miss soul fire
02-16-2011, 07:23 PM
Like when you start seeing someone. In my case, start seeing someone...again (5 dates in August last year). 2 dates now so far.
So, anyway. This guy and I started going out again and he asked me (by calling me and/or texting me) on 3 dates. I said "no" in one because I was tired as hell and said "yes" in the second and in the third one I said I could go on Saturday and not Friday like he wanted, because I was going out with my friends. So, anyway, I called him this Saturday to go out and he accepted, although he had been ill all day. He ate something that was bad for his stomach. Actually, I just called him. I can't remember who asked to go out. So, anyway, he seemed in a way distant, but that's the way he is sometimes. I don't know. And he said he was tired of kissing lots of girls. I don't know. He didn't send me a message since this date. I'm not sure if he stopped liking me for some reason or that he wants me to ask him out, since I did only once this time. During the date he said "I'm always the one who says were we should go". So that's why this time I picked the place. In the last date, as in others (only drunk 2 dates, but just a bit), I kinda drunk a bit and was all "I love me". Hihihihi. Like "that guy likes me" or "that guy said good things about me". Maybe he didn't like that. I don't know. He's mysterious. Maybe he was just sick that day. And I told him I thought he only wants sex (never got it from me yet) because we have a great physical attraction and he said that he wants that, but it's not only that. He said he's just not used to say cute things to girls because it sounds fake, but he says he wants to learn. I don't really know if he likes me. He said "am I not here? even though he knew I wasn't going to do any sex with him". So, what should I do? Should I just call him and ask him to go out with me?? Or this is "his" turn and not mine?:D
I'm not desperate or anything, but I would like to go out with him again. I'm still waiting for him to call. And I don't want to call and not get a positive answer or any answer at all. I would hate that.:p
So, anyway. This guy and I started going out again and he asked me (by calling me and/or texting me) on 3 dates. I said "no" in one because I was tired as hell and said "yes" in the second and in the third one I said I could go on Saturday and not Friday like he wanted, because I was going out with my friends. So, anyway, I called him this Saturday to go out and he accepted, although he had been ill all day. He ate something that was bad for his stomach. Actually, I just called him. I can't remember who asked to go out. So, anyway, he seemed in a way distant, but that's the way he is sometimes. I don't know. And he said he was tired of kissing lots of girls. I don't know. He didn't send me a message since this date. I'm not sure if he stopped liking me for some reason or that he wants me to ask him out, since I did only once this time. During the date he said "I'm always the one who says were we should go". So that's why this time I picked the place. In the last date, as in others (only drunk 2 dates, but just a bit), I kinda drunk a bit and was all "I love me". Hihihihi. Like "that guy likes me" or "that guy said good things about me". Maybe he didn't like that. I don't know. He's mysterious. Maybe he was just sick that day. And I told him I thought he only wants sex (never got it from me yet) because we have a great physical attraction and he said that he wants that, but it's not only that. He said he's just not used to say cute things to girls because it sounds fake, but he says he wants to learn. I don't really know if he likes me. He said "am I not here? even though he knew I wasn't going to do any sex with him". So, what should I do? Should I just call him and ask him to go out with me?? Or this is "his" turn and not mine?:D
I'm not desperate or anything, but I would like to go out with him again. I'm still waiting for him to call. And I don't want to call and not get a positive answer or any answer at all. I would hate that.:p