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Re: Crushes
imo, the way you describe him and the relationship is so...blah. like "yea, it´s ok". Maybe you´re just in a bad moment and bored though (7.5 yrs is a lot), cuz i agree, you definitely do not have to have all of the same interests, just share a few here and there and find something you can do together though, cuz if you start living two different lives it´s where he´ll probably take your advice and find his "better match". the good thing is, i´m guessing you won´t really mind.
in my experience, i think the best thing you can do is never stay quiet and say what you´re feeling, don´t wait for things to resolve on their own cuz they´ll just get worse. like the big talk you guys had, yet you don´t really seem very satisfied with the outcome. well, that´s the feel i get from your comment! Quote:
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It's a weird situation, I wasn't bored or looking. I changed jobs and met a human I never knew could exist. There is a natural comradery that is hard to ignore. It feels good to be understood, in a world where I feel like I'm constantly trying to explain things to people. But I don't think that feeling is enough to warrant turning everyone's life upside down. Last edited by Dorothy Wood : 05-15-2017 at 06:07 PM. |
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Haha, this stupid crush fucked with my head so much, but I can’t really even remember the feelings anymore. He quit last October, haven’t seen him since. Still connected via social media, so I can see recently he completely changed his hair and clothes and kinda seems like he got a whole new group of friends. So weird.
Really glad I didn’t act on my feelings, because they faded away and it seems like he spends a lot of time on things that I couldn’t give less of a shit about. On different wavelengths now, I guess. Still no work husbands! Just work buds. Happy the drama subsided. |
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Ha! My crush quit about a year ago too. Not thought about it since - but it seemed something bigger back then
I'm married now! |
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congrats!
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I’m on my way too
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