First let me just say when I first saw this I thought it said "Condoms vs. Getting
Sniped." That'd be a pretty easy choice in my book.
Anyway, my wife and I haven't started having kids yet but she asked that when we're done I get a vasectomy (as opposed to her getting her tubes tied). Hey after all she'll have to do between pregnancy, birth, nursing, etc. I'm fine with that thought. Interesting though that you bring up that you may want to have more kids. I can see what you're saying about regretting it, and seeing as I don't yet have kids I'm probably not the best person to respond to this dilemma. Condoms are an annoyance, but I totally feel you on not wanting her to be on the pill. All I can say is that you should take your time to discuss the issue with the Mrs. and try and decide the likelihood that you'll have more kids. You can always have a vasectomy reversed if you decide you want more.