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miss soul fire
04-07-2011, 06:50 PM
Do I have a problem?


I mean, before I thought guys didn't like me and that's right, many of them pretend to like me and then go away, but whenever a guy I like sticks around...I start not liking him. I feel everything until the 5th date or so and then I feel nothing. Weird.:/

I never liked any guy I had a relationship with either.

kaiser soze
04-07-2011, 07:00 PM
maybe you like girls?

miss soul fire
04-07-2011, 07:04 PM
maybe you like girls?

It's easier for me to like dogs than girls. I wish.(n)

I'm a guy, I guess.

Adam
04-08-2011, 12:09 AM
I find the older I get the less I'm hit by any WOW factor meeting the opposite sex. People look good but I can easily get bored by them.

Maybe it's just growing up and realising no one is special, just a mutated clone of everyone else.

venusvenus123
04-08-2011, 01:06 AM
Crikey that's very cynical Adam. Cut down on the monkey!

MSF :(

Junker
04-08-2011, 06:56 AM
Maybe it's just growing up and realising no one is special, just a mutated clone of everyone else.

Now that's a pretty accurate view concerning the human race. (y)

Myu-to
04-08-2011, 07:38 AM
Only boring people get bored.

I relish every sunrise because it's another chance for me to amaze myself with something awesome that have done.

I do often think that stupid people must have an easier life. Sure they are stupid, but since they are not smart enough to know that there is something better to strive for, they can wallow in their ignorance with a contentment that only a cow in a green meadow would know.

Myu-to
04-08-2011, 07:40 AM
MSF, I have always liked you.:)

not just your ass.

Burnout18
04-08-2011, 09:56 AM
I feel everything until the 5th date or so and then I feel nothing. Weird.:/

I never liked any guy I had a relationship with either.

Am I you? Are you me? This is the second relationship related thread you started in a month or so and i completely feel like a female me typed it out.

I have never been loved-liked any girl I have been in a relationship.... I mean, i enter a relationship for the sex and companionship (christ i should get a dog if im looking for companionship) yet i have never been super happy with anyone. I blame myself, i mean it has to be me.

DIGI
04-08-2011, 10:04 AM
Ice Queen.

Adam
04-08-2011, 10:35 AM
Ahhhh, don't blame anyone. Especially not yourself. Blame lawyers for this blame we have to find in everything. But don't blame them, because blaming is the problem.

Too many females don't feel complete unless they are in a relationship, I have it with my friends when there is nothing wrong with them. Just for whatever the reason the person they feel comfortable with hasn't crossed the path with the person that feels comfortable with them - or they haven't realised it yet. So what if you feel you're getting older. I know there is the bio thing in women to that some people want to push a kid out of their vagina but that is why you can adopt - plus you get none of the mess of child birth, someone has done the hard part.

And if you really did wanna get knocked up, I'm sure they'd be plenty willing if you just asked randomly in a bar. But don't blame yourself. Or anyone.

M|X|Y
04-08-2011, 10:45 AM
its the type of people you are going for.

maybe what you look for in a person is not really whats best for you

Helvete
04-08-2011, 11:03 AM
You just haven't met me, Roby.

MC Moot
04-08-2011, 11:49 AM
This is a prevalent or common trait amongst sociopaths...just sayin...

marsdaddy
04-08-2011, 12:13 PM
I think you could write a song about it in English, sing it with your accent, set it to a Morriessy tune and it'll be hit! Hihihihi!

Also, watch Sally Field's Oscar acceptance speech from 1985.

TimDoolan
04-08-2011, 06:48 PM
Do I have a problem?


I mean, before I thought guys didn't like me and that's right, many of them pretend to like me and then go away, but whenever a guy I like sticks around...I start not liking him. I feel everything until the 5th date or so and then I feel nothing. Weird.:/

I never liked any guy I had a relationship with either.

Don't worry. My last date 10/31/06.

tejana
04-08-2011, 08:17 PM
not a problem, miss thang. ;)

there's a saying that 'you have to kiss a lot of frogs to find a prince.' so maybe you've just met frogs: guys that aren't an attractive match for you. lots of dates make anybody YAWN!

UNLESS you're worried that there is some real fundamental issue that blocks you from a relationship. to be blunt, i was sexually abused, had alcoholic parent, etc.-- had BIG emotional issues that affected me when i started dating/having sex. If anything like that is the case for you, don't try to handle it alone, ask for help-- it's SOOO common, you'd be surprised.

abbott
04-09-2011, 07:13 AM
we might get along because..

nobody likes me and I like everybody

Adam
04-09-2011, 10:57 AM
Don't worry. My last date 10/31/06.

How do you remember? My last date was last year but I haven't got a clue what month it even was.

Myu-to
04-09-2011, 12:39 PM
He wrote it down in his diary. Sorry, I mean "journal".

miss soul fire
04-09-2011, 03:29 PM
MSF, I have always liked you.:)

not just your ass.
Hihi! And how do you know my ass?:D

miss soul fire
04-09-2011, 03:29 PM
You just haven't met me, Roby.

Maybe that's it. Who knows.;)

miss soul fire
04-09-2011, 03:31 PM
I think you could write a song about it in English, sing it with your accent, set it to a Morriessy tune and it'll be hit! Hihihihi!

Also, watch Sally Field's Oscar acceptance speech from 1985.

I'm afraid of this speech. Hiihi.


My accent is really stupid. :D

miss soul fire
04-09-2011, 03:32 PM
we might get along because..

nobody likes me and I like everybody

Hiihihihihihihi! That was awesome. We could make a great team!

Many guys pretend to like me when they don't. Once I started liking one, but...ew.:p

miss soul fire
04-09-2011, 03:39 PM
not a problem, miss thang. ;)

there's a saying that 'you have to kiss a lot of frogs to find a prince.' so maybe you've just met frogs: guys that aren't an attractive match for you. lots of dates make anybody YAWN!

UNLESS you're worried that there is some real fundamental issue that blocks you from a relationship. to be blunt, i was sexually abused, had alcoholic parent, etc.-- had BIG emotional issues that affected me when i started dating/having sex. If anything like that is the case for you, don't try to handle it alone, ask for help-- it's SOOO common, you'd be surprised.

Yes, you are right. It's just that someday you realize you liked nobody in your whole life and that sucks. But I'm not sad or anything like that. I just want a guy to love. I'm not desperate to have kids or anything like it. Actually I'm not even sure about having kids and I don't mind adopting if I get too old. I wanna be single for some time yet. I wanna travel overseas and all that. But I want a boyfriend. I guess. Not just a boyfriend. A guy who really likes me and whom I really like and we do nice stuff together besides the obvious. I want emotion!!!!!!!!!!!!:p

miss soul fire
04-09-2011, 03:48 PM
Only boring people get bored.

I relish every sunrise because it's another chance for me to amaze myself with something awesome that have done.

I do often think that stupid people must have an easier life. Sure they are stupid, but since they are not smart enough to know that there is something better to strive for, they can wallow in their ignorance with a contentment that only a cow in a green meadow would know.

Well, maybe I'm boring, but most people say I'm always happy and funny. They may be wrong, I guess. I'm also weird.:D

paul jones
04-09-2011, 08:33 PM
All I do is work,watch tv,read,internet nowadays.no wonder I'm single haha(y)

TimDoolan
04-10-2011, 03:04 PM
How do you remember? My last date was last year but I haven't got a clue what month it even was.

Halloween night. When your last date is dressed like a zombie, it's hard to forget her.

Adam
04-11-2011, 12:23 AM
That makes sense!

Junker
04-11-2011, 06:02 AM
Halloween night. When your last date is dressed like a zombie, it's hard to forget her.

hahaha..... this made my morning laugh.

miss soul fire
04-11-2011, 10:22 AM
All I do is work,watch tv,read,internet nowadays.no wonder I'm single haha(y)

Hihihihi! Me too!

Ok, so. I'm embarrassed about this thread. :o