I don't know how to flirt.

[DipDipDive]

I'm shy around boys I like and generally don't initiate conversation with them, often times I avoid eye contact because I don't want them to think I'm staring at them. If and when we do interact, usually I just pick on them which sometimes leads to punching and/or throwing things at each other. I am 12.

Tell me how to flirt, plz.

[nodanaonlyzuul]

that's how I do it. So I couldn't tell you.

There has only been twice in my life that I was able to flirt outright with someone. Both times I was drunk. And to the second one I said he was cute, but then I dropped the flirting then I started the flirting via punching thing.

He is now my boyfriend though so maybe a little of both complimenting and being a 12 year old works okay.

[Micodin]

It's easy. Walk up to a guy you like (me for example) and put your tongue in his mouth.

[Randetica]

Originally Posted by DipDipDive

I'm shy around boys I like and generally don't initiate conversation with them, often times I avoid eye contact because I don't want them to think I'm staring at them. If and when we do interact, usually I just pick on them which sometimes leads to punching and/or throwing things at each other. I am 12.

Tell me how to flirt, plz.

same here

[rirv]

I think you ladies are giving men too much credit with regards to their complexity.

[Bob]

i don't know how to flirt either and it sucks extra because guys are expected to make the first move which i'm not known for doing

try defying a gender role or two ladies, geez

[Guy Incognito]

Originally Posted by rirv

I think you ladies are giving men too much credit with regards to their complexity.

ladies, a lot of blokes will talk to a woman thinking she was flirting with them and actually she was thinking " i wish this twat would piss off" what i am trying to say is that being yourself is a good start and that blokes know fuck all really. it doesnt matter if ladies get a bit tongue tied, well not to me anyway

[rirv]

Yeah, most of us will consider talking with a girl to be flirting.

[Bob]

for example, pick-up lines such as "excuse me, do you know what time it is?" or "do you know where the bathrooms are?" have been known to give me boners

[DipDipDive]

Originally Posted by rirv

I think you ladies are giving men too much credit with regards to their complexity.

So are you saying I shouldn't be worried and that these fellas are aware that I'm flirting with them?

[Bob]

the only times i'm ever sure that a woman is talking to me and not flirting with me is when she uses the phrase "my boyfriend" and even then it depends on the context

[Randetica]

i hope there is an austrian version of bob somewhere, some lonely and love hungry dude

i would bang the fucking guts out of him

[camo]

All we really need is a bit of eye contact, and a bit of a chat.

I'm not saying that we're easy but a girl showing interest in the first place is a flattering enough prospect in it's own right.

[DipDipDive]

Originally Posted by camo

All we really need is a bit of eye contact, and a bit of a chat.

I'm not saying that we're easy but a girl showing interest in the first place is a flattering enough prospect in it's own right.

So wait, are you saying dudes think that every girl who looks at them and talks to them is flirting with them?

[mickill]

Most guys read a girl's cues quite liberally:

eye contact = she is DEFINITELY a possibility
smile = she is DEFINITELY interested
hello = she DEFINITELY wants the penis

You shouldn't have to try very hard.

[Bob]

physical contact = you're DEFINITELY about to touch my penis