I'm in a bit of a pickle...

[Caribou]

As you might've read, there's this girl I know from University who I became friends with and later on started behaving like a bitch. She invited herself along to everything and always only flirts with my male friends. She doesn't even talk to me or my bff/her flatmate, but only acts stupid and giggly and flirty with my friends who she has only briefly seen once before. She also 'scored' one of them and dumped him the day after and told my bff that 'it was ok as long as she kept her eyes closed' and that she thought he was kinda lame. At the same time she still keeps seeing her ex-boyfriend, one of her flatmates, random guys she met on the train, a classmate and numerous other guys. And 'strangely' she always picks the guys who arn't that experienced and are happy with any female attention, takes their virginity and then dumps them and talks shit about them. It's not cool to do that to people and most definitely not to my friends!
Also she bitches about everyone who disagrees with her, including one of my friend's younger sister (to said friend. Not a very wise move.)

Aaaanyway, today she burst in when I was at work and busy helping a customer. She said 'hey, can you get me a discount' and when I told her no, because I could get in trouble, she said 'oh bummer' and just left.

I was so pissed off I sent her a message saying that "I've had it with her and that she only seems to be using me for her own benefit. She always invites herself, only to try to get with my friends, and EVERYONE has noticed. "Don't even think about using my friends. Not only do you make a fool of yourself, when you do this again and hurt my friends you'll get a very angry Anouk + crew after you."

She then replied that she didn't really know what to say to me and that I was probably right, but that she really isn't trying to profit from me or my friends. She just really liked my friends and liked hanging out with them. She knows she invites herself and can be quite pushy, and won't do it anymore. If I and my friendgroup don't want her, she'll leave it at this. "I'm sorry and have a good evening".

Now I feel quite bad. I don't want to be a mean bitch, but so many things have happened over the last couple of months that I just don't know what to think anymore. All of my friends now feel uncomfortable and annoyed when she's around and she seems to be driving a wedge between us. I'm wondering if she is trying to make me feel sorry by playing innocent, or if she really is so incredibly clueless.
(For instance, a couple of months ago, after she heavily flirted with 2 of my best male friends on one evening, she said to my bff/her flatmate that I'd probably hate her now. But why would she think that if she's done nothing wrong?)

I don't know what to do now. Being a meanie is not my thing. Maybe I should just sit down and have a proper chat with her, because she can be very sweet if it's just the two of us. But maybe the sweetness is a facade. Aaargh, damn my kind heart.

:(

[Rock]

Don't waste your time with her, just like I wasted my time reading this thread.

I kid I kid.

[Randetica]

stab that whore!

[hpdrifter]

Sounds like more trouble than she's worth. I have a friend who drives me nuts most of the time but, like a child, when chastised he's better... for awhile. But it never lasts and it's the same shit over and over and over.

[Echewta]

Sounds like you said what you needed to, she responded by saying she wont do it again and you move on.

I don't see what the pickle is or even the bit of the pickle.

Move along. You don't have to worry about her and your friends should be your friends and stickup for you if she says anything.

Is she hot though because I'm virgin.

[Caribou]

She's skinny, has little boobies and a bit of a sour face. And according to a friend's british cousin 'She looks like a psycho'.

The main problem is that I have to see her everyday in class and that she lives with my best friend, so when I visit her, I have to deal with the bitch, as she's always hanging around in the kitchen, waiting for attention.
I'm just not good at being mean, because it makes me feel guilty.

She also has a whole bunch of DVD boxes of mine that she had for a while and which I would like back. While she always makes a list of who borrows what and gets annoyed if they don't return it quick enough. meh.

[paul jones]

just call her a sour faced fried egg tiitied stick insect who smells then run away(y)

[nodanaonlyzuul]

Sounds like more trouble than she's worth. I have a friend who drives me nuts most of the time but, like a child, when chastised he's better... for awhile. But it never lasts and it's the same shit over and over and over.

this.

If you have mutual friends/you'll see her regularly, just keep her at a distance. Don't make an effort to tell her what you are up to, share your things with her, nothing. If she HAPPENS to be around fine, but you don't have to let her know about it anything.

[Caribou]

That's what I tried to do for the past month or so, I hardly ever started a conversation with her, but she usually overhears someone saying that we're going somewhere and then she's all 'oh cool, you're going to *insert festival*? I'm coming too!'. I can't forbid her to go to a gig. A private party would be a different story, but free festivals are public and it's a free country and blahblah.
I just don't understand how someone can really miss the hint so much. If I got the feeling that people might not like me, I wouldn't invite myself. Ever.
Oh well, I think she got the hint this time.

[Echewta]

Why are little boobs a bad thing?

[checkyourprez]

Why are little boobs a bad thing?

be serious with that statement bro.

[Echewta]

I am serious with that question. She was discribed as having little boobs like they were a bad thing.

[PENisland]

I am serious with that question. She was discribed as having little boobs like they were a bad thing.

little boobs = faster track times

[Caribou]

Why are little boobs a bad thing?

I didn't say it was a bad thing, minr arn't that big either, but you asked for a discription.