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![]() a friend of mine that moved away that i haven't seen in liek a year is coming to visit and needed a place to stay, so he's gonna be crashing here. we've been a bit flirty and suggestive, and im ok with that. i mean, i had pretty much made up my mind that if the situation presented itself i'd go for it. so everything's good right?
but now he's getting really... uh... blunt, i guess, about the whole thing, and basically has all but said "i intend to have intercourse with you while i am in town" the straightforwardness is making me quite uncomfortable. but i dont really know what to do about it. tell him to stop talking about it? that'd be weird. just go with it? still weird. ![]() |
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![]() Wow, I'd say just because this dude sounds like he's being a dick... I'd lie and say I was on the rag or something when he rolls through your 'hood. I mean, really, to just basically come out and say that... forget it, Chachi. You're not getting shit now, son.
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![]() invite chris hansen over to greet him when he gets there.
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![]() well, if you want to have sex with him, have sex with him. what does it matter if you talk about it or don't talk about it?
or just be honest with the dude. I think if you're gonna do it with a guy, you should feel comfortable enough around him to be honest. |
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![]() If I was you I would get one of my hot friends involved too. Guys hate when you do that. You would really put him in his place, once and for all.
ps and post vids plz
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![]() he said, "I intend to have sexual intercourse with you."!? hes either joking or hes got no game. who says that shit.
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![]() If you are beingn flirty and you already decided that you would if the situation presented itself, why would you get weirded out by him saying that? He might have read your vibes as saying "you better BELIEVE that we're fuckin" and he's just agreeing with you. Give it up already
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![]() Quote:
What you're upset about, I sense, is that he is taking it as a given, like it's his entitlement to come on over and get some off you. And I can totally see how that would be a turn off. So I do agree that you need to be honest with him and say to him straight out "Listen, I'm a little uncomfortable with the fact that you seem to have assumed that when you're here, we're going to fuck. Well, the thing is, we might or we might not, we'll have to see how it goes. But I don't really care to be taken for granted, you know." And really I think that's all you need to say. I think he might be a bit stunned, but it'll let him know that the chase is still on - he hasn't crossed the finish line yet, mate. |
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![]() eric... i'm 21. chris can't protect me now.
anyways, these are all god and valid responses. today i was thinking that my original post wasn't coherent because i wrote it late at night after hours of studying so i'm glad to see that you all weren't "wtf?" i think peachy has it. the thing is, i think it was already an unspoken understanding that something was gonna happen. it's just that im not that aggressive, and i've definitely never been in this situation before. shit, i feel a little awkward just meeting up with him after not having seen him in a year, even though we talk pretty much daily online. i'm not [i]entirely[i] comfortable with it, but thats just me being insecure/uptight/insane. i wanted a way to tell him to chill out without entirely killing the possibility (and making the entire visit awkward and uncomfortable) we spoke on the matter briefly, originally he asked me if i thought it would be awkward, and we talked about it. but i feel like that's plenty of talking about it beforehand. i'm feeling less weirded out now, but im sure like the morning before he gets here i'm gonna be all PANICPANICPANICPANICPANIC! |
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![]() i'm sort of in that panic mode now. dude's coming over tomorrow. i dont know how to deal with this kind of situation. oh... hi.... so uh.... what do you want to do?
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