Just a fuck

[TOY]

I've asked this before in relation to that guy I was dating a while a back but forgot what the general response was, and now I'm simply just curious-

If a guy wants you for just sex, does he usually keep you around for a while, say, until a better fuck comes along? Does he introduce you to his parents, closest of friends, etc.?

Common sense points to no, right? Unless you're a default?

[TimDoolan]

Don't worry, everything will turn out alright.

[TOY]

Originally Posted by TimDoolan

Don't worry, everything will turn out alright.

Um


I'm not worried about it, really. I'm not with anybody now. Just for future ref?

[ET]

What kind of question is that? Just expect things to turn on a dime once you actually have sex. Anything could happen... people are dynamic. It's like asking if you're going to get mud butt after you eat Mexican food and Sushi in the same night. WHO KNOWS!

I would never introduce a friend with benefits to my parents. What kind of idiot... and how would you introduce them? "Hey Mom and Dad... meet my fuck buddy! Yay!"

[Junker]

Originally Posted by TOY

If a guy wants you for just sex, does he usually keep you around for a while, say, until a better fuck comes along? Does he introduce you to his parents, closest of friends, etc.?

YES!!! Except the 'introducing to parents' part.

[b-grrrlie]

Me and my fb were using each other just for (absolutely fantastic) sex, and were friends cause of boths extreme musical nerdiness, but resently I think we've both felt that there's something missing and we can't give it to each other so guess were history now...

[TOY]

Originally Posted by b-grrrlie

Me and my fb were using each other just for (absolutely fantastic) sex, and were friends cause of boths extreme musical nerdiness, but resently I think we've both felt that there's something missing and we can't give it to each other so guess were history now...

That's how I feel about it (minus the musical nerdiness). But he's been calling, nagging we start seeing each other again. Says real cute, sweet stuff like "When I find myself a little bit interested in a girl, I can't get you out of my head. I look for the same way you act, and your style, and your hobbies and stuff in her but can't." 'Cause I'm "one of a kind" he says, or something equally cliche. Honestly, I think I'm just a good fuck. Or I'm a mediocre fuck, and he's a bad fuck who can't do any better.

[b-grrrlie]

We only wanted each other for a fuck in the first place, which turned out to be much better than expected so we continued. He got scared after the third time cause he thought we had a bf/gf thing going on, but I said I didn't want anything like that, I'm too independent to be able to let anyone to be part of my life in that way. But then it's been too many times when he's been drunk and horny, not when I've wanted some action so things have been a bit uptight in the resent phoneconversations. But he's the best fuck I've ever had so it would be a pity to loose it. I don't think I'd believe him if he'd come calling me sugary names or anything...

Also now that I've been ill in bed all this week it feels like it would be nice to have someone there to pamper one... but that's just selfpity...

[TOY]

But... When I look at him now, I sometimes get a puke taste in my mouth. And he bad-mouths my best friend 'cause he's Asian and thinks that because I like Asian culture I like him more than just a friend. He's jealous. And I still miss my ex, 'cause despite his douchebag ways, sex was so magical. BIG PENIS is HARD to forget. And he reminds me of the rockabilly guy off of Guitar Hero.

[Frank Black]

bis?

[g-mile7]

Originally Posted by TOY

But... When I look at him now, I sometimes get a puke taste in my mouth. And he bad-mouths my best friend 'cause he's Asian and thinks that because I like Asian culture I like him more than just a friend. He's jealous. And I still miss my ex, 'cause despite his douchebag ways, sex was so magical. BIG PENIS is HARD to forget. And he reminds me of the rockabilly guy off of Guitar Hero.

My god you remind me Tulla sometimes...not a bad thing...but those who recall will agree.


And I'd break uyea I said it


or another chick who still post on here circa 2003 (least thats when her post were wild)

[cookiepuss]

Originally Posted by CoolDog182

I think, however, that some form of respect flies out the window the moment you have sex before a long term relationship.

I know maybe some guys feel this way but, I had sex pretty quickly with my boyfriend...was probably the second date and we've been together 5 years. So it's not like a rule that a guy is gonna lose respect for you if you give it up quick. that's just a rediculous double standard some of you men like to live by. it's retarded. get over it. there's nothing wrong with a gal who likes to get her rocks off.

if a girl is experienced what you guys are truly afraid of is that you won't be the best sex she's ever had.

[g-mile7]

Originally Posted by cookiepuss

I know maybe some guys feel this way but, I had sex pretty quickly with my boyfriend...was probably the second date and we've been together 5 years. So it's not like a rule that a guy is gonna lose respect for you if you give it up quick. that's just a rediculous double standard some of you men like to live by. it's retarded. get over it. there's nothing wrong with a gal who likes to get her rocks off.

if a girl is experienced what you guys are truly afraid of is that you won't be the best sex she's ever had.

hahaha oh no u didn't *shakes head*

[g-mile7]

Originally Posted by cmute rhyme

Shit, my parents know that ANY woman that I'm bringing home is a fuck buddy, but that's me, that's how I roll.

Gangsta

[Rock]

You should be focusing on scrumping the mailman.

[TOY]

Originally Posted by Rock

You should be focusing on scrumping the mailman.

Yeah.. I'm gonna do that. He tops the both of 'em look-wise even if he's a total asshole.

BUT WHY THE FUCK DO I ATTRACT SHORT MEN ALL OF THE TIME?!

[TOY]

Originally Posted by cmute rhyme

Um, you're short.

I'm 5'5"- that is average for a girl, right?

I'm talking short, like, they're exactly my height or a wee-bit shorter.

[g-mile7]

You like asian culture?

[TOY]

Originally Posted by g-mile7

You like asian culture?

But none of them are Asian

[TOY]

Originally Posted by cmute rhyme

I apologize, that is about average, you are not short relatively speaking. I think I would have trouble taking a guy that was 5'5" or shorter seriously. Is Scranton full of short people?

Think of The Office... Scranton's population in a nutshell. Seriously.

[g-mile7]

Originally Posted by TOY

But none of them are Asian

Well maybe you got a fetish for em...dominating ish'

[TOY]

Originally Posted by g-mile7

Well maybe you got a fetish for em...dominating ish'

That would make sense, actually. Although I like being submissive, said men always liked to be dominated. They like aggressive women.

[BBboy20]

*whooo* Where to start...*takes deep breathes before typing*

For any poster's disclaimer, I have no experience whats-so-ever but here is my take on this...

Well first off, WHO ON THEIR RIGHT MIND would even talk about such things to their parents!? I mean, do the parents even want to know when their son or daughter, hopefully, left the nest? Seriously, I'm aware that the parent either will internally condemn, not care, at least concerned or other things or all of the above but you guys are young adults and personally a parent would only want to know if it is physically or mentally effecting them negatively. At least any parent in the right mind would...maybe a bit over-the-top but who would want to tell them?

For somebody that says all that lovey-dubey compliments with such a scenario...is rather questionable. I mean, if their's no substance brewing inside the heart(s), saying such things can actually hurt you or both. It's like lying and if the guy was a noblemen, he might also be lying to himself. As for fucking just because of fucking, their's just too much gray area blurring the connection, especially when that female isn't a slut and when we have James Bond as a "role model". The only way, I see it, is when they both commit actions like friends.

I think, despite the whole "OHS NOZE, I MIGHT 'AVE FEELIN'Z 4 YAH, MAHN!" possibility, I think just simply fucking a friend is, at least, a feel-better route. I mean, you know each other but you also enjoying that sexual tension, go for it. Personally, I wouldn't pull a ducky dub like TOY's ex, I'd like still treat her like that cool, crazy buddy everybody loves to hang out with. You can, if you like, try to talk some puppy love but the end result might hurt her/and yourself.

As for who humps better...it's almost sound as bad as a hostile sexist comment when using it to literally make that person's crouch ashame of itself (I guess it's ok when using it on a personal bases that's not personal). Does it exactly matter? Some guys just even glad they somehow manage to slide into second base. For me...I really would not care who's better at completing the puzzle. And leaving somebody for somebody who seems to master the Karma Sutra is damn stupid and, almost for some, insulting; it's like screaming "TOOL" at her ears. . Why leave some tail when you earn double or triple or more the action?

And I'm not saying you should start becoming a Red Light Districting pimp but able to hang on to the experiences is probably worth the trip. I might sound rather shameful but at least you know that you don't have heart/heart connections, just enjoy each other's company (both eccentric and erotic), and that you would also give a high-five like cool kids on the block once in a while. I wouldn't leave a friend like that, even if she wants to stop, I'd still would hang, chat, and whatever like any pals would. Sure becoming "fuck buddy" is probably a lustful kind of relationship but...it just seems to make a pair rather "hollow" when they do enjoy each other's personality. Though, in the end ,frankly, I wouldn't mind having sex with all my single, female friends and I'm pretty I'm gonna try to avoid the "Become Romantically Closer" card because I always felt it wouldn't feel right if I ever gotten aboard on the Bang Train.

Now that I'm done, I'm gonna distract myself on something not sexual before I get a heart attack or a nose bleed. . .

[TOY]

For the record, I would never actually pursue the mailman because he APPEARS to be a better fuck. I rarely pursue men. They have to take the initiative. If he's a good fuck, he's a good fuck. And if not, stop calling me.

[beastieangel01]

men like that drive me nuts. I know exactly how that feels.

[BBboy20]

Nuts in a good or bad way?

[Yetra Flam]

It's not very fulfilling for either party. No good seems to come of it.

[jennyb]

Originally Posted by cookiepuss

I know maybe some guys feel this way but, I had sex pretty quickly with my boyfriend...was probably the second date and we've been together 5 years. So it's not like a rule that a guy is gonna lose respect for you if you give it up quick. that's just a rediculous double standard some of you men like to live by. it's retarded. get over it. there's nothing wrong with a gal who likes to get her rocks off.

if a girl is experienced what you guys are truly afraid of is that you won't be the best sex she's ever had.

God I truly love some of your posts cookie! <3

I really hate this double standard, it's so old skool, pathetic and lame. If there's truly a connection, it'll work regardless.

[BBboy20]

Originally Posted by TOY

I'm 5'5"- that is average for a girl, right?

I'm talking short, like, they're exactly my height or a wee-bit shorter.

I guess you wouldn't mind a man like Wolverine in your sex life

Just w/o the claws and yellow spandex...

[RobMoney$]

Originally Posted by g-mile7

My god you remind me Tulla sometimes...not a bad thing...but those who recall will agree.


And I'd break uyea I said it


or another chick who still post on here circa 2003 (least thats when her post were wild)

Christ, that wasn't creepy at all.