aaaaaarrrggghhferfuckssakeaaarrrrrgggggggghhhhh!

[Guy Incognito]

Thats all i can really say about the matter.

[paul jones]

stubbed your toe on the door?

burnt the chips?

Noel Edmonds on telly 24/7 ?

Call crimestoppers..

[Guy Incognito]

stubbed your toe on the door?

burnt the chips?

Noel Edmonds on telly 24/7 ?

Call crimestoppers..

no, i dont like chips not got that many doors and i dont give edmonds the satisfaction of getting angry.

Its heavier than that but i cant say too much i just needed to vent. It involves childcare, pressure, laziness, other people and no nicotine

[HEIRESS]

I dread the day when I have to worry about childcare, people who have grand-parents that live in the same city and who are willing to do it for free don't know how fucking lucky they are.

[Guy Incognito]

I dread the day when I have to worry about childcare, people who have grand-parents that live in the same city and who are willing to do it for free don't know how fucking lucky they are.

damn right, we have no support network at all really where we are. We are considering moving 300 miles away to have one which is a massive step but it could be good

[gbsuey]

yup, i would be pretty fucked if i wasn't lucky enough to have great family to have kids when i'm working, there is a downside though-it's totally my dream to take the kids and bugger off around the world but taking them away from such a great family is nigh on impossible. hope your aaarrrrggghh becomes an aaaaah soon Guy I

[Guy Incognito]

i hope so sue but i doubt it i really do, this thread has kind of gone in a different direction but i dont think its a great idea to say exactly whats going on but i am just feeling pressure of being a parent, husband, breadwinner etc which i presume is quite normal thing to worry about. It was better to write a vent thread than it was to go and finally crack and have a cigarette (3 months nicotine free!)

[gbsuey]

well good for you-i'm currently smoking like a bastard and hating myself for it but whereas i can normally take it or leave it i just can't leave it! today was gonna be the day we finally told the kids that we had split up (fucking over a year ago) and that things were soon gonna change, but it hasn't happened, so i'll share your aaarrrrggggghhh if i may.

life is proper tough trying to deal with family and relationships and work/money stresses too-don't ever beat yourself up for having a wobble mate:)

[Guy Incognito]

not smoking has been a lot easier than i thought but i still get times when i could do with one but the key is to do something else.

sounds a similar situation in that there are things that need to be said but like you say its a matter of getting on with things. I dont envy your situation but i'm sure you'll make it thru

Its just hard sometimes when i seem to be saying and doing the same things with no end in sight or no change in things.

[gbsuey]

well yeah just getting on with it has meant if i look back honestly we should've done it years ago, but bringing up kids leaves you with virtually no mental capacity for anything else and i'm sure you know. maybe just making some really small changes might help?

and smoking is also an excuse to go outside and stare at the sky for a couple of minutes!!

[Guy Incognito]

I do think that because of not smoking i have made a lot of small changes and i think thats a bit of the problem, not having that release, i am a little bit more wound up all the time if that makes sense. But instead of nipping outside, i do a bit of housework.