How often do you and yours have sex? [Archive]

ms.peachy

11-03-2010, 09:04 PM

Never. Ever, ever, ever.

Well that's not entirely true, but it feels that way. My daughter is on a serious mission to ensure that she is an only child. Every time lately me and the mr. have been, let's say, getting intimate (or on the verge thereof), suddenly there's a little voice in the room going "Mommy? Daddy?"

:(

If she wasn't so damn cute, we'd have to bloody kill her.

DipDipDive

11-03-2010, 09:21 PM

What's behind this question? Or perhaps rather, what's not?

Curiosity.

My boyfriend and I have been together a little over a year, used to have sex every day, now have sex about 3 or 4 times a week on average. The past month-to-six-weeksish has been a bit rough - we've had alternating health problems that have literally prevented us from having sex. I've been super concerned our sex life is dwindling but in reality I think it's just an issue of life getting in the way.

...so generally I guess I'm just wondering what's "normal" around here.

Knuckles

11-03-2010, 09:40 PM

1-2 times a week.

We've been together for hmmm...close to 15 years.

checkyourprez

11-03-2010, 09:50 PM

10 months.

3-7 times a week depending on schedules. in theory it could be multiple times a day every day if i wanted, my woman loves the pipe.

cosmo105

11-03-2010, 10:03 PM

Curiosity.

My boyfriend and I have been together a little over a year, used to have sex every day, now have sex about 3 or 4 times a week on average. The past month-to-six-weeksish has been a bit rough - we've had alternating health problems that have literally prevented us from having sex. I've been super concerned our sex life is dwindling but in reality I think it's just an issue of life getting in the way.

...so generally I guess I'm just wondering what's "normal" around here.
It happens. After a while it's no longer your top priority, and it's easy to let other things take precedence. Health issues come and go, no getting around that. It's unrealistic to think you'll both be at 100% all the time. That's where other stuff comes in. Even if you're exhausted and not in the mood, a good makeout sesh or even spooning before bed makes all the difference.

NicRN77

11-03-2010, 10:19 PM

I was just thinking of this sort of question today. I so wish I had a boyfriend because I really do want sex every day. I've been settling for my ex...which gives me action every week or so.

Bob

11-03-2010, 11:41 PM

do wet dreams count? ah it doesn't matter, i still don't get any - i can't even hit on dream ladies without choking

MC Moot

11-04-2010, 09:51 AM

Theres no real finite or consistant number to our equation…she works in a different city 3 days of the week so the spark is usually on for naughty Thursday nights as well as the weekend…morning, noon or night, when it’s right…and you know sometimes it’s simple sex,sometimes it’s the sweet love making and sometimes it’s the nasty fuck…it’s all good…like Cosmo say’s though as important as the sexing is, health is a factor and the focus of your relation changes with time, however the importance of physical proximity,touch and contact remain the same for us…

faz

11-04-2010, 11:24 AM

2-3 times a day 3-5 days a week.

Together about 3 months :)

nodanaonlyzuul

11-04-2010, 12:12 PM

2 years. We live together. We average about 4-6 times a week.

DIGI

11-04-2010, 12:16 PM

We smash nasties about 2-4 times weekly, but we're both always good for impromptu oral as well.

We'll have been together for 4 years in February.

saz

11-04-2010, 01:11 PM

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AMroejldwt8

M|X|Y

11-04-2010, 01:36 PM

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=j-WpK7j2x-E

NicRN77

11-04-2010, 02:23 PM

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=j-WpK7j2x-E

wtf??

miss soul fire

11-04-2010, 02:28 PM

Edit: Too personal. Hihihihi.:D

M|X|Y

11-04-2010, 02:29 PM

That's some shit is what it is!

I was just thinking of this sort of question today. I so wish I had a boyfriend because I really do want sex every day. I've been settling for my ex...which gives me action every week or so.

What's up with your signature then? :(

NicRN77

11-04-2010, 03:12 PM

What's up with your signature then? :(

wow, haven't looked at that in years.

it's just a quote I like...and also lyrics from a U2 song. I kinda feel I don't NEED a man to survive...but having a man around for sex is alright. (y)

MC Moot

11-04-2010, 03:46 PM

wow, haven't looked at that in years.

it's just a quote I like...and also lyrics from a U2 song. I kinda feel I don't NEED a man to survive...but having a man around for sex is alright. (y)

Bono quoting Salvador Dali...;)

Guy Incognito

11-04-2010, 03:57 PM

For the last year or so, its been once a week or so. Been together ten years.

For a few years before that, neither of us had the energy, desire or time to have a go after having two kids.

skra75

11-04-2010, 05:05 PM

Dorothy Wood

11-06-2010, 08:48 AM

Totally depends on the week. Could be as much as 5 times a week, or as little as once every few weeks. Of course we lead stressful lives and usually just pass out at night from exhaustion, and run too late in the am to get busy.

same here. currently been on a dry run because of dental surgery and sickness. haven't even been able to have a proper makeout in about a month. :/

we've been together about 14 months. and though not sexing it up as much as before, we remain completely infatuated with each other. but seriously, if I don't stop being sick soon, I might lose my mind.

sjp

11-06-2010, 10:55 AM

5 times a week sometimes 2 times a day and 11 months

Dorothy Wood

11-06-2010, 11:40 AM

geez.

sooo, how long is the sex lasting for you guys who do it all the time? because when me and my boo get down it's an epic sexual journey that lasts 1-3 hours. there's no way i would have the time and/or stamina to do that every day. :/

also, when you do it all the time, it's not as exciting. it's like you go for a week or so without it and then you're like, "whoa, i forgot about intercourse", then you do it and it's like "OMG THAT WAS FUCKING AWESOME!"

kaiser soze

11-06-2010, 06:58 PM

well seeing that my girlfriend has admitted she is a looner the dynamics of our sexual relationship have change

now I just sit at the foot of the bed and watch her blow up balloons all night

fun wee

JBernas

11-06-2010, 08:17 PM

when me and my boo get down it's an epic sexual journey that lasts 1-3 hours. there's no way i would have the time and/or stamina to do that every day. :/

OMG...1-3 HOURS? We call ourselves two pump chumps:D Sex for us literally takes 5-10 minutes tops and I'm usually first(y)

You would think after 10 years of marriage we'd have built up a little more tolerance but...no. Not that that's a bad thing though

nodanaonlyzuul

11-08-2010, 10:44 AM

also, when you do it all the time, it's not as exciting.

Don't think that applies to everyone. I would definitely disagree with you there.

Dorothy Wood

11-08-2010, 01:32 PM

Don't think that applies to everyone. I would definitely disagree with you there.

that's cool, my wording was universal, but i was mainly talking about me.

Dorothy Wood

11-08-2010, 01:37 PM

OMG...1-3 HOURS? We call ourselves two pump chumps:D Sex for us literally takes 5-10 minutes tops and I'm usually first(y)

You would think after 10 years of marriage we'd have built up a little more tolerance but...no. Not that that's a bad thing though

i mean 1-3 hours total including all the foreplay. he brings me to orgasm at least 3 times before we actually do it. sometimes i wish it could be quicker, but i can't have everything i guess!

DIGI

11-08-2010, 01:55 PM

he brings me to orgasm at least 3 times before we actually do it.

That's just stupid.

TurdBerglar

11-08-2010, 02:12 PM

you better bring him a sandwich and beer after all that...

MC Moot

11-08-2010, 02:42 PM

Reverse cowgirl reminder...;)

Dorothy Wood

11-08-2010, 03:25 PM

That's just stupid.

Hey, it's not my idea. and it's not stupid, it's awesome. it's not like it takes forever anyway, sometimes they go one right after the other, and then during the sexing, there's like a huge face exploding one.

you better bring him a sandwich and beer after all that...

yeah yeah....

Echewta

11-14-2010, 09:58 PM

Every payday.

venusvenus123

11-15-2010, 01:15 PM

i mean 1-3 hours total including all the foreplay. he brings me to orgasm at least 3 times before we actually do it. sometimes i wish it could be quicker, but i can't have everything i guess!

just wait till you have kids! You'd never get that much time to yourselves. Make the most of it, I guess :D

Us, well it's whenever I feel like it/have energy for it, really. 20 years tho and I still fancy my man

oh and he still fancies me, which is a bonus. :cool:

miss soul fire

11-15-2010, 02:19 PM

It must be hard to get interested in sex with the same person over the years. I don't know...

Echewta

11-15-2010, 05:06 PM

It must be hard to get interested in sex with the same person over the years. I don't know...

Thats why I own a lot of wigs.

paul jones

11-16-2010, 07:42 AM

I just masturbate

JBernas

11-16-2010, 08:41 AM

it's not like it takes forever anyway

I would say 1-3 hours is forever...you have a great man that will take that kind of time....(y)

Dorothy Wood

11-16-2010, 10:27 AM

I would say 1-3 hours is forever...you have a great man that will take that kind of time....(y)

heh. like I said, it's his idea! I'm just the lucky recipient.

except for when i wanna go to sleep or have to go to work. a "quicky" the other morning was 45 minutes. :(
(but actually it was :) )

I do sometimes or often want stuff to be faster, but I don't know how to say that without hurting his feelings.

Bob

11-16-2010, 07:14 PM

how awful for you. you have my sympathy. there are tears, literal tears of empathy rolling down my cheek. what an awkward situation you must be in

Bob

11-16-2010, 07:14 PM

(i'm being sarcastic)

Dorothy Wood

11-17-2010, 11:31 AM

sorry bob, those statements didn't seem as large and gross when I was writing them with my phone.

nodanaonlyzuul

11-17-2010, 11:32 AM

jealous bitter tears are a good source of lubrication for masturbation (y)

Belt Parkway

11-17-2010, 11:49 AM

jealous bitter tears are a good source of lubrication for masturbation (y)
Damn!

venusvenus123

11-17-2010, 01:16 PM

I do sometimes or often want stuff to be faster, but I don't know how to say that without hurting his feelings.

That's probably what Sting's missus feels about his enthusiasm for tantric sex