[cosmo105]

I know I'm late but I will say that I regret my past transgressions with friends. Not that the friendships didn't survive - they did, for the most part, only one or two either got weird about it or took it too seriously and went crazy pants on me - but it eventually came out when being honest about my history with my bf. We both revealed the things we had done with friends, who are still in our lives, and it became kind of an awkward shitty mess at first. We both got over it a looooong time ago, but it took a while. Both of us experienced that it was really uncomfortable shaking their hand for the first time or whatever, thinking YOU HAVE SEEN HIM NAKERS OMG. That's the only thing I really regret about it. I know not everyone is as transparent about their history with partners, but my guy and I chose to be upfront about it and agreed that we both wished we had chosen other bang buddies.