russhie
04-07-2010, 07:52 AM
Way back when I was 15 this guy in highschool liked me. Alot.
Without making it a hugely long story, I had a boyfriend, and even if I hadn't, there was no way in hell I'd ever have hooked up with him. He got weird about things, gave me small gifts, told my best friend how much he liked me, drew pictures of "us" together (traced pictures of say, the two adult Dalmations from 101 Dalmations touching noses with lovehearts around them) so needless to say my boyfriend wasn't happy and I was creeped out. We stopped being friends at my insistence.
He started saying weird shit like how I looked like Joey from Dawsons, how he loved that show for that reason, and that he'd masturbate after the show because she was so much like me. The kicker came when gave my friend a love note he wrote for me, with a drawing on the back of himself jerking off in the shower - and at that point even my friend cut off communication with him. We were like 16 or 17 and creeped out as fuck.
We all had ICQ so he started creating fake identities (as many as half a dozen) after I blocked him, and each time I found out he'd get madder and madder with me - one afternoon my little sister got mad at me, told me he was a nice guy and demanded to know why I was such a bitch to him...I found out he'd secretly been speaking to her, telling her lies, and had basically brainwashed her into thinking I had some sort of unfounded vendetta against him. So, I told him that if he ever spoke to myself or a member of my family again I'd go to the police. He responded by calling me a "two dollar whore" that nobody liked, blah blah. I figured he hated me and it was done.
Nope. He hacked my email account, and when I found out, he got a friend of his to email me on behalf of him, saying he'd kill me and members of my family if I didn't date him. I remember his friend sending pictures of himself looking menacing (well, as menacing as a schoolboy in uniform can be) and later he admitted he wasn't going to do a thing - he lived in a whole other state. Anyway, my main point is, this guy was pretty unhinged for a teenager, and the last I'd heard from him was that he was going to make it big in America and I'd be sorry I turned him down and that I'd crawl back to him, begging to be with him, but I'm just a whore, blah blah...whatever.
I got facebook, he found me. Since then, he's requested my friendship which I've turned down 3 times. He also sends me messages periodically, saying I "look good...far as (he) can see" asking what I'm doing, please add him, do I remember him, etc.
I just got another message after more than a whole year of silence. It's pretty harmless when considered in context with the other stuff he's said/done, but this is it for me. I'm fucking creeped out, this shit has been going on for MORE THAN TEN YEARS and it's a pattern that keeps repeating itself (though far less extreme) in relationships I've had since...I'm tired of it and I want him to just go away. It's odd that something so harmless turns out to be the straw that breaks the camel's back but I just want it to end...I've made myself clear so many times, I want to weep with frustration! He scares me :(
What do I do now?
Without making it a hugely long story, I had a boyfriend, and even if I hadn't, there was no way in hell I'd ever have hooked up with him. He got weird about things, gave me small gifts, told my best friend how much he liked me, drew pictures of "us" together (traced pictures of say, the two adult Dalmations from 101 Dalmations touching noses with lovehearts around them) so needless to say my boyfriend wasn't happy and I was creeped out. We stopped being friends at my insistence.
He started saying weird shit like how I looked like Joey from Dawsons, how he loved that show for that reason, and that he'd masturbate after the show because she was so much like me. The kicker came when gave my friend a love note he wrote for me, with a drawing on the back of himself jerking off in the shower - and at that point even my friend cut off communication with him. We were like 16 or 17 and creeped out as fuck.
We all had ICQ so he started creating fake identities (as many as half a dozen) after I blocked him, and each time I found out he'd get madder and madder with me - one afternoon my little sister got mad at me, told me he was a nice guy and demanded to know why I was such a bitch to him...I found out he'd secretly been speaking to her, telling her lies, and had basically brainwashed her into thinking I had some sort of unfounded vendetta against him. So, I told him that if he ever spoke to myself or a member of my family again I'd go to the police. He responded by calling me a "two dollar whore" that nobody liked, blah blah. I figured he hated me and it was done.
Nope. He hacked my email account, and when I found out, he got a friend of his to email me on behalf of him, saying he'd kill me and members of my family if I didn't date him. I remember his friend sending pictures of himself looking menacing (well, as menacing as a schoolboy in uniform can be) and later he admitted he wasn't going to do a thing - he lived in a whole other state. Anyway, my main point is, this guy was pretty unhinged for a teenager, and the last I'd heard from him was that he was going to make it big in America and I'd be sorry I turned him down and that I'd crawl back to him, begging to be with him, but I'm just a whore, blah blah...whatever.
I got facebook, he found me. Since then, he's requested my friendship which I've turned down 3 times. He also sends me messages periodically, saying I "look good...far as (he) can see" asking what I'm doing, please add him, do I remember him, etc.
I just got another message after more than a whole year of silence. It's pretty harmless when considered in context with the other stuff he's said/done, but this is it for me. I'm fucking creeped out, this shit has been going on for MORE THAN TEN YEARS and it's a pattern that keeps repeating itself (though far less extreme) in relationships I've had since...I'm tired of it and I want him to just go away. It's odd that something so harmless turns out to be the straw that breaks the camel's back but I just want it to end...I've made myself clear so many times, I want to weep with frustration! He scares me :(
What do I do now?