where I was or anything. Had to call up one of the goons to scoop the Kid. I hate staggering along the side of the road not knowing where I am........
b i o n i c
06-08-2009, 09:18 AM
lol
go for dead. if you just met her, you got fuck all to lose. if she doesn't like it, turn it back on her, the trick.
b i o n i c
06-08-2009, 09:23 AM
maybe she wanted more immediacy, clearer signals. sounds a little jealous too.
go for dead. if you just met her, you got fuck all to lose. if she doesn't like it, turn it back on her, the trick.
Yeah, I'm kinda playing it uninterested at the mo. See if she comes to me. Doubt it but just seeing how it plays out.
monkey
06-08-2009, 09:33 AM
not for nothing, but dude, you're a lucky bastard. you've got girls all over you telling you you're hot, chicks want you. that chick wants you. trust. she just wants you to want her more, which is why she's acting like a fool. be like a pretty boy and flirt with all the girls :) and if a girl ever asks if you like some other chick, or if you find her pretty, the answer is ALWAYS "you're much prettier, you're much nicer, i like hanging out with you, blah blah blah". :p
not for nothing, but dude, you're a lucky bastard. you've got girls all over you telling you you're hot, chicks want you. that chick wants you. trust. she just wants you to want her more, which is why she's acting like a fool. be like a pretty boy and flirt with all the girls :) and if a girl ever asks if you like some other chick, or if you find her pretty, the answer is ALWAYS "you're much prettier, you're much nicer, i like hanging out with you, blah blah blah". :p
awww shucks :o
Not all chicks want me, I'm not that good!
But yeah she knows that I can play elsewhere, it's was pretty evident that she needed to know what I was doing with those other girls and what went on with the girl I pulled.
trailerprincess
06-08-2009, 10:23 AM
Am I the only one that thinks she sounds a bit unhinged/bonkers? Or maybe it's just licking lips and winking that I find a little odd.... Am v.wary of winkers. But yeah, otherwise, have fun and be merry.(y)
Schmeltz
06-08-2009, 10:41 AM
Call her bluff. It seems as though you're doing alright for yourself as a recent reintroduction to the market, so you have very little to lose here. If she wants to play the tease, I say raise the stakes.
PS - Fern is actually 49 and he was probably gunning for moms in the first place and ended up settling. Don't worry none bout him.
Am I the only one that thinks she sounds a bit unhinged/bonkers? Or maybe it's just licking lips and winking that I find a little odd.... Am v.wary of winkers. But yeah, otherwise, have fun and be merry.(y)
It's more her playing the fool tbh.
Call her bluff. It seems as though you're doing alright for yourself as a recent reintroduction to the market, so you have very little to lose here. If she wants to play the tease, I say raise the stakes.
PS - Fern is actually 49 and he was probably gunning for moms in the first place and ended up settling. Don't worry none bout him.
How should I raise the stakes?
by telling her you fucked the shit out of that blonde for like 5 hours and it could have been the best sex you've ever had.
by telling her you fucked the shit out of that blonde for like 5 hours and it could have been the best sex you've ever had.
(y) Well it was the first thing she asked me when we spoke on the phone. I do like how she had thought about it.
hpdrifter
06-08-2009, 11:16 AM
Tread lightly with this one, sounds like she could be another handful. Or do you like that?
She's definitely into you, though she's handling it like a high schooler.
You're having a good time. It's good that you are into someone new but take it slow.
Thats what I'm trying to figure out...is she actually into me or is it how she is with everyone?
She is very flirty with other guys too but for whatever reason I got more time on the field.
hpdrifter
06-08-2009, 11:35 AM
She probably just likes attention and needs validation. Sometimes really hot girls are the most insecure.
She likes to flirt but that doesn't necessarily mean that she couldn't be into you.
Next time you see her take charge of the situation and see what happens. My guess is she'll really like that.
Thats what I was thinking. I was wondering if she just really like the attention.
paul jones
06-08-2009, 11:41 AM
Take her for a chicken feast at Nandos.If she is a veggie then you can have her chicken(y)
And another thing, I should really start wearing condoms when fucking girls that I just met. I mean, I have one in me wallet, but apparently it is just an ornament because it never leads it's post. I get so mad at myself over that the next day all the time. :mad:
nodanaonlyzuul
06-08-2009, 11:42 AM
she just really like the attention.
ding.
hpdrifter
06-08-2009, 11:47 AM
But, like I said, that doesn't necessarily mean she couldn't be into you.
Take a shot the next time you see her, what do you have to lose?
Sounds like more trouble than she's worth to me but if you like her you like her.
I'm interested for sure but their is definitely a certain amount of reservation in it from me. Hmmmm might just wait and see if she gets back to me.
Echewta
06-08-2009, 12:03 PM
Go up to her, be straight forward, find out what she is thinking, move in or move on.
Take control, sounds like she would dig it.
Schmeltz
06-08-2009, 12:12 PM
How should I raise the stakes?
Next time you see her take charge of the situation and see what happens. My guess is she'll really like that.
Beautiful and smart. Take heed.
Beautiful and smart. Take heed.
And bloody married (n)
I kid I kid :D
Schmeltz
06-08-2009, 02:48 PM
All the best ones are taken, you know.
cookiepuss
06-08-2009, 05:26 PM
Almost all girls like attention. duh.
quit speculating and ask her out. the worst that can happen is she says no. the best that can happen is you get laid. it really is that simple. quit wasting time and find out which one it is, buddy.
paul jones
06-08-2009, 05:43 PM
the best that can happen is you get laid. .
or go for a nice pleasant stroll then a picnic on the beach then a slow motion running towards each other scene(y)
the kid has trouble pulling the trigger, but I fix that wth a ton of booze!
Freebasser
06-08-2009, 06:46 PM
the first thing she asked was 'did you fuck that blonde?'
And did you? ;)
ask yourself "what would bob do?" then do the opposite
here, for example, i would get embarassed and hide upon the first sign of affection so the correct answer would be to be a man about it
russhie
06-08-2009, 08:51 PM
It is entirely possible she asked out of curiosity, about the blonde. I've done the same thing before, but not because I particularly cared/had thought about it alot/was jealous. I just wanted to know if he'd slept with the girl he'd been with at the club, he answered, we fucked.
Dorothy Wood
06-09-2009, 12:29 AM
she's sounds annoying and immature. but you should/could probably fuck her.
but if you're looking for a relationship, the best girls don't play games like that.
haha whats with all this fucking malarky?!? :D
I actually quite like this girl :o
Lex Diamonds
06-09-2009, 09:56 AM
Pauli's advice is the best here so far. Most people giving advice here don't seem to have ever interacted with a member of the opposite sex.
Don't try and "raise the stakes" or play mind games or whatever. However much you like this chick the best thing you can do is not show it too much. Flirt with everything that moves. Flirt with her friends, flirt with people you meet at bars, flirt with your friends. Even the male ones. Once this chick realises how in demand you are she will be kicking your door in to get a slice of that sweet sweet Cam-embert. (y)
Pauli's advice is the best here so far. Most people giving advice here don't seem to have ever interacted with a member of the opposite sex.
Don't try and "raise the stakes" or play mind games or whatever. However much you like this chick the best thing you can do is not show it too much. flirt with everything that moves. Flirt with her friends, flirt with people you meet at bars, flirt with your friends. Even the male ones. Once this chick realises how in demand you are she will be kicking your door in to get a slice of that sweet sweet Cam-embert. (y)
Yeah thats how I'm playing. I snogged another girl which she saw and she was also staring over whilst I was interacting with another two on the same night.
I've got her number and I'm not texting her unless she texts me (which has been twice so far). Restraint!!!
I'm gonna swerve on the male flirting though, could ruin my whole week/make my hole weak. Don't want that.
Cam-pagne.
Lex Diamonds
06-09-2009, 10:04 AM
Cam-bozola?
monkey
06-09-2009, 10:05 AM
on the other hand, if you actually like the girl, it's mean to treat her like that. she might just not be into chasing you that hard. she might actually like you and you're kinda being a dick. if this is purely sexual and no feelings are involved, go on doin whatcha doin.
Lex Diamonds
06-09-2009, 10:05 AM
Once you get them into bed they fall in love though. At least in my experience.
ps
Now I can't stop thinking about cambozola. I wish I could afford cheese. :(
on the other hand, if you actually like the girl, it's mean to treat her like that. she might just not be into chasing you that hard. she might actually like you and you're kinda being a dick. if this is purely sexual and no feelings are involved, go on doin whatcha doin.
don't worry, I'm not in full ignore mode...I'm dropping looks and nice comments to her mates.
Planetary
06-09-2009, 10:22 AM
Tell her you hate her ;)
Been throwing that idea around. Is it too drastic to maybe display it in some sort of a self made scar across my chest?
Planetary
06-09-2009, 10:33 AM
Yeah id say so. Just beat the shit out of her she should get the message (y)
You fuckin' freak, I'd never hit a girl.
What should I do the scar with? Compass or scapel?
Planetary
06-09-2009, 10:41 AM
fine scar yourself, but i'm tellin you it's a stupid idea she'll think you're well weird...
But it's out there, chicks dig stuff like that. If I used a compass I could draw her face on my chest.
Planetary
06-09-2009, 10:48 AM
draw a picture of some balls on your chest with a compass instead. no doubt she'd swoon
I did it last time. I got a bit anal with the detail of all the veins and wrinkles and ended up losing too much blood to show up for a date :(
hpdrifter
06-09-2009, 11:04 AM
However much you like this chick the best thing you can do is not show it too much. Flirt with everything that moves. Flirt with her friends, flirt with people you meet at bars, flirt with your friends. Even the male ones. Once this chick realises how in demand you are she will be kicking your door in to get a slice of that sweet sweet Cam-embert. (y)
And this is somehow not playing mind games?
And this is somehow not playing mind games?
yeah it seems kind of shitty. like if i were interested in a girl but saw her flirting/making out with loads of other dudes i'd say "oh, well, i guess she's not interested then" and i'd go home and cry myself to sleep, i probably wouldn't chase her even harder. not that i'm the chasing type to begin with
maybe the rules are different for women i don't know
hpdrifter
06-09-2009, 02:24 PM
I don't think the rules are different for women. I maintain that being direct is the best course of action but camo gotta do what he gotta do.
she's handling it like a high schooler.
Word. Sounds like that's how she wants to be treated too. Games and all.
what? so now I text her? :confused:
Dorothy Wood
06-09-2009, 06:01 PM
just call her up and ask her on a date. f all this text business.
hpdrifter
06-09-2009, 06:18 PM
You're overthinking. If you want to text her text her.
It's annual do-what-you-feel day.
russhie
06-09-2009, 10:12 PM
Small games can be heaps of fun, but pretending you're not interested in them/pointedly being affectionate with other people is just dopey. Any girl worth having won't cop that sort of shit and just won't bother - if you like her, heaps of other dudes probably think she's bomb as well.
Every guy I meet is different and the ones I respond to best in the long term are the ones that don't fuck me around. They say they're interested and back that up by calling when they said they would, seeing me when they said they would, the occasional text to see how I am and not making eyes at my mates/that really hot girl over by the bar.
The ones that feign disinterest, are aloof and unavailable are fun for a few weeks, but the games get boring, there's only so long you can both maintain that level of 'disinterest' and pretence that you're wildly popular with the opposite sex. Which is not so bad for a casual thing but if you're actually interested - why would you set yourself up for a whole bunch of game playing bullshit at the start?
trailerprincess
06-10-2009, 03:55 AM
Just make a decision either way. Or you could tell her she's been the subject of a long winding, predominantly pointless internet thread and then she'll let you know either way!
Just make a decision either way. Or you could tell her she's been the subject of a long winding, predominantly pointless internet thread and then she'll let you know either way!
haha shut up sarky! :D
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