Re: Seriously..
It's a gamble. You can never say a person won't figure it out. It just happens that therapy synthesizes it, and sooner is probably better than later. I only call it synthesis because you could go round in circles trying to determine if a prodded and poked-out self-actualisation is as valid or more valid than the moment the lightbulb goes off and you don't even realise it (and all of a sudden you're good to go). There's probably that risk of working it out yourself. But grief is a cycle, and you just have to learn not to fight it, that there's no such thing as 'normal' to even the most 'normal' of folk and so on. waffle waffel just trying to help and such
Guy, good luck son.
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