why women are jealous of other women

[Dorothy Wood]

because men will put up with the most banal conversation ever if the chick is hot and wearing barely any clothes.

tonight I got caught up in a waiting game because some dumb slut wanted to bang one of my dude friends...and I couldn't even tell which one. we had a plan to make music after the party that was going on, and this fucking chick, this boring boring slut would not fucking leave and they just put up with it. well, one of my friends left because he was mad that there were still people at the party and wanted just the close friends to stay late night.

and after that, I made some tea, but then that girl would not leave and I started to feel like I was in competition, but then I felt grossed out that she probably thought I was competing with her. but all I wanted to do is get high and play some music, and she turned me into a lady-hating jerk.

anyway, I left, she can have them. I'm gonna be so mad if they stayed up and played music anyway though.



besides that, it is really strange to see girls hit on guys you've known for along time and you know how dorky and weird they are.


anyway, I talked to a dude about violin restoration for a really long time tonight. longer than necessary, but the first 10 minutes were interesting.

[Dorothy Wood]

ha ha, I just read that back and it seems so "dear diary". oh well.

[Dorothy Wood]

ha! the guy the young lady seemed to want more just posted something on facebook. which means he had to have left like 2 minutes after I did.

I win! nobody had fun! ha!

[ms.peachy]

Social conditioning. Boys are socialised to compete with eachother based on athletic prowess and financial success; girls on physical attractiveness and attention from men. It's all too easy to get caught up in, but when you find yourself in a situation like that, if you can recognise it for what it is you can decide whether or not you want to play the game.

[Audio.]

yep. errr for the most part. eh doesn't matter.

[funk63]

Guys like girls for their looks, girls like guys for their status.
Also, men are rational creatures and women are emotional creatures.

Oh and women are dumb and boring.

[jabumbo]

i think violin restoration is cool....

[RobMoney$]

Originally Posted by funk63

Oh and women are dumb and boring.

Don't forget crazy psychos

[Randetica]

Originally Posted by funk63

Oh and women are dumb and boring.

only in most cases

[Guy Incognito]

to be honest , throwing a party and then waiting for most people to go isnt much of a plan, i've tried that shit and it never works out that way - there's always a few randommers left and evryone else is usualy too bollocksed to make a deal out of it so you end up stuck with them.

[paul jones]

Why do violins need restoration? They only make a squeaky noise.

[Nuzzolese]

How do you know that the guy wanted her to leave, and you to stay? Why are you happy that no one had fun? It sounds bitter. You seem pretty proud of the fact that you were above chasing after a man...on this particular occasion. But you've been the one trying to get with the guy before, you've been in her place in the past, looking with disdain at other girls. Were you the annoying slut who wouldn't leave, or is that something only boring people can be? Maybe she thought you were boring. She might have thought you were one of those girls who is "friends" with every guy, always there, always a threat. You know the one: She's never the girlfriend but you have to wonder, if she's always around those guys, maybe something happened once or they want it to happen again and let's face it, they're guys, so they're bound to think of her that way sooner or later. I'm just speculating.

[b i o n i c]

i dont know about this thread, but i wil say, yeah generally speaking women are fucking cunts to each other in a way dudes are not.

[Dorothy Wood]

Originally Posted by Nuzzolese

How do you know that the guy wanted her to leave, and you to stay? Why are you happy that no one had fun? It sounds bitter. You seem pretty proud of the fact that you were above chasing after a man...on this particular occasion. But you've been the one trying to get with the guy before, you've been in her place in the past, looking with disdain at other girls. Were you the annoying slut who wouldn't leave, or is that something only boring people can be? Maybe she thought you were boring. She might have thought you were one of those girls who is "friends" with every guy, always there, always a threat. You know the one: She's never the girlfriend but you have to wonder, if she's always around those guys, maybe something happened once or they want it to happen again and let's face it, they're guys, so they're bound to think of her that way sooner or later. I'm just speculating.

oh, I didn't say they wanted her to leave, I'm just saying she was a boring name-dropper who no one would even talk to if she wasn't cute. I called her a slut because she was wearing very tight white hot pants and a loose-weave lace tunic with a nude-colored bra and was dancing provocatively with men. it was her going away party, I think she just wanted to make out with someone.

I was just pissed because I really want to make music, and it's been a long time since I've been able to jam (I hate this word, but I don't know what else to call it). usually with these guys it happens late night and I have already gone home because I have to work all the time and I'm too old to get less than 7 hours sleep and still function.

anyway, I'm just saying, one guy left because he was mad that it couldn't just be the inner circle of friends. he was tired of waiting for that girl's obnoxious friends to leave. they kept falling on the ground and saying, "oh my god, we're going to die" because they were on drugs or something, I don't know, it was annoying. they were young though, whatever.

you can speculate all you want. I don't hang on people and try to get laid at parties. and that's mainly why I left (also the sun was coming up), because I didn't want her to think I was hanging around trying to get laid. I just wanted to jam.


and as I said before, the one dude who she had been flirting with more heavily must've left about 2 minutes after I did. which made me feel better because that means they didn't jam so I didn't miss it. that's all.


sheesh.

[Nuzzolese]

Is this thread about how boring and competitive girls can be, or is it about how simple and predictable dudes are for putting up with banal conversation if a girl is hot and scantily clad?

[Nuzzolese]

Originally Posted by Dorothy Wood

she was a boring name-dropper who no one would even talk to if she wasn't cute.

I guess she's aware of the first line of your original post.

[monkey]

Originally Posted by Nuzzolese

Maybe she thought you were boring. She might have thought you were one of those girls who is "friends" with every guy, always there, always a threat. You know the one: She's never the girlfriend but you have to wonder, if she's always around those guys, maybe something happened once or they want it to happen again and let's face it, they're guys, so they're bound to think of her that way sooner or later. I'm just speculating.

you know what's funny... not too long ago, a group of my girlfriends told me i was that girl. they're like "you're friends with all the guys, you punch them in the arm like they're your brothers and they talk to you about stuff they won't talk to any other girl. how come you don't date ______. he loves having you around." my reply - i'm not their friend so i can get a date. i'm their friend cause we have things in common, i tell them my stupid girly shit and in exchange, they tell me when their balls itch. it's not really a privileged position, and i'm not sure why any girl would really want to be me. these guys don't look at me like a chick, they look at me like another dude who smells less bad and farts a little less.

anyway, i ignore it when girls start getting competitive, it's really juvenile, and it speaks of an insecurity i really never wish to have.

[Echewta]

Its funny that those "barely anything clothes" cost so much.

[b i o n i c]

the first line is true, most men will put up with ANYTHING for a pretty face. i have never understood that

[Nuzzolese]

Originally Posted by monkey

these guys don't look at me like a chick, they look at me like another dude who smells less bad and farts a little less.

I doubt that.

[mickill]

Originally Posted by Dorothy Wood

because men will put up with the most banal conversation ever if the chick is hot and wearing barely any clothes.

We're able to look past it because most of us have big hearts.

[monkey]

Originally Posted by Nuzzolese

I doubt that.

im dead serious. actually, i have a good example of that too. last week, i wore a skirt and a button down shirt. nothing dressy, just not the usual jeans. and i run into one of the dudes, who looks at me weirdly and says "do you have a job interview or something?" and i just look at him and say "i can look nice too, you know." and he just looks at me like i've just gone crazy. they don't realize i'm a chick sometimes, i swear.

i think i have to add that the other girls in our group are just about the most gorgeous creatures ever to step on earth. most of them are the kind of girls that men stop on the street just to look at because they're so beautiful. and they're also nice as hell, which is why they're so awesome.

[nodanaonlyzuul]

Originally Posted by b i o n i c

the first line is true, most men will put up with ANYTHING for a pretty face. i have never understood that

YES.

A friend of mine just got in touch after 5 years of him basically dropping off the face of the earth.

Turns out his girlfriend was so insecure and controlling she "made him" stop speaking to other girls he was friends with. WTF?! I can understand if a girl is really flirty and inappropriate with your man and you don't want him around someone like that, but ANY GIRL EVER?! Sorry but you are an extremely insecure bitch. And although I care about him and he has a good heart, he was a pushover and pussy whipped to go along with it.

Especially when some of his 'girl' friends don't even LIVE IN THE SAME TOWN. These girls are JUST friends and only kept in touch via email or IM's here and there to say hi and see how things were, including asking about his girlfriend. And I HAVE A BOYFRIEND. I don't want your man, you idiot.

Unfortunately I know more than a few men that this has happened to. Don't let a girl control you like that. It is IRRATIONAL.

[skra75]

Originally Posted by nodanaonlyzuul

Unfortunately I know more than a few men that this has happened to. Don't let a girl control you like that. It is IRRATIONAL.

haha Dana you quickly forget that you are an intimidating internet celebrity to alot of otherwise ordinary girls. Like those girls who play games and stuff for g4. they are scared of you and what you represent. Usually gf's only want their men to be friends with girls who are more troglodytish than they are.

Put the shoe on the other foot for a sec. If your man was getting calls or texts from an "old pal" who happened to be a star wars nut and a crazy rocket-launcher jockey at Halo and was also relatively good looking - wouldn't you be suspicious?

[Yetra Flam]

It is unreasonable for me to suggest that men enjoy and sometimes encourage this competition and jealousy between women? Because it seems like they do. Keeps them looking hot, right?

[hpdrifter]

I think it would be normal for her to wonder and maybe even get a twinge about it but what she's saying is then when it gets to the point where someone is telling you you can't be friends with your friends anymore that's messed up.

[hpdrifter]

Originally Posted by Yetra Flam

It is unreasonable for me to suggest that men enjoy and sometimes encourage this competition and jealous between women? Because it seems like they do. Keeps them looking hot, right?

They absolutely do. I have a friend who does it to his girlfriend and she falls for it every freaking time.

[Lex Diamonds]

Originally Posted by paul jones

Why do violins need restoration? They only make a squeaky noise.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qi4L0agMKWQ

Make sure you watch past 1:20

[Nuzzolese]

Originally Posted by nodanaonlyzuul

YES.

Turns out his girlfriend was so insecure and controlling she "made him" stop speaking to other girls he was friends with. Sorry but you are an extremely insecure bitch.
It is IRRATIONAL.

I could see this kind of behavior making sense if he had given her reason to distrust him around his female friends. I wouldn't automatically place the blame on her. I know he's your friend but I've known guys who will lie to various girls, making the other girls they're casually dating look like obsessive stalkers. "I don't know why she keeps calling me! She gives me gifts all the time! I don't want to hurt her feelings!" but when he's with her he's all like "Call me later! Thanks for the presents, I love them, Babe!"

[Caribou]

Originally Posted by skra75

troglodytish

+100 lingo-cred for using this word.

Btw, I totally understand this topic.
There's this girl who claims to be my friend, but only uses me to get to my male friends blahblah. Yesterday she went with us to a festival and she didn't even speak to me and my best friend/her flatmate, because she was too busy chasing after one of my best male friends, who she's only met once before and who she knows I've had a thing for for years.
The stupid thing is that he knows about her and how she also massively flirted with every other dude in our friendgroup, fucked one of them and dumped him the day after. She then said it was 'fine as long as she kept her eyes closed'. Wtf?! That's my friend you're talking about!
I'm so sick of it that girls like that always get the attention, even if they have absolutely nothing interesting to say, dress ridiculously and only use people for their own pleasure. My guy friend/crush dude also said that 'he didn't care, he'd still do her', but I know that's absolute bullshit. He always tries to act so cool, but I know that he's not like that at all and that he's actually still a virgin. And I also know that this little slut makes a sport out of taking guys' virginities and then dumping them. If she ever tries to do that to him I will release my inner-bitch and I will kill her.

You know, It's so incredibly frustrating. I'm the one that's always there for my friends, I give up stuff just to help them out, but yet I seem to be unimportant when a little slut shows up. Sometimes I feel like screaming 'HELLO I'm a girl too! I have boobs and everything. I'm fun and sweet and I won't break your heart like all the others will. NOTICE ME GODDAMNIT!'

meh.