I wanna do some different

[miss soul fire]

Have you ever took another path in your life? Like doing something you didn't believe in or doing something you've never thought you would do?


So, after nearly 2 years of being hurt by guys, now I think I'm gonna accept going on dates with ugly guys. It seems they see the value of being with a girl. I'm not real good looking, but I'm not ugly. I have a good stable job, but it's not yet acceptable for me and most people who want real real money. So I've been only going out with guys that were good lookings (but not very good looking, normal cute looking) and they always mess up with my mind. Either they want a very beautiful girl or a girl with loads of money. Because I don't get it. I meet the guy in a party or through friends, anyway, we go out and it's awesome, the guy even takes my hand, like "hey, I wanna be your boyfriend someday soon" and I'm always shy like "hey, it's weird this guy taking my hand on the first date, but hey I liked him, for a first date" and I enjoy it and the guy even makes plans with me. And then it's like 2 weeks to have a second date and the guy acts the same way and then, most of them want to do it and I don't accept it of course because I don't feel good doing this with a strange guy, so they go away. The thing is, is it written in my forehead that I'm only good for sex or what? I'm the girl that guys wanna have sex, but don't want me as a girlfriend. I kinda gave up on it, but it kinda sucks what men do to take a girl to bed. I keep thinking why I'm not good enough. Seriously, I'm not awesome, but I'm ok. I don't have a low self-esteem anymore, but when you have lots of bad experiences it makes you wonder.

So, I guess I should take another path in my life.

[M|X|Y]

is everyone either ugly or gorgeous in brazil?

[miss soul fire]

is everyone either ugly or gorgeous in brazil?

No. People start with very very gorgeous to very very ugly. I believe I'm in the middle, which is ok with me.

[Helvete]

No. Never settle for less. There are awesome people out there who look great and are genuine, honest and loyal too. I think I've found one for myself and it's worth the wait!

[abbott]

You should never love someone for money.

There is nothing wrong with loving someone with money.
Find a goofey guy that is loaded that takes good care of you and apply what you said and it will work out great.

[fonky pizza]

Like doing something you didn't believe
in


Maybe


doing something you've never thought you would do?

Yes

[Jane*]

WOAH WOAH MSF.

You are a gorgeous, successful, independent and funny girl. From my internet perceptions, you also seem to have a good heart. A total package. I think men can often be intimidated and feel inferior around girls like you, and just can't handle it. You shouldn't feel bad about being who you are - you don't NEED a dude to complete you, you want a guy to compliment and share your life with.

You shouldn't lower your morals or standards by dating ugly dudes. They'll just want to bone too- all dudes want to have sex. You should just go about your business, being who you are. The less you care about meeting someone to date and just do your thing, the more men will come out of nowhere, lining up to date the confident girl they see.

I met one of my serious boyfriends while at a skate park. I was alone; with a coffee stain on the front on my white t-shirt, bad hair, glasses and an aggressive attitude as I was trying new tricks. I wasn't looking to meet ANYONE but he came up to me and asked me out. I was embarrased, but what did I have to lose - he's already seen me at my worse.

Be open to meeting new people through unusual ways. Maybe don't always judge a guy soley where he rates on the scale 1-10. If he seems interesting enough and is not butt-ugly, give him a chance. He could have an incredible personality, adore you to pieces and ALSO want to really know a girl before he has sex with her....

Good luck MSF!

[BangkokB]

MSF: Please don't short change yourself but by the same token don't feel you have to put yourself on some sort of pedestal of reaching guys that may/or may not be out of your reach.

IMO meet as many people as you can and want to. That doesn't mean toodling bedsprings for every Tom, Dick and Hank that comes down the pike but, I hate to go this far with it, who would you rather you spend you life with: Some Beautiful People Asshole or someone that sees and appreciates all that you have to give and share? And when You say: Ugly People, I'm more than confident that you're not talking about cleft palate freaks(Rocky Dennis) of nature but probably someone that anyone else might even consider that ugly word "Avergage" Looking word.

The most important trait for you to look for is Common Ground. If you can find that then you're Golden.

I wish you the best and know that you're a beautiful person that will find her special someone but you and I both know that they happen to end up at the craziest of all places.

[BangkokB]

Funeral Homes


I kid:D

[Nuzzolese]

Unless you were only dating guys for their looks and had really high standards, I don't think you should change your expectations of others just because no one's lived up to them yet. What you want is a decent person who is decent looking and that's not a unicorn. I mean, you know YOU exist so there's a daily reminder that people like you are real. Don't ever settle, it only encourages more people to try less.

[cosmo105]

ohmyshitnuzz!

[Helvete]

LOOK, I'M HERE TOO!

[cosmo105]

HI HELVETE :cool:

[checkyourprez]

I wanna do some different...


http://bbs.beastieboys.com/showthread.php?t=96878

[Echewta]

MSF, you really need to listen to more Huey Lewis and the News. Important lessons in their music and they make you snap your fingers when you walk.

[miss soul fire]

WOAH WOAH MSF.

You are a gorgeous, successful, independent and funny girl. From my internet perceptions, you also seem to have a good heart. A total package. I think men can often be intimidated and feel inferior around girls like you, and just can't handle it. You shouldn't feel bad about being who you are - you don't NEED a dude to complete you, you want a guy to compliment and share your life with.

You shouldn't lower your morals or standards by dating ugly dudes. They'll just want to bone too- all dudes want to have sex. You should just go about your business, being who you are. The less you care about meeting someone to date and just do your thing, the more men will come out of nowhere, lining up to date the confident girl they see.

I met one of my serious boyfriends while at a skate park. I was alone; with a coffee stain on the front on my white t-shirt, bad hair, glasses and an aggressive attitude as I was trying new tricks. I wasn't looking to meet ANYONE but he came up to me and asked me out. I was embarrased, but what did I have to lose - he's already seen me at my worse.

Be open to meeting new people through unusual ways. Maybe don't always judge a guy soley where he rates on the scale 1-10. If he seems interesting enough and is not butt-ugly, give him a chance. He could have an incredible personality, adore you to pieces and ALSO want to really know a girl before he has sex with her....

Good luck MSF!

Jane*!!! Long time no see!:) Awesome!!

Thanks a lot for the kind words. All you said it's true. It's the lots of times that something happens. It's the experience thing. Like, every time it's like this, so I got tired of it. I totally understand the "I don't need a guy to complete me", but it's something I really want someday. I know people hate self help books, but I read that book by Sherry Argov (Why Men Love Bitches) 5 times!!! Hihihihi. It just enlighted me somethings. I know I don't need a book to rule my life, but it was nice. Anyway, so I've been good. I've stopped checking my phone every 5 minutes.:p And I'm thinking about new projects that don't involve any type of man, maybe my dog. Well, thanks a lot!:)

[miss soul fire]

Unless you were only dating guys for their looks and had really high standards, I don't think you should change your expectations of others just because no one's lived up to them yet. What you want is a decent person who is decent looking and that's not a unicorn. I mean, you know YOU exist so there's a daily reminder that people like you are real. Don't ever settle, it only encourages more people to try less.

Nuzz!!!!! Did you just got back because of me??? Hihihi. Just kidding.:)
I don't have high standards. I happen to know cute guys, but not extremely good looking guys. Unfortunately, in my country people care a lot about looks, like you have to be really beautiful to date just a cute guy. That's just stupid. And I'm at the same level. I may not very beautiful, but I'm ok, so those guys I met are not really really handsome or anything like it. I just happen to know the guys that don't really wanna know me, just want sex. But someday I'll meet somebody nice. Hopefully it's a guy.:D

Thanks a lot, Nuzz!:)

[miss soul fire]

I wanna do some different...


http://bbs.beastieboys.com/showthread.php?t=96878

I can't believe it took me like 4 days or so to realize I wrote "some" instead of "something".:p

And no about the ass licking.:D

[miss soul fire]

MSF, you really need to listen to more Huey Lewis and the News. Important lessons in their music and they make you snap your fingers when you walk.

Echewta, I didn't even know this guy until I read about him on Wikipedia!:p

But I already snap my fingers while I'm driving and listening to my great selected songs!:D

Don't worry, I'm a very happy girl. Everybody I know tells me that, so they know it. It's just that sometimes we get tired of something that happens all the time, but I've changed my mind about somethings, so I'll be good. Hihihihi!:D

[fonky pizza]

Take my shoes, take my shoes! and (keep!) THEMMM:cool::mad::rolleyes::D

[fonky pizza]

Be open to meeting new people through unusual ways. Maybe don't always judge a guy soley where he rates on the scale 1-10.

Unusual ways are great but have a lot of side effects.

ma...su una scala graduata da 1 a 10.....quanto?:D

[miss soul fire]

Unusual ways are great but have a lot of side effects.

ma...su una scala graduata da 1 a 10.....quanto?:D

You don't think my native language is Spanglese, righhhht?!:p

[checkyourprez]

You don't think my native language is Spanglese, righhhht?!:p

EYEtalian silly.

[miss soul fire]

EYEtalian silly.

And I studied 2 years of Italian.


Weird. Weird, man.

[fonky pizza]

Wait a minute!:eek:

[Nuzzolese]

Nuzz!!!!! Did you just got back because of me??? Hihihi. Just kidding.:)
I don't have high standards. I happen to know cute guys, but not extremely good looking guys. Unfortunately, in my country people care a lot about looks, like you have to be really beautiful to date just a cute guy. That's just stupid. And I'm at the same level. I may not very beautiful, but I'm ok, so those guys I met are not really really handsome or anything like it. I just happen to know the guys that don't really wanna know me, just want sex. But someday I'll meet somebody nice. Hopefully it's a guy.:D

Thanks a lot, Nuzz!:)


I did come back for you!! See, I didn't think that you were someone with really high standards anyway, so that's why I said you should not lower them. What do you think is the most attractive quality in another person? Some people I know say it is confidence, or talent, or a sense of humor or adventure. I think kindness is very attractive. A kind person begins to look better the longer you get to know them. I think intelligence makes a person look better and better the more you hear what they have to say. If someone is humble and forgiving, you begin to feel at ease around them and not worry about saying or doing something unforgivable. It makes them look better to you. The problems with these forms of attractiveness is that you can't see them right away. You also can't see if someone doesn't have those things right away. There are no shortcuts. You might think lowering your standards on looks will help but there are a lot of ugly people out there who are just as big of jerks as the pretty people.

[Myu-to]

anal sex.

[fonky pizza]

Real talented women need real jobs, that's what makes the difference.

[Fern]

Have you ever took another path in your life? Like doing something you didn't believe in or doing something you've never thought you would do?


So, after nearly 2 years of being hurt by guys, now I think I'm gonna accept going on dates with ugly guys. It seems they see the value of being with a girl. I'm not real good looking, but I'm not ugly. I have a good stable job, but it's not yet acceptable for me and most people who want real real money. So I've been only going out with guys that were good lookings (but not very good looking, normal cute looking) and they always mess up with my mind. Either they want a very beautiful girl or a girl with loads of money. Because I don't get it. I meet the guy in a party or through friends, anyway, we go out and it's awesome, the guy even takes my hand, like "hey, I wanna be your boyfriend someday soon" and I'm always shy like "hey, it's weird this guy taking my hand on the first date, but hey I liked him, for a first date" and I enjoy it and the guy even makes plans with me. And then it's like 2 weeks to have a second date and the guy acts the same way and then, most of them want to do it and I don't accept it of course because I don't feel good doing this with a strange guy, so they go away. The thing is, is it written in my forehead that I'm only good for sex or what? I'm the girl that guys wanna have sex, but don't want me as a girlfriend. I kinda gave up on it, but it kinda sucks what men do to take a girl to bed. I keep thinking why I'm not good enough. Seriously, I'm not awesome, but I'm ok. I don't have a low self-esteem anymore, but when you have lots of bad experiences it makes you wonder.

So, I guess I should take another path in my life.

nice, i finnally have my chance!!!

[miss soul fire]

I did come back for you!! See, I didn't think that you were someone with really high standards anyway, so that's why I said you should not lower them. What do you think is the most attractive quality in another person? Some people I know say it is confidence, or talent, or a sense of humor or adventure. I think kindness is very attractive. A kind person begins to look better the longer you get to know them. I think intelligence makes a person look better and better the more you hear what they have to say. If someone is humble and forgiving, you begin to feel at ease around them and not worry about saying or doing something unforgivable. It makes them look better to you. The problems with these forms of attractiveness is that you can't see them right away. You also can't see if someone doesn't have those things right away. There are no shortcuts. You might think lowering your standards on looks will help but there are a lot of ugly people out there who are just as big of jerks as the pretty people.


Yeah, I know. Anybody can be a jerk, but don't forget I live in the most "I need to look beautiful" country, so it's kinda hard. But you're right. It's just that sometimes bad experiences speak louder.:p

[miss soul fire]

anal sex.

In your ass, baby!!!!!!!!

[miss soul fire]

Wait a minute!:eek:

Read my hair thread about it.:p

[miss soul fire]

nice, i finnally have my chance!!!

Hihi.:o

[Fern]

^^<3<3