anybody ever get married super fast?

[Dorothy Wood]

I just found out my friend got married on monday after asking a girl on sunday. totally wacky shit man. the weirdest part is that he dated a girl for 3 years before, who dumped him because he wasn't ready to marry her. then she started dating one of my good friends and they got married like a year after they started dating.

I feel like I'm living in an episode of Friends.

[Justin]

I personally wouldn't recommend marriage to anyone

[paul jones]

I feel like I'm living in an episode of Friends.


hey let's go get loaded up on cawfee in Central Perks then pretend to be funny(y)

[Dorothy Wood]

okay, but I get to be Chandler. You can be Rachel.

[paul jones]

okay, but I get to be Chandler. You can be Rachel.

No problem but I'll have to shave this 2 week beard off first

[Miho]

I would never do that, but my parents got married after a few weeks or months of meeting, forgot which it was now, but this was back in the old country. My dad was from Albania, and my mom was in Greece, and my dad had come to Greece, and married. Back then, that's how marriages were done, arranged marriages, if you will.

[Guy Incognito]

kind of.. in that i was with my wife 4 years before we got married but when i asked her it was all done within a month. so not super fast. we decided to get wed after going to a massive wedding that had taken 3 years to plan and we thought that was the polar opposite of what we wanted. in fact both of us had said we werent really bothered until we started talking about how we could do it quick and cheap! i asked her then got the rings that week, booked the registry office and then it was all done 2 weeks later. its my 4th anniversary next week.


oh and bagsy not gunther.

[RobMoney$]

I personally wouldn't recommend marriage to anyone


This is the appropriate answer.

[trailerprincess]

I have a feeling my folks got engaged after about 3 months and married soon after that.

[beastiegirrl101]

My old neighbors exchanged "i love yous" the first night they met, he moved in with her the very next day and they have been together ever since. I went to their wedding 2 years ago....fastest moving relationship ever. I guess when you know, you know....

[Randetica]

i would marry any guy quickly who doesnt treat me like total shit

[b i o n i c]

any guy who knows you would marry any guy quickly would treat you like total shit

[jabumbo]

trailerprincess and i are getting married next weekend in the caymans

[trailerprincess]

trailerprincess and i are getting married next weekend in the caymans

Shhhhh! It was supposed to be a secret....

[Randetica]

any guy who knows you would marry any guy quickly would treat you like total shit

:confused:

[laura]

trailerprincess and i are getting married next weekend in the caymansShhhhh! It was supposed to be a secret.... ... and I didnt get invited?!!??!!??? :eek:


in any case I wish I'll never get married...

[TAL]

trailerprincess and i are getting married next weekend in the caymans

Shhhhh! It was supposed to be a secret....

Don't marry him, fuck me.

[Echewta]

People who think marriage is bad just haven't found the right person or seen the right relationship.

I'm divorced but still wouldn't trade in having been married. I was married to a great person.

Our marriage took about an hour which i'm assuming is normal speed.

[Randetica]

People who think marriage is bad just haven't found the right person or seen the right relationship.


word.

[bgirl forever!!]

People who think marriage is bad just haven't found the right person or seen the right relationship.

I'm divorced but still wouldn't trade in having been married. I was married to a great person.

Our marriage took about an hour which i'm assuming is normal speed.

Damn, so sorry to hear that.

I have a friend who got married after knowing a girl for only eleven days. Pretty fuckin' stupid if you ask me. I don't see that lasting.
You don't know someone after only eleven days. Once the "honeymoon" wears off, I bet they'll regret their choice. I lived with my husband for five years before we got married. I would have married him after three years, but I guess he wasn't ready yet.

[jabumbo]

Don't marry him, fuck me.


that's not very brotherly advice of you, thomas! (!)

[Randetica]

that's not very brotherly advice of you, thomas! (!)

compromise, you marry her but he can fuck her whenever he wants

[Adam]

I used to love Beautiful South

I would get married fast, I've thought about it recently as some things just seem sooooooooo right - but the sensible part in me would probably just stop me to make sure this is a good idea.

[TAL]

Thank you for recognizing the quote.

[nodanaonlyzuul]

I was in a relationship for almost 4 years and thought I wanted to marry him immediately but it never happened. I thank the lord it didn't!

Some folks haven't learned about themselves and what they are looking for. I was definitely one of those. If you don't really know/haven't learned those lessons and marry the first or second person you've ever dated... that always seems like a bad idea.

I learned many lessons to apply to my now GOOD relationship. I'm still young, considering (25 and all). But I did my share of dating and relationships that when I met my current boyfriend it just felt right, to both of us. It fell naturally in to place and it feels like we are right where we need to be: with each other.

Even though we think we are such a fantastic match and that we should be married one day, there don't feel the need to get married so fast.

If we already know that we are right for each other, what does it matter if we wait a while? We don't see the need to do so NOW. Especially when I want to finish school still, and I'd like to have a higher paying job to be able to pay for the wedding I want :p

No rush here. We're just happy.

[cosmo105]

I'm right there with Crystal. I think my boyfriend and I knew pretty soon, within about a month or so of dating, just what was up. I didn't even want to date someone seriously, but with him, it was just - oh. That's it. That's the one for me. Within a few more we both knew, this is pretty much it. I'd had a couple of other relationships that lasted a few years, that it just never really felt like were going to go there. I'm glad I waited and am an adult (sort of) now and can make that decision when I'm ready. It'll happen when it's meant to happen.

I had a close friend growing up who met a girl (the day after she dumped her fiance of several years), proposed to her within a few days, and they got married two weeks after meeting (on the day she was supposed to marry the first guy). we all took bets on their demise and were amazed that it lasted several years. until she cheated on him one too many times and they got divorced (y)

[Bob]

if things don't change for me i'm probably gonna marry the first girl i lay

[cosmo105]

and she's gonna treat you like shit

[ericlee]

if things don't change for me i'm probably gonna marry the first girl i lay

Just save yourself till you're 50 if that's the case. IMO, it's probably the most idealistic marriage age.

[ms.peachy]

and she's gonna treat you like shit

I disagree. I have a good friend who was a virgin until the age of 29, married the first woman he slept with and they now have been married for, oh, gotta be about 13 years now, have 3 gorgeous kids, and are the most loved-up adorable family you can imagine. Completely devoted to eachother.

[skra75]

I have before, I don't recommend it.
My fiancee and I have decided to take our time this time around. It feels good to plan things the way we want them without feeling rushed. A wedding should be a fun time, not a fucking pain in the ass. I'm happy that it's turning out to be a pretty cool experience. And I'm picky as shit.

[Randetica]

I disagree. I have a good friend who was a virgin until the age of 29, married the first woman he slept with and they now have been married for, oh, gotta be about 13 years now, have 3 gorgeous kids, and are the most loved-up adorable family you can imagine. Completely devoted to eachother.

thats how i want my life to be exept that i dont want to wait 3 more years

[b i o n i c]

id be a little wary about marrying a virgin, like she might feel like she missed out or something and would end up wanting to experiment later - which could be understandble but not really what im looking for. is that bad?


ive found that the beginnings of relationships often dictate how they end if they end.

i know coupla people who got married fast and got divorced just as fast

[Randetica]

whores think like that!

i never cared to fuck around

[cosmo105]

I disagree. I have a good friend who was a virgin until the age of 29, married the first woman he slept with and they now have been married for, oh, gotta be about 13 years now, have 3 gorgeous kids, and are the most loved-up adorable family you can imagine. Completely devoted to eachother.

I was just completing Bob's movie quote. :)

[Kid Presentable]

I get kinda bored with people paying so much attention to what other people do with their lives.

[cosmo105]

But then I wouldn't have anyone to make fun of :(

[Kid Presentable]

I paid total attention to that, you win. (n)

[nodanaonlyzuul]

we should be married one day, there don't feel the need to get married so fast.

we don't* not there don't... not sure how I made that typo :|

But anyhow, *highfive* to cosmo.

We are seriously rocking the "having the best boyfriends in the world" badge right now.

[Echewta]

I'd be ok if I never got that badge.

[cosmo105]

good, because all we have left are "oldest musty fart" badges

[Bob]

I was just completing Bob's movie quote. :)

(y)