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Old 04-13-2011, 01:20 PM
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Default Re: Kind of the opposite of being friends with an ex: doing a friend.

I say don't do the intercourse part, but feel free to do everything else.


but, I did it with a friend once, because we were both sad about our respective heartbreaks...I cried, he held me and almost cried, and we talked about our feelings for the other people. then we laughed. we hooked up a few times over 2 years, and have remained friends.

I've hooked up/made out with quite a few of my guy friends, I think it's better than finding a random. it's totally possible to do it and move on and be friends if you're both on the same page and honest about your feelings (or lack thereof).

I've started to think it's perfectly fine to have sexual tension...in my case, it's only ever developed into a kind of deep mutual respect. honestly it seems like circumstance and intent shapes a romantic relationship, and that you can have sexual chemistry with just about anyone really...it just isn't always right to act on it.

but sometimes it IS right, so go on and get it, gurl! (if you want, but don't get pregnant).



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So wait, this guy is driving around in his jeep with his cat and his television in the back and he's got his favourite music blaring away and... I think I've missed the point.

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