I met an amazing guy! What should I do?? Help meeee!

[miss soul fire]

So I met this guy on Saturday in this pub I usually go. He was totally my type. I saw him once there. I never look at guys, but this time I couldn't resist. So we kissed and talked and he took me to a party with his friends at his house. He speaks Italian, fluent. OMG! He was made for me. We didn't do anything serious, just kissed a lot and some other stuff, not sex though. I can't do this right away when I meet someone. He's only 27 (I'm turning 35 next Saturday), but he said it was a not a problem. It's not. Especially if I like the guy. Hehe. So, anyway, the party was nice, he introduced me to his friends and he was alwyas a gentleman. He took me home and I was the one who asked his phone number. I generally don't like the guys I kiss so I never care about their phone numbers and many of them call me back, but I never care about it, but when I like the guy, something like that happens. I wish he magically called me, but I don't know if this is going to happen. Only people that I don't like care about me. My ex keeps texting me and I never answer him. We were drunk. Damn vodkaaaa! Anyway, I WANT THIS GUY! He seriously hipnotized me like no one!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!! I LOVE HIM! HELP ME! Hehehehe!

[RobMoney$]

Wait I seen this movie,
You're Molly Ringwald and his name is Andrew Mccarthy, right?

I love those 80's John Hughes flicks.

[Micodin]

Originally Posted by RobMoney$

I love those 80's John Hughes flicks.

Word. I need to cop some of those on blu-ray. I'm a sucker for The Breakfast Club.

[Randetica]

hope it works out!

[checkyourprez]

people shouldn't settle.

just live your life eventually someone will come into that is a good fit.

[Myu-to]

Buttsecks.

[Bob]

Originally Posted by checkyourprez

people shouldn't settle.

just live your life eventually someone will come into that is a good fit.

or they might not. life doesn't care about your happiness, it could break either way

[miss soul fire]

Originally Posted by RobMoney$

Wait I seen this movie,
You're Molly Ringwald and his name is Andrew Mccarthy, right?

I love those 80's John Hughes flicks.

You have no idea how this is MY FAVORITE MOVIE! HAHA!

[miss soul fire]

Funny how when it's someone else asking for help, people help, in my case, I get jokes instead. I'm a joker. Oh well. Stuff happend after this post though.

[ms.peachy]

Originally Posted by miss soul fire

Funny how when it's someone else asking for help, people help, in my case, I get jokes instead. I'm a joker. Oh well. Stuff happend after this post though.

Honestly though, with the way you wrote that first post, you couldn't really expect serious responses, right? I mean I took it as a joke - not that you didn't really meet a guy, but I assumed you were goofing a bit on yourself by writing it like some kooky teenager. I thought you were just having a laugh, not actually looking for advice. I'm happy for you that you've made someone who obviously makes you feel good, that's great! But I really don't get what your question is, what advice or feedback you are asking for.

[abbott]

i think I would send him a message telling him you think hes a dumb ass for not pursuing you. then tell him that your not sure if want to deal with an ignorant potential stupid person like himself, but that you might still have a hint at considering it.

I know as a guy I had alot of shots that I wish I pursued but I was to much of a pussy to do it. You cant always wait for a good guy to make a move.

Best wishes

[miss soul fire]

Originally Posted by abbott

i think I would send him a message telling him you think hes a dumb ass for not pursuing you. then tell him that your not sure if want to deal with an ignorant potential stupid person like himself, but that you might still have a hint at considering it.

I know as a guy I had alot of shots that I wish I pursued but I was to much of a pussy to do it. You cant always wait for a good guy to make a move.

Best wishes

Thanks a lot for the nice words!
I better not waste my time on someone who doesn't like me. He's got the right like most of them, but what it makes me feel sad is that every guy I like doesn't give a damn about getting to know me. They just won't give me a chance. Well, life goes on!

[Franci]

You shouldn't be sad, I mean... you barely knew him... who cares
Maybe he is not searching for a relationship at this point of his life and that's all, it's not that he doesn't want you...

[miss soul fire]

Originally Posted by Franci

You shouldn't be sad, I mean... you barely knew him... who cares
Maybe he is not searching for a relationship at this point of his life and that's all, it's not that he doesn't want you...

I'm not really talking about having a relationship. I mean, like you said, I barely knew him. But I would like to have the chance to get to know him and I wish he could give me a chance to know me too. That's all I ask for. That's what pisses me off. The fact that guys just want to kiss me and never give me a chance to know them...and them getting to know me. It sucks not to be worth it, you know. That's what I'm talking about...not worth knowing...don't forget that I've been on this road 35 years and the guys i liked nevwr gave me a chance so i dated guys that liked me and i didn't like, but i tried. I gave them the chance. I liked the way he was so I thought he was worth knowing, but I am not. And I hate the fact that he ignored me and keeps liking my photos on facebook. I wouldn't do that to someone I just rejected.
I'm backpacking in Europe in September with a friend and I wanna remain single until there and i found out he's going to Vegas in November, so I imagine he wants to remain single too, so whatever and vivaaaa! Hihi! Thanks for all the nice comments and the bad ones too!

[Franci]

Originally Posted by miss soul fire

I'm not really talking about having a relationship. I mean, like you said, I barely knew him. But I would like to have the chance to get to know him and I wish he could give me a chance to know me too. That's all I ask for. That's what pisses me off. The fact that guys just want to kiss me and never give me a chance to know them...and them getting to know me. It sucks not to be worth it, you know. That's what I'm talking about...not worth knowing...don't forget that I've been on this road 35 years and the guys i liked nevwr gave me a chance so i dated guys that liked me and i didn't like, but i tried. I gave them the chance. I liked the way he was so I thought he was worth knowing, but I am not. And I hate the fact that he ignored me and keeps liking my photos on facebook. I wouldn't do that to someone I just rejected.
I'm backpacking in Europe in September with a friend and I wanna remain single until there and i found out he's going to Vegas in November, so I imagine he wants to remain single too, so whatever and vivaaaa! Hihi! Thanks for all the nice comments and the bad ones too!

yes... but why diminish yourself like that, you shouldn't .... you're "not to be worth it" just because this dude didn't call you back?
I don't think so!
Maybe you've done nothing wrong and it's him who's acting in a weird way... don't bring yourself down too much over this thing

[cosmo105]

Originally Posted by abbott

i think I would send him a message telling him you think hes a dumb ass for not pursuing you. then tell him that your not sure if want to deal with an ignorant potential stupid person like himself, but that you might still have a hint at considering it.

this is terrible advice.