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RoryMC
10-25-2010, 02:50 AM
How's you?
mikizee
10-25-2010, 03:03 AM
Yeah ok.
Not bad, split up with new girlfriend last night. She thinks I'm some sort of alcoholic junkie. I'm not.
The truth is, I can't decide which I am, alcoholic or junkie. Certainly not both.
RoryMC
10-25-2010, 03:13 AM
Ooh, drama. Rehab, Adam?
Good to hear you're ok, mikizee.
Rehab, Adam?
Yeah maybe, she said "she will help as a friend to come off drugs". Been seeing each other, what, 3 weeks? its not like it was serious yet so I did the old "its not you, its me" speech.
Totally respect her tho, we all have our dislikes of habits and its not some bullshit I'm prepared to work through right now so it had to end :) Then I went home and smoked a bowl.
RobMoney$
10-25-2010, 07:35 AM
You chose weed over pussy and then you thought that was something that you should share publicly?
Maybe its time to take a good look at your priorities bro...
Dude, its not like we're crazy in love and its a make or break situation.
Its more (paraphrased);
me "this is who I am"
her "this is who I am"
me "well, I respect your point of view and I don't want to hurt your further down the line but right now I am content with my drinking and smoking"
her "well that is cool, thanks for being honest"
me "we can at least be friends right?"
her "yes"
me "sweet"
<make out goodbye>
If three weeks into a relationship you're changing yourself to fit round her hang ups, then I think you're being seriously weak with your convictions, bro...
;)
RobMoney$
10-25-2010, 09:55 AM
Yeah, if you consider smoking weed or getting high a "conviction" and you're over the age of like 23, than you've got a lot of growing up to do.
Not trying to start static, just trying to give you a different perspective.
hehe, ok.
WWTDD What would the dude do?
I think you're misunderstanding me. We mutually split up. She has her issues of drinking on a school night and smoking pot every now and then. Its not me to be that straight laced, I've known church goers looser. I still work, pay my rent, I'm not in debt, still see my friends. The relationship wasn't going to work and to string a long such a young girl (21) into thinking it might as she made me give up pot forever would be a pretty low thing to do just to get 'pussy' imho. Because I'm not giving up, I've given up for girlfriends before, its fine but they'll always be a point where you take something at some party, she'll find out and it'll be like the biggest scandal since watergate. Why don't I just look for a relationship where such things are ok?
I know your thing is to get a rise out of everyone even if its to call black white and I try not to bite but right now you can call me a sucker fish. But I do think you've totally missed the point here.
mikizee
10-25-2010, 05:40 PM
Yeah, why would you want to stay with a girl who doesn't like smoking weed if thats what you like to do? Better off finding a girl that DOES like or at least tolerate weed smoking. Then you have weed AND pussy. Everybody wins.
Thats like giving up receiving blowjobs just because the girl you're with doesn't like to dish them out. Why stay with a girl who doesn't give BJs when you could be with a girl who does?
miss soul fire
10-25-2010, 05:58 PM
Date a drug addict http://www.shadowmillproductions.com/photogallery/witch.jpg.:D
That's easier.:p
It's simple as that!
hehe, ok.
WWTDD What would the dude do?
I think you're misunderstanding me. We mutually split up. She has her issues of drinking on a school night and smoking pot every now and then. Its not me to be that straight laced, I've known church goers looser. I still work, pay my rent, I'm not in debt, still see my friends. The relationship wasn't going to work and to string a long such a young girl (21) into thinking it might as she made me give up pot forever would be a pretty low thing to do just to get 'pussy' imho. Because I'm not giving up, I've given up for girlfriends before, its fine but they'll always be a point where you take something at some party, she'll find out and it'll be like the biggest scandal since watergate. Why don't I just look for a relationship where such things are ok?
I know your thing is to get a rise out of everyone even if its to call black white and I try not to bite but right now you can call me a sucker fish. But I do think you've totally missed the point here.
you should've caved and let her change you man, sounds like you missed out on a great relationship
RobMoney$
10-25-2010, 08:37 PM
you should've caved and let her change you man, sounds like you missed out on a great relationship
Replace "caved in and let her change you man"
with "grown up and tried having an adult relationship man",
Call me crazy, but I actually find a women with goals and some direction in life and who aren't into drug abuse attractive.
Sorry if anyone's offended, but when your ability to use weed starts affecting relationships and decisions on who you choose to be around in life, you officially have a problem and perhaps letting adam know that is actually the right thing to do.
Call me crazy, but I actually find a women with goals and some direction in life and who aren't into drug abuse attractive.
you're crazy, goals and direction are lame and drug abuse is awesome
Lex Diamonds
10-26-2010, 12:46 AM
Replace "caved in and let her change you man"
with "grown up and tried having an adult relationship man",
Call me crazy, but I actually find a women with goals and some direction in life and who aren't into drug abuse attractive.
Sorry if anyone's offended, but when your ability to use weed starts affecting relationships and decisions on who you choose to be around in life, you officially have a problem and perhaps letting adam know that is actually the right thing to do.
Actually some of the healthiest relationships I know are couples who smoke weed together. As for the myth that smoking weed stops you having "goals and direction in life", you sound like a 15 year old nerd who's never actually seen a drug. It doesn't have to be a big deal. The only time shit's a problem is when one person has a problem with it.
Ugh, I dunno how this is getting so lost in translation or you're just trying to wind me up or what...
We mutually split up! I made the alcoholic/junkie remark because I was trying to be funny while still saying the truth. I could of picked up on other reasons. She is into Dance, I am into punk. She has 3 dogs, I hate dogs. Her kissing really put me off but bedroom was ok. Her bedroom is bright pink! I'm sure I had a few annoying traits to her.
I'm not looking for a relationship to smoke together, it came up when I was telling a story about being high once and it all got a bit weird. That is when I found out she wasn't cool with that (even stuff I've done in the past) and the drinking put her off to. Most I had on any date was two pints, but that was high to her. Other dates, you'd be ridiculed for being a lightweight. We mutually weighed up the pros and cons of staying together and we thought it better to split (y)
RobMoney$
10-26-2010, 07:33 AM
Actually some of the healthiest relationships I know are couples who smoke weed together. As for the myth that smoking weed stops you having "goals and direction in life", you sound like a 15 year old nerd who's never actually seen a drug. It doesn't have to be a big deal. The only time shit's a problem is when one person has a problem with it.
Paddy my man, I'm willing to bet I've got more experience with drugs than you do.
Consider the fact that my opinion is not coming from someone who is ignorant to drugs, but from someone with a masters degree in the subject.
Luckily I've advanced past that point in life. I've been addicted, went thru recovery, and now live a drug-free life.
And I'm sorry, but couples who get high together aren't healthy, no matter how well they might happen to get along. Anyone who does drugs is doing so because they have underlying issues.
Lex Diamonds
10-26-2010, 09:10 AM
You're wrong man, simple as. Plenty of people can hold down relationships, marriages etc alongside casual drug use with no problems at all. I've seen it in people of all ages, from 30 year old newlyweds right up to folks in their 60s. Sounds like your experiences were fucked up and they've made you biased (perhaps rightly so), but they're not gospel.
Dorothy Wood
10-26-2010, 11:04 AM
rob, you installed beer taps in your home, did you not?
to me that seems like a huge dedication to drinking, something that i find more extreme than someone smoking a little grass now and then.
and some women just don't want to date someone who uses drugs because society says it's wrong, and they think they need to look for a flawless mate (especially at age 21, tsk tsk adam!)
to me, that's immature.
This girl had brightly dyed hair, goes to festivals, everyday clothes are a hoody and jeans (wore far too much makeup tho). Pretty chilled out, you'd think would be the typical 21 year old that has gone down that dark dark route to hide the underlying issues that his father never said he loved him or why he looks nothing like his brother or sister or why he never got to be the car in monopoly, or whatever reason you put up as an excuse for your screw ups in life now and was ok with pot every now and then...
But she wasn't. Maybe I'll go for a 22-23 year old next, teenager didn't work out either.
DRUGS! DRUGS! CHARLIE SHEEN! DRUGS!
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