View Full Version : best friend :(
beastieboysbaby
07-19-2009, 10:35 PM
i can't hang out with my best friend anymore....
this sucks :confused:
cubsfirstplace
07-19-2009, 11:39 PM
did they die?
beastieboysbaby
07-19-2009, 11:52 PM
nopeeeeeeeeeeee. her mama thinks i'm 'bad' so she can't hang out with me.
WTF!
Videodrome
07-19-2009, 11:53 PM
what's the real story? you guys got busted sneaking out?
Documad
07-19-2009, 11:54 PM
Are you bad?
beastieboysbaby
07-19-2009, 11:59 PM
i've smoked weed a couple of times.
or more.
that's pretty much it.
cubsfirstplace
07-20-2009, 12:14 AM
i've smoked weed a couple of times.
or more.
that's pretty much it.
pff. are they super relgious or something?
and a couple of times or more? haha is that code for 4 times a day?
beastieboysbaby
07-20-2009, 12:31 AM
no they aren't at all!
and my best friend (rainey)...her sister taylor was just like me when she was my age...
AKA. rebellious
ANYWAYS. rainey's mom called my mom and told her that she went through tha same thing as me with raineys sister.
so idk why she's being so harsh on me?
cubsfirstplace
07-20-2009, 12:46 AM
wow that sucks. what a stupid reason to lose a best friend over. maybe just tell your friends mom that you were just experimenting with weed and that you don't do it anymore. and if you still want to smoke go ahead but don't get caught.
beastieboysbaby
07-20-2009, 12:50 AM
rainey just doesn't make sense.
first she wanted to smoke weed with me.
then she turns on me and makes it out like i'm all bad since i do it.
thennnnnnnnn she tells me she doesn't care if i do, just don't get hurt or whatever..something like that.
now i can't even hang out with her cause she obviously talked bad about me to her mom so that she doesn't like me?
i wish i didn't like weed so much :(
Dorothy Wood
07-20-2009, 01:09 AM
you're too young to be doing drugs. but nobody can really stop you I guess.
just keep your grades up, don't neglect your responsibilities, and think about why you want to choose weed over your best friend. ask yourself what's more important to you and why?
you can seriously save yourself a lot of hassle by being smart about the "bad" things you and most every other teenager want to do. if you don't learn to control yourself, everyone else will try to control you.
funk63
07-20-2009, 01:55 AM
Rainey is a cool name.
how is smoking weed rebellious?
Randetica
07-20-2009, 10:07 AM
theres a simpsons episode about this topic
beastieboysbaby
07-20-2009, 11:10 AM
how is smoking weed rebellious?
i didn't mean it like that. lol, my bad.
beastieboysbaby
07-20-2009, 11:12 AM
you're too young to be doing drugs. but nobody can really stop you I guess.
just keep your grades up, don't neglect your responsibilities, and think about why you want to choose weed over your best friend. ask yourself what's more important to you and why?
you can seriously save yourself a lot of hassle by being smart about the "bad" things you and most every other teenager want to do. if you don't learn to control yourself, everyone else will try to control you.
i do keep up with my grades and everything. i clean around tha house. i do what i should. but i DID NOT choose weed over rainey!!! no no no. even if i did stop, rainey's mom would still have me labeled as 'bad'. but it's not like i smoked weed behind her back. she knew i did it. and she told me she didn't care...but after a while she went behind my back and told her mom bad stuff about me or something. idk.
YoungRemy
07-20-2009, 11:40 AM
you've let pot define you at such a young age, you need to not let pot be your "thing".
otherwise you are just going to be the pothead chick to other girls and their parents.
and with guys, you'll get even more confusion, you'll be the friend who all the guys can get high with but when it's time to get intimate you're going to be left in the dust...
it doesn't matter how good you are at rolling joints, it doesn't matter if you like Bob Marley and think you are a Rasta, it doesn't matter if you think the Kottonmouth Kings connect with you on a deeper spiritual level.
"Cause I Don't Play That I Know Who I Am
For A Minute I Did But Now I'm Back Again
I'm Feeling Strong See Trust Myself G
Well I Stopped Smoking Cheeba And That Was Part Of The Key"
just don't let it be your only thing...
Dorothy Wood
07-20-2009, 12:39 PM
i do keep up with my grades and everything. i clean around tha house. i do what i should. but i DID NOT choose weed over rainey!!! no no no. even if i did stop, rainey's mom would still have me labeled as 'bad'. but it's not like i smoked weed behind her back. she knew i did it. and she told me she didn't care...but after a while she went behind my back and told her mom bad stuff about me or something. idk.
well, that's good to hear. maybe you and rainey just need some time apart or something. I think it will be okay. maybe you should ask her why her mom thinks you're "bad".
when I was young, my friends parents didn't like me very much because they thought I was a bad influence. I didn't do drugs or drink or anything, and I don't know exactly why they thought I was "bad"...I think I was just less obedient or something.
just give it some time, if you guys are truly best friends, you'll get through this.
hpdrifter
07-20-2009, 01:03 PM
Well, sweetheart, look at the facts. You sneak out in the middle of the night to meet up with older guys and you smoke herb. If I had a teenage daughter I probably wouldn't want her to hang out with you either. Not that I'd be that draconian about it but still. She's being harsh on you because she doesn't want to go through the same thing with daughter number 2 that she went through with daughter number 1.
And if Rainey told her these things maybe Rainey isn't comfortable with them and that's okay at her age.
Of course, I was a pretty square teenager. I didn't drink/date/makeout/have sex/do anything until my second semester at college and even then I took it slow. At the time it felt lame but looking back I couldn't be more grateful.
Planetary
07-20-2009, 01:09 PM
i've smoked weed a couple of times.
or more.
that's pretty much it.
you make me fuckin sick
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