Re: Seriously..
I don't know if "unreasonable" is the right word, but the thing is, your feelings are your feelings, whatever they are, they're not right or wrong, they just are what they are. The important thing though is to realise that they are only feelings, and you can choose to allow them to make your choices for you, or you can acknowledge them and say "Right, this feels really big and weird and scary and awkward, but what the hell, let's have a go." If you go a couple times and think "nah, you know, this just isn't for me" then so be it, but why decide that beforehand?
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