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nodanaonlyzuul
01-29-2010, 02:40 PM
I am not a very patient person, especially when dealing with people. I always remain calm in the moment and am polite, but inside I feel like smacking a ho.

I don't understand why some people don't understand very simple things, be it an explanation or requests. Especially when it goes back and forth several times to the point that I end up having to spell things out literally, and/or talk them through every single detail in excruciatingly simple terms as if they have the logic capabilities of a 4 year old.

Perhaps it's because I'm dealing with adults that are in managerial positions thus my patience is thin if I have to go through that with them every single time I have to work with them.

After I get over being irritated though I usually feel guilty for getting irritated in the first place. I really should have more patience with people if I'm going to stay sane.

I also think because I started new pills a few weeks ago I'm feeling especially moody, so that doesn't help. :|

Fern
01-29-2010, 02:52 PM
stop bitching ....

nodanaonlyzuul
01-29-2010, 02:56 PM
I will cut you.

Fern
01-29-2010, 03:49 PM
you're mexican so I believe it. Broken bottle or razorblade?

synch
01-29-2010, 03:54 PM
Broken razorblade.

Echewta
01-29-2010, 04:43 PM
Good thing you aren't a doctor or you would have to look for another career.

rirv
01-29-2010, 05:03 PM
I couldn't be bothered reading all that. Summary?

Adam
01-29-2010, 05:06 PM
I couldn't be bothered reading all that. Summary?

I'll summarise:
tldr

nodanaonlyzuul
01-29-2010, 06:32 PM
chew, I disagree:

some people don't understand very simple things ... I'm dealing with adults that are in managerial positions

If anyone below that level doesn't understand I am happy to explain because usually they don't know how things work.

But the managers? They should know better. :p

synch
01-29-2010, 06:42 PM
You overestimate managers.

I should know.

jabumbo
01-29-2010, 07:40 PM
estimator managers are the worst ones

Echewta
01-29-2010, 08:22 PM
The Managernator3000 is what I fear in my dreams most.

Randetica
01-29-2010, 11:04 PM
same

like when i tell my mum something and she didnt understand it right away i usually get pretty damn loud when i have to repeat myself

i honestly dont want a bf who has no patience, it would be my soon death