View Full Version : it's wrong, but I don't wanna be right
Dorothy Wood
08-14-2009, 02:18 AM
blergh.
so, I've been talking about this dude for years on here. he is older than me, he has a girlfriend, but I was/am in love with him and yadda yadda barf town.
anyway, I decided last minute to go see the breeders with some girlfriends that already had tickets, but I got there about an hour before to see if it was sold out and blah blah, it wasn't, and if I'd have bought a ticket, I'd have had to go in by myself and wait for like an hour or so for my buds. so I decided to just walk around the neighborhood and look at the book store and then the record store...where, the guy, Nathan (as I have called him in the past) works. I walked past and thought I saw him, then walked past again all shady like and he was gone. so I tell myself, "eh, just go in there, get an onion for the waiting time". so I did. and then he was there, and I pretended he wasn't. but then it became too much so I was like, "psst", and he was like, "omg, I was just thinking about you". and this lady was all, "im a customer, I need some stuff", and to me he was like, "don't leave". so I didn't.
and anyway after he was done with that lady, he was like small talk small talk, I miss our mutual friend who moved away and by the way, my girlfriend moved away too and she's gone for a year and a half.
so I was all, oh, totally normal, but inside screaming. and so, he said he can't believe I walked in after he was just thinking about me, and to let him know how the show went.
so, now's my chance, right? I want to do something terrible.
paul jones
08-14-2009, 02:35 AM
go get some(y)
Documad
08-14-2009, 02:49 AM
Did the girlfriend move away but she's still the girlfriend? What's the story there?
Did you see the Breeders? How were they?
Michelle*s_Farm
08-14-2009, 02:55 AM
Did the girlfriend move away but she's still the girlfriend? What's the story there?
Did you see the Breeders? How were they?
I think she plans to do some boyfriend stealin'. I am curious as well how was the Breeders show?
Whatitis
08-14-2009, 03:08 AM
The Breeders! Sweet!
Breed!....or pretend to.
Dorothy Wood
08-14-2009, 01:28 PM
Did the girlfriend move away but she's still the girlfriend? What's the story there?
Did you see the Breeders? How were they?
she's going to grad school a couple states away. I don't know what the story is, I just know that he wanted to tell me about it. because we are in love with each other, or in love with the idea of each other. he literally started sweating when we were talking. this thing has been going on for 4 years. once I avoided him for over a year and when I saw him again, he was like, "long time no see" and I said, "yeah, it's been awhile" and he was like, "yup, 1 year and 2 months." and then there was the time he was DJing and I was dancing with my friends and he walked out toward me singing along to the song and grabbed me and sang in my ear, the lyrics, "we're in love".
*pukes*
anyway, the breeders were awesome! I almost cried every time they started playing something from Last Splash. that was my angsty teenage jam right there.
Just hook up with him. Let him worry about his girlfriend - he wouldn't hook up with you if it was a REAL issue. Doesn't mean he doesn't love her or whatever, just wants a piece of your ass.
As long as you don't end up back at his place two bottle of wine down and he starts crying about his girlfriend and gets some pictures out. In that instance you should probably commit hari kiri.
wait a minute; THe Breeders still play???
apparently they do and they'll be playing in my neck of the woods next week. shit nigga, i'll probably go. two nights too!
Dorothy Wood
08-14-2009, 02:48 PM
Just hook up with him. Let him worry about his girlfriend - he wouldn't hook up with you if it was a REAL issue. Doesn't mean he doesn't love her or whatever, just wants a piece of your ass.
As long as you don't end up back at his place two bottle of wine down and he starts crying about his girlfriend and gets some pictures out. In that instance you should probably commit hari kiri.
wait, what do you mean by "REAL issue"?
b i o n i c
08-14-2009, 03:08 PM
meaning he would do anything if it really was a problem to him
just grab his ass and see what happens
MC Moot
08-14-2009, 03:18 PM
I think Dorothy's life would make an awesome daily comic strip...like Rex Morgan M.D style...(y)
Dorothy Wood
08-14-2009, 03:57 PM
meaning he would do anything if it really was a problem to him
just grab his ass and see what happens
what? I still don't understand. sorry, my brain is broken today.
I can't grab his ass, that is silly! he knows I like him, I know he likes me. I'm not going to steal him with ass grabbing, that is rude. we have to hang out and be friends and then he can realize we should be together and dump his girlfriend. OR! better yet, she'll fall in love with a professor at grad school and dump him.
I don't know, I should probably just crawl back into the woodwork. :(
I did give him my phone number and kinda sorta asked him if he wanted to hang out though, so we'll see what happens. probably nothing. I am an asshole. I did it via facebook message, hopefully his girlfriend isn't a snoop. or maybe she should see it. crap. I suck.
What I meant was if he's going to cheat he's going to cheat and that is not your concern.
What are you after? A bit of P in V or some kind of relationship?
If the former then a bit of drunk ass grabbing is the best way to win a man's penis. If the latter then... that's what teenage magazines are for.
Dorothy Wood
08-14-2009, 04:48 PM
What I meant was if he's going to cheat he's going to cheat and that is not your concern.
What are you after? A bit of P in V or some kind of relationship?
If the former then a bit of drunk ass grabbing is the best way to win a man's penis. If the latter then... that's what teenage magazines are for.
haaa, I don't need to complicate a man's life just because I want some weiner. he's not even that attractive. he's a tubby balding man in his mid 30's. he does have gorgeous blue eyes and is an excellent guitar player though.
we held hands once, in a taxi cab.
truth be told, I want to marry him. but realistically I just want him to be single so that we can see if there's something real between us or if it's just in our heads.
I dunno, I used to be all torn up about this stuff, but I'm not really now, it's just been going on for so long. it's just one of those things I guess. it's just weird how I randomly started listening to the breeders again, then my friend was like, "I'm going to see the breeders tonight" and I was like, "wha?" and then that led me to seeing Nathan who was coincidentally thinking about me before I got there.
I'm being stupid. I think I've been watching Lost too much.
monkey
08-14-2009, 05:04 PM
i think that if he was into you more than he loved his gf, he would break up with his gf to be with you. unless he doesnt think you like him at all.
so maybe it wouldn't hurt to tell him you find him delicious, but i frown upon any and all boyfriend stealing. a proper dude wouldn't do something to intentionally hurt his significant other's feelings.
:)
Dorothy Wood
08-14-2009, 05:44 PM
i think that if he was into you more than he loved his gf, he would break up with his gf to be with you. unless he doesnt think you like him at all.
so maybe it wouldn't hurt to tell him you find him delicious, but i frown upon any and all boyfriend stealing. a proper dude wouldn't do something to intentionally hurt his significant other's feelings.
:)
well, I don't really know where he stands now. I could only surmise from the sweating and the fact that he was thinking about me for no good reason, that he still has feelings for me.
I just know that when it started, he was considering breaking up with his girlfriend over me. and his friends were in favor of it. but he was also scared to lose her because he loves her and didn't want to break her heart. and I was just this mystery person with no guarantees. so he stayed with her. 4 years later and we still have a spark between us though. I had pretty much resolved to leave it at that and move on with my life, but with this new development and the psychic connection shit...I can't help wondering if it's meant...to be...or something. damn it, that sounds so dumb, I need to stop watching Lost for real.
Sounds like he:confused: needs to grow a pair and go after what he really wants.
Dorothy Wood
08-14-2009, 06:23 PM
Sounds like he:confused: needs to grow a pair and go after what he really wants.
ya, I think the problem is he doesn't actually know what he wants.
all I can do now is wait and put myself in a position to be around him more often somehow. and look cute while doing so.
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