what's the deal with young females

[TurdBerglar]

i work in a supermarket with a broad range of people from all ages. i work in the backroom and most of us back there are guys between the ages of 20-27 with the managers being 35+. up front with the registers it's mostly a plethora of females still in high school. up front there's always a heavy rotation of people quitting and getting hired. there's always 2-3 young females that come and go that just cause a bit of drama when it comes to trying to get attention from all the guys in the back room. they'll just try to be flirty and attention seeking with us and we want nothing to do with them just because THEY'RE KIDS. it gets really awkward sometimes. they can't seem to accept that we want nothing to do with them romantically based strictly on the fact that THEY'RE KIDS. i routinely overhear them saying things on why we don't talk to them is because we must think they're "ugly and fat" or "hideous and boring". since they think we think that of them they have a vendetta against us and to those females that we do actually talk to that are in our age group. they try to pick fights and just cause drama and get their guy friends to come into work and try to intimidate us which usually ends up being pretty fun. or they do the complete opposite and end up feeling completely shitty about themselves and their self esteem goes down the shitter. it's amazing how there's always at least a few girls like this there that fit this cliche mold and they end up quitting or transferring stores because everyone starts to hate them for all the shit they cause or they leave out of embarrassment. and i don't like feeling semi responsible for making a kid feel like they're worthless.

why is this shit so important to females? you never see young males doing this to older females(or do you?). when i was like 15,16,17 if some older person was trying to befriend us we would be pretty creeped out. and never mind trying to talk to a female that was that much older than us. we knew she wouldn't want anything to do with us. if we did talk to her is was mostly teasing just like little brother shithead type teasing. how come so many younger females just don't see that if an older guy is interested in them that he's almost definitely a creep? i can totally understand being attracted to older people when in you're in your mid teens but i don't understand how you can't realize that the older people (should)want nothing to do with you.

[TurdBerglar]

they don't appreciate it unless you show an interest in them. they don't care if you talk to them normally. they're looking for something more than just casual conversation. if you don't flirt back with them they get all upset. it's not the lack of talking they're pissed about it's the lack of a romantic or sexual interest.

[TurdBerglar]

it doesn't say anything about relationships. there's been plenty of relationships.

these girls typically get even more pissed if you consider them just kids.

[Bob]

maybe i should work at a supermarket...

[Yetra Flam]

They just must think that they're so cool and so incredibly attractive that no male, of any age, can resist them.

I mean, come on, aren't 16 year old girls the most interesting people? Like totally!

[TurdBerglar]

it's not just the typical popular hot chicks that act like this. all types seem to do this.

[ggirlballa]

i'm 15ish and i'm just sayin none of my friends are like that or any girls i know around my age group.

maybe u just work in an area with slutty teenage girls maybe??

[Yetra Flam]

no, the only ones you notice are the hot ones. jesus.

[TurdBerglar]

Originally Posted by Ms Crafty

have you tried telling them that you think they're nice girls but you're just not interested in going out with someone you work with because you know/seen how awkward things can be at work when the relationship goes wrong?

no one should have to lie to them. they should just accept that they're kids.

[TurdBerglar]

Originally Posted by ggirlballa

i'm 15ish and i'm just sayin none of my friends are like that or any girls i know around my age group.

maybe u just work in an area with slutty teenage girls maybe??

they slut to non slut ration is just about the same as the rest of the population.

[TurdBerglar]

no matter how you reject them they feel rejected because they think you think they're not attractive. some of them understand your reasoning and some don't and refuse to see your point of view.

[Yetra Flam]

you have a ways to go when it comes to dealing with people. can't you just be nice and be done with it?

[TurdBerglar]

no

i have to be truthful


i would feel worse if i just "played nice".

[Yetra Flam]

yeah, well, people are gonna get pissed at you. what do you expect?
fuckin sociopath

[TurdBerglar]

i do not enjoy being lied to. do you? i prefer blunt honesty. that should be obvious. honesty can not harm you.

[Yetra Flam]

I like being lied to about some things, honesty about other things. i think you'll find that most females are the same.
honesty isn't necessary 100% of the time, especially when you have the potential of hurting someone's feelings.

[TurdBerglar]

i think it's pretty ridiculous to get your feelings hurt just because someone you know barely anything about thinks you're a kid.

[Yetra Flam]

yeah, but it's not that. From their point of view, you're being an unfriendly asshole and they can't work out why.

[TurdBerglar]

unfriendly does not = asshole

[Bob]

Originally Posted by TurdBerglar

honesty can not harm you.

oh ho ho i disagree

[TurdBerglar]

ignorance is bliss?

[Bob]

in some ways yeah. i mean sometimes there are people who have these sort of obnoxious personality traits that they're apparently completely oblivious to. they obviously don't know about them because if they did, they'd have no confidence whatsoever, but they seem to carry themselves fairly confidently anyways. but you just know that if you just went up to them honestly and called them out on whatever flaws they have, you'd completely shatter their self-esteem, they'd never leave the house or speak to anyone ever again

they'd be hurt, basically

[Yetra Flam]

exactly

[TurdBerglar]

get over it

[Yetra Flam]

you're the one fucking complaining about it

[TurdBerglar]

i complaining about people that cause problems for others. i feel that's a good reason for complaining.

[Yetra Flam]

get over it

[TurdBerglar]

you're absolutely right. just continue ignoring them i guess.

[Chicka B]

Hmmm what it is, is that these teenage girls live in sort of a fantasy world. They get this idea up in their head, and if they're confident enough and in the right situation, they'll just go for it. They're so confident that they don't even think of the possibility that they could get shot down. So when they do, it completely destroys their ego and messes up their fantasy by bringing them to reality. And instead of just accepting it and moving along like a normal girl, they can't because they're too stubborn, and if they don't get their way they feel like a fool and will try to get revenge. So what you need to do to avoid all of the drama is to bring the bitch to reality before any of that shit happens. How you do that, I don't know. Just talk to them I guess.

[Waus]

Tell them you have a girlfriend.